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hamsterjill

(17,756 posts)
21. But you learned, didn't you?
Tue May 19, 2026, 11:52 AM
14 hrs ago

We will have to disagree on this one.

Seventeen is not a child in my opinion, and it shouldn't require "telling" someone how to behave on a job interview. Honestly, I was working after school when I was fifteen, and I interviewed and got that job.

I have a high school junior doing some work for me right now. I would guess he's either sixteen or seventeen. He advertised a service on social media, I met with him and decided to hire him for a one time service, and his absolute GREAT work landed him an invitation to do the service for the summer. He's saving money for college.

The better qualified candidate should get the job. An employer has no duty to coddle an interview candidate. That's the measurement of whether or not a candidate can do a job as tasked. The one who couldn't stop texting failed.

Better luck next time.





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6 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

I would not have gone past the doughnut tray. OldBaldy1701E 18 hrs ago #1
And yet.... OhioBack2Blue 18 hrs ago #2
About two years ago - local ice cream store. Kid was on the phone. 3Hotdogs 17 hrs ago #3
If you have time to lean, you have time to clean. multigraincracker 17 hrs ago #5
It's been long time since I heard that expression MIButterfly 15 hrs ago #19
I usually got "get your ass to work" No cute slogans. Lochloosa 12 hrs ago #27
LOL! MIButterfly 12 hrs ago #29
Or pretend to work (Bill Hicks clip) cannabis_flower 10 hrs ago #31
My most hated saying from my Dad..... SergeStorms 10 hrs ago #36
That's a good one! calimary 4 hrs ago #42
Maybe this was her first interview ever. Did you tell her that the texting needed to stop? irisblue 17 hrs ago #4
No. hamsterjill 15 hrs ago #13
17 is not an age blessed with an overabundance of employment related intelligence tho irisblue 15 hrs ago #18
But you learned, didn't you? hamsterjill 14 hrs ago #21
Told her twice. She was there a total of ...maybe 15 minutes. 634-5789 15 hrs ago #16
Then, IMO, with that info you were right. Thx for the reply irisblue 15 hrs ago #17
This message was self-deleted by its author WinstonSmith4740 10 hrs ago #34
17? She was probably just out of high school, or going into her senior year. WinstonSmith4740 10 hrs ago #35
That is a funny story...It is sad at the same time. Escurumbele 17 hrs ago #6
Likely no exaggeration... Trueblue Texan 16 hrs ago #11
I think your point is that the parents need to tell their kids FakeNoose 17 hrs ago #7
The parents may be modelling this behavior! RockCreek 17 hrs ago #8
I would have done the same electron_blue 16 hrs ago #9
Does anyone remember the articles a few years ago? Mothers accompanying their sons on job interviews? 3Hotdogs 14 hrs ago #22
I was at a local fast food restaurant when I noticed Dr. T 16 hrs ago #10
I grew up in the 80s with that same environment - TBF 15 hrs ago #14
Were they on their lunch or15 minute break? wnylib 12 hrs ago #26
Or early... cannabis_flower 10 hrs ago #32
I don't believe they were on break. Cars backed up at the drive-through, Dr. T 10 hrs ago #37
Sounds like the manager didn't have authority with the staff. wnylib 10 hrs ago #38
I would've told her straight up to put the phone away TBF 15 hrs ago #12
same Skittles 6 hrs ago #41
A teenager, who works hard at our bistro Zackzzzz 15 hrs ago #15
The employees collecting carts from the parking corrals at the grocery store stand in the corrals and use their phones, chia 15 hrs ago #20
Kids also take notes on their phones Bettie 13 hrs ago #23
Why didn't you demand she put her phone away? Picaro 12 hrs ago #24
My kids were raised to respect work. byronius 12 hrs ago #25
Let me just tell you what I saw today... BWdem4life 12 hrs ago #28
What a difference 20 years makes, but I can understand the scenario only too well DFW 11 hrs ago #30
The addiction starts early Remball 10 hrs ago #33
We have severely underestimated the addictive power of mobile devices at the peril of our children's futures and ... littlemissmartypants 8 hrs ago #39
It just not the teens ms.pamela 7 hrs ago #40
The new clerk at the store put the potato chips in the bag, first Ponietz 3 hrs ago #43
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