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In reply to the discussion: We are making some changes to the moderating/jury system. (THIS IS IMPORTANT.) [View all]JustAnotherGen
(34,129 posts)I mean I had one person literally following me around on posts 'screaming online' saying: This is disruptive! This is disruptive!
All I could imagine was a shrill vicious 13 year old girl. So I put them on ignore. But before that I kept them off of serving on any juries.
There seems to be this: I'm better than you/everyone attitude if you DON'T put people on ignore. Or if you 'trash' keywords - then you are bad bad baaaaaaaaaad.
But I do those things. It's not because I'm narrow or 'terrified' of other thoughts - it is because In Real Life:
I am known for having VERY little tolerance for nonsense.
I'm not going to change that about myself at 40 years of age - so if I think someone is filled with nonsense, stupidity, has a shrill.whiney and loud 'online' voice, posts about things I'm not interested in - there ya go!
There's nothing wrong with saying: I'm not into kitten posters, never had a single one on my wall as a little girl, and never had one on my wall in my college dorm . . . guess what? Kitteh and Kittens are keywords I have trashed. Some folks love those threads and I say 'good for them'. Me - It's a waste of my time.
Ignore and blocking people from serving on juries that you KNOW have a history of online bullying, following people around, instigating nonsense - is a pretty good way to Take What You Need And Leave The Rest.
And that's something I've brought with me from my Admin/Moderating at a twelve year old site/community . . .
I've literally put that in response to the bully faction here who I don't know -are just angry to be angry and want a fight -at a get this:
A freaking web site. It's a freaking web site! :rotfl:
Take What You Need And Leave the Rest - no one will EVER hide a post because you responded to someone with that.
If you hug and tell them we have to agree to disagree - same thing.
First hand experience tells me this is so.