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15. You are so welcome Ziggysmom,

Tue Mar 3, 2026, 06:07 PM

Mar 3

I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.

When my friend Rory died, I lost the one person who I shared so much of my day to day life with.
I found myself wanting to share or discuss a moment or event and have been left with no-one to share that with.

That's really hard. I've gradually tried talking to others, but I have to remember that developing those shared moments takes time, energy and a commitment from me.

I will say it has to be worth the effort, as those memories with Rory are truly priceless, as I'm sure yours with your husband are as well.

Please give yourself permission to be where you are, and to try new things when you're ready.
God Speed Ziggysmom.

Love, John

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Good morning my DU family, [View all] JMCKUSICK Mar 3 OP

Good morning, John. Scrivener7 Mar 3 #1

Hi Scrivener7, I'm glad to see you. JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #2

Glad to see you too. Scrivener7 Mar 3 #3

A very good morning to you, John. no_hypocrisy Mar 3 #4

Ant to you No_Hypocrisy JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #9

Good Morning JMCKUSICK (John) Emile Mar 3 #5

Hi Emile, how are you doing? JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #10

Have a great day samplegirl Mar 3 #6

Thank you Samplegirl, that's very sweet. JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #11

Gm, John SheltieLover Mar 3 #7

Thank you SheltieLover JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #12

Good Morning, John. Have a terrific day. debm55 Mar 3 #8

Hi Debbie, I hope all is well. JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #13

Hi Dear John, this post really hit home and got to me. My husband died 2/7 and I feel so Ziggysmom Mar 3 #14

You are so welcome Ziggysmom, JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #15