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2. I had a woman stay with me for a couple of months because she was in hard times. She had so much stuff

Tue Mar 24, 2026, 05:39 PM

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I asked her why she wouldn’t give some of that stuff away..she had dentures but a waterpic, electric toothbrushes in the bathroom, for example. She told me her xhusband had lied to her for a long time about a storage unit they had with her grandmother’s things, mementos from her younger sister that had passed away and lots of other personal items and the storage place had long auctioned off their unit so she felt safe with her things close by. I was so upset. At myself mostly because I stuck my nose in None of your Business and that lesson has never been forgotten. Live your life as your please and with whatever pleases you. These experts have no idea who we are or the circumstances. Be yourself and be happy 🌺

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