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FakeNoose

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11. I hear you and I understand

Mon May 25, 2026, 03:06 PM

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A very good friend of mine for over 30 years is losing her eyesight to macular disorders. She's legally blind and hasn't been able to drive for over 10 years. Luckily she has family and friends to help her out, also Access for trips to the doctor appointments etc. But still it's very difficult for her to get out much. She has limited vision, so a special magnifying glass allows her to read a very little bit. It's almost impossible for her to "watch" TV, but she can listen to it for the news and weather. No computers or internet of course.

The important thing is to listen to your doctors and trust them. They have your best interests at heart and they will do whatever is necessary to help you stay healthy. My friend has sweet little dog to keep her company and it really seems to help her a lot.

Good luck and may God bless you!

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