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12. I would've told her straight up to put the phone away

Tue May 19, 2026, 10:28 AM

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at the start. My kiddos are 22 and 19. We are older parents and have no problem w/telling them when the phones aren't necessary. It isn't that often because we are on screens a lot ourselves. But I have already explained to them that if they go to work for big companies etc all computer use can be monitored. I've been very clear about that because kids really are clueless - they are in the moment and don't think.

As a manager I think framing it as "there are some ground rules here, we keep our coats here, here's where you would clock in at the beginning of the shift (is that still a thing - it was when I had those restaurant jobs), this is when you put your phone in your pocket - you won't be on it when you're on duty", etc. I'd just spell it out.

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And yet.... OhioBack2Blue Tuesday #2

About two years ago - local ice cream store. Kid was on the phone. 3Hotdogs Tuesday #3

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Maybe this was her first interview ever. Did you tell her that the texting needed to stop? irisblue Tuesday #4

No. hamsterjill Tuesday #13

17 is not an age blessed with an overabundance of employment related intelligence tho irisblue Tuesday #18

But you learned, didn't you? hamsterjill Tuesday #21

Told her twice. She was there a total of ...maybe 15 minutes. 634-5789 Tuesday #16

Then, IMO, with that info you were right. Thx for the reply irisblue Tuesday #17

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17? She was probably just out of high school, or going into her senior year. WinstonSmith4740 Tuesday #35

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Likely no exaggeration... Trueblue Texan Tuesday #11

I think your point is that the parents need to tell their kids FakeNoose Tuesday #7

The parents may be modelling this behavior! RockCreek Tuesday #8

I would have done the same electron_blue Tuesday #9

Does anyone remember the articles a few years ago? Mothers accompanying their sons on job interviews? 3Hotdogs Tuesday #22

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I grew up in the 80s with that same environment - TBF Tuesday #14

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I don't believe they were on break. Cars backed up at the drive-through, Dr. T Tuesday #37

Sounds like the manager didn't have authority with the staff. wnylib Tuesday #38

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