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46. Thanks Miguelito Loveless
Sat Apr 11, 2026, 12:38 AM
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It is a level of go team I don’t get. I never liked Swalwell (for other reasons) and this doesn’t surprise me.

I usually havs decent instincts though I shut up often as I am generally isolated as is.
This is why women don’t come forward.

It follows a familiar pattern. I support these women. Good for them. This is why women’s rights are in the toilet.

Fuck Swalwell..well okay unfortunate choice of words. To hell with this asshole. It is going the Cuomo way. It is upto four women. It doesn’t sound at all like a hit job.

https://edition.cnn.com/2026/04/10/us/eric-swalwell-sexual-misconduct-allegations-invs

CNN found corroboration for key elements of each of the women’s claims, including the former staffer who said she was sexually assaulted. Two family members and a friend said in interviews with CNN that she told them about the alleged 2024 assault in the following days, and CNN also reviewed text messages she sent two friends describing her allegations at the same time. “I was sexually assaulted on Thursday,” she wrote to one of her friends, adding: “By Eric.”

The woman also shared medical records related to her receiving STD and pregnancy testing after the alleged assault.

For the woman who connected online with Swalwell over Democratic politics, a family member and two friends confirmed she told them last year about the incident where she ended up intoxicated in his hotel room. CNN also reviewed messages between her and Swalwell, including a photo he sent her that matches footage of him during a CNN interview in her city on the night they met in person.

The women described a similar pattern of events: Swalwell, who is married and has three children, showed close interest in their lives when they were in their twenties and finding their footing professionally, making them feel special and even starstruck. Then, they said, he would send them increasingly sexual messages. Many said they reciprocated and engaged with him in part because of his position of power. In some cases, those inappropriate exchanges escalated to alleged unwanted physical touch or sexual assault, often tied to episodes of heavy drinking.


I support these women. I supported the women who came out against Trump, against Gaetz, against Cuomo and I support the women who have come out against Swalwell.

I don’t join fake feminist cults or any groups on the left except from a distance. I am not a group, mob or cult person. I myself brush off various online “outrage of the week” bullshit things. I was unimpressed by that Tim Hunt thing for instance. Not one of his students or postdocs said he was a harasser or a creep.. He made a stupid joke and in the context it waa not found offensive by the women present.
And some shit stirrer hyped it.

I see offensive humor and art and rarely mind except when it is creepy and that is in isolation in my room. I think Sunny in Phialdelphia for instance is one of the funniest shows I have ever seen. But it is not gratuitous. I wish this was a less serious conversation than it is.
But I have seen this for years. Genuine disregard for women’s rights, brutality towards minorities (whether it was the police brutality that triggered blm or the present vicious treatment of undocumented workers or endemic harassment of women).

It follows a tiresome pattern of mob dynamics of initial skepticism and attacks or callousness towards the targets and survivors unless there is an agenda. Followed by mob like brainless attacks on every joke that is not so toothless and defanged that no one anywhere is ever offended. Offensive stuff is sometimes the most meaningful stuff when it is is offensive sanely. What is worrying is this pattern of human mob mentality and that too when a collection of creeps in tech have taken us all hostage and force second rate solutionism.

Usually the policing of language etc and the usual sleazy craven PMC tosh that follows the original lack of giving a shit is the worst response as is online influencing. There is no respite for anyone from constant critical thinking and willingness to being wrong as unpleasant as it is. This itself sounds canned but I do know what it actually means. The whole thing strains my never very easy temper daily.

And now with worthless and parasitic ai (Ai!!!!) and clunkware vs shitty, creepy gig jobs (humans!!!) in between.

All of this leads to predictable backlashes eroding the slim gains made for progress.

Part of being human is being able to assess such things as humans who actually give a shit would.

This isn’t like the Tim Hunt thing (that is the only instance where I saw something that looked like an instance of a clunky joke that did not land getting out of proportion response from the type pf online mob that is rarely around when it is something actually serious).

These are credible sexual assault allegations against Swalwell and are very familiar to women who know that you get attacked.

Alone I will always support screwed over women and people (including decent low power men when they are unfairly attacked when alone). I respect these women and stand with them. There is nothing feminist about backing powerful women or joining mobs when you cannot back women (or men) at the bottom. I also back men at the bottom who are shat on. Life isn’t a quid pro quo or cult teamwork. It is about having some goddamn principles that can weather the test of time and circumstances.

I have only had courage finally now when things have gotten so bad that mobbing is harder since everyone is in shell shock lately. I hate mob mentality. But I am isolated enough that I need at least one person to speak out first. Usually I just leave and exit society as it gets more and more barbaric and self serving. This is a good time for me to come out.

Thanks for getting the ball rolling Miguelito Loveless.

I wish I lived in a less stupid society but I don’t. It is sad that I spend much of my time lately staring at the Many Worlds Theory and wondering why I am in this one.
I have to go pen a defence of my idiotic former mentor in the Writing Forum who was a clunker but not a bad man or sexist or a creep. Just the type who doesn’t rock the boat and those types are a strain. Maybe instead of taking some brainless PMC class he should be guided by his wife (who was a decent woman and not an Alise New-the grotesque wife of Lawrence Summers. I look at people’s spouses when I cannot assess men as well.).

A Tim Hunt is what he was. I sympathized with Hunt’s students and postdocs. I have to go write a support letter for that clunker defending him fully while making sure both complaints and support are registered as they should be.
He is a clunker as far as managing humans goes. That is usually all these ai shills. Can’t stand interacting with humans so ai or more likely “ai” is the solution.

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Too intoxicated to consent, twice? rzemanfl Friday #1
It's not that odd that people who work together sometimes hang out together and drink Deminpenn Friday #36
That also means that, if nothing happened, no one will believe you. OldBaldy1701E Saturday #53
True enough Deminpenn Saturday #59
that sucks Kali Friday #2
Right before Rebl2 Friday #18
Roger Stone involved too. travelingthrulife Friday #23
So weird how it just popped up. CrystalwolfLady Saturday #78
The truth is that Eric Swalwell was leading in the gubernatorial race... pandr32 Saturday #77
With the self erasing platforms, can't you take a karynnj 12 hrs ago #87
accusation maliaSmith Friday #3
As we don't have all the factual information, I say what I always say no_hypocrisy Friday #4
Roger Stone. travelingthrulife Friday #24
And the distraction caused by that dichotomy is usually out of proprtion to the alleged events themselves. ... marble falls Friday #28
"Either way I think his run is over." OrwellwasRight Saturday #80
It is a problem, one with no satisfactory resolution. Pisses me off. We could have had a President Franken. ... marble falls Saturday #82
Check the accusers bank accounts... New home? etc...nt mitch96 Friday #38
I hope not! I would say, welp, I'll go when y'all tell Pedo potus to go... CrystalwolfLady Saturday #79
Innocent public figures must aggressively defend themselves Raven123 Friday #5
Eric's been around too long, to have accusations like this now. I suspect that this is a false attempt by some on the SWBTATTReg Friday #6
Andrew Cuomo was an elected official for almost 14 years before he was accused Jose Garcia Friday #8
Yup, and Eric does say TexasBushwhacker Saturday #74
Swallell graycampervan Friday #40
I like Eric's statement RussBLib Friday #7
Consenting adults, at least one of whom worked for him. karynnj 12 hrs ago #88
Pelosi and Schiff have said he should exit the race, so I think he's finished. deurbano Friday #9
Shame on Pelosi and Schiff. They need to keep their mouth's shut on this until the evidence, if there is Escurumbele Friday #12
My first choice has been Swalwell. (After Kamala decided not to run, to my great disappointment.) And I think the timing deurbano Friday #19
Iʻve been looking forward to the day I could volunteer for his Presidential run. mahina Saturday #50
I initially assumed it was just dirty tricks. (The timing!) And it just seemed so at odds with my perspective deurbano Saturday #60
Same whole process over here. mahina Saturday #70
Yep. Lets hear them tell trump to leave/Resign while they are making judgements.... CrystalwolfLady Saturday #85
Pelosi and Schiff said that Biden should exit the race. usonian Friday #15
This Bayard Friday #31
Without being mean, may I point out that Schiff did a hatchet job on Katie Porter for senator, the #2 democrat in polls usonian Friday #33
I'm in the same boat Lifeafter70 Saturday #81
Here are the latest standings I found. Might be stale already, usonian Saturday #83
Of course. Waving the white flag before any evidence or hearing. travelingthrulife Friday #25
I'm sorry, but I just don't buy this. hamsterjill Friday #10
Yeah...have those "unsolicited nude messages" been provided to lawyers? If so Bengus81 Saturday #54
There's a plausible scenario we'll have 2 Repub candidates in Nov. SpankMe Friday #11
"sexually assaulted her twice while she was too intoxicated to consent" Polybius Friday #13
It means they had sexual intercourse Quiet Em Friday #16
Thank you! Polybius Friday #17
No rush to judgment please duckworth969 Friday #14
Show me the proof. If three of them got nude phone pics then someone MUST have saved Bengus81 Saturday #76
Post removed Post removed Friday #20
I just turned my TV on and already saw anti-Swalwell ads BigmanPigman Friday #21
Roger Stone is at it again. travelingthrulife Friday #26
How do you know he is behind this? BigmanPigman Friday #29
Steyer Jvp Saturday #44
You're correct. I just Googled, "Is Tom Steyer tryng to discredit Eric Swalwell?" BigmanPigman Saturday #48
How did Roger Stone know ahead of the story??? ultralite001 Saturday #66
Since she was a staffer, you can't deny knowing her, can you? Buddyzbuddy Friday #22
And the staffer is not the only one who has come forward. deurbano Friday #34
Well, I've been wrong before. But I don't believe it Figarosmom Friday #27
Who benefits most? BidenRocks Friday #30
Well, damn Politicub Friday #32
How convenient JoseBalow Friday #35
Just check her offshore bank account. Linda ladeewolf Saturday #56
All 4 of them? MichMan Saturday #58
I'm sorry, but Pototan Friday #37
CA House seats follow the same election rules Retrograde Saturday #71
I think you missed my point Pototan Saturday #72
Interesting all the folks casting aspersions on the woman Miguelito Loveless Friday #39
Thanks Miguelito Loveless jfz9580m Saturday #46
Many of the posts about this are horrible. yardwork Saturday #57
Agreed RoseTrellis Saturday #67
When there is kacekwl Saturday #84
Enough now? RoseTrellis 15 hrs ago #86
Not in CA, but have seen Swalwell a lot on MSNBC/MSNOW Deminpenn Friday #41
Of course the woman is a liar iemanja Friday #42
Trump and his billionaire buddies traffic and screw kids, yet the torches and pichforks are out for Swalwell hadEnuf Friday #43
Imagine if Republicans held Republicans to this standard. halobeam Saturday #47
Totally not fair that Democrats can't rape and sexually harass women like Republicans Jose Garcia Saturday #65
I guess innocent until proven guilty is just for the Republicans. hadEnuf Saturday #68
What's wrong with wanting to see proof? Where are those unsolicited pictures? Bengus81 Saturday #75
Wait for the evidence before judging Swalwell. Seems too convenient for Republicans. kiranon Saturday #45
Here we are again catchnrelease Saturday #49
My sentiments exactly. All of it. Edwards (who I also supported)... BUT on the other hand, Franken... and Roger Stone. deurbano Saturday #61
I think Katie Porter is great TexasBushwhacker Saturday #73
This Ex-staffer, along with scores of other Ex-staffers, must be chomping at the bit to tell their stories. SalamanderSleeps Saturday #51
Damn it! EuterpeThelo Saturday #52
Everything you said. deurbano Saturday #62
Everything you said, back! EuterpeThelo Saturday #64
He needs to step down berksdem Saturday #55
I agree, and he's come out and admitted it TexasBushwhacker Saturday #69
And as is the norm LPBBEAR Saturday #63
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