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QueerDuck

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15. Does he have a "porn stash buddy"?

Reply to Fiendish Thingy (Reply #11)

Sun Jul 12, 2026, 04:43 PM

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A porn stash buddy is a colloquial term for a trusted friend tasked with deleting or hiding an individual's adult material and private browsing history in the event of their unexpected death. The concept serves to spare grieving family members from discovering embarrassing or highly personal files.This informal "buddy system" ensures that someone you trust will immediately access your devices, browser history, and physical collections to permanently remove them before anyone else goes through your belongings. While sometimes used as a running joke or urban legend among friends, it highlights the growing modern necessity for managing digital privacy and personal legacies.

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Advocate.com: Graham consistently denied being gay [View all] QueerDuck Sunday OP

Most people on our side of the aisle only found it amusing because he was a Republican and hung around with Vinca Sunday #1

Does it matter, realistically. In the grand scheme of things why do we care? Srkdqltr Sunday #2

I think it matters because public policy has real-world consequences. QueerDuck Sunday #4

Yes , but he's dead. Legacy is nothing. It will change over time. Even the most well known have their back story change Srkdqltr Sunday #6

Yes, he's dead. I already addressed that. The consequences of his actions did not die with him. QueerDuck Sunday #10

Agree 100 percent, QD... B.See Sunday #14

Now if someone steps forward with multigraincracker Sunday #28

The legislation he authored and voted for is on record. I think that's why it matters Torchlight 19 hrs ago #35

I care because I'm gay Random Boomer 21 hrs ago #30

I just figured the man was asexual . Dan Sunday #3

There were alleged male prostitutes that would disagree with that assessment mr715 Sunday #5

If he was gay he would've been a lot more outspoken against gay marriage biocube Sunday #7

While he may have been homosexual, he wasn't gay. David__77 Sunday #8

Are you being ridiculous or making a joke? ColoringFool Sunday #19

What an odd response. Random Boomer 21 hrs ago #31

Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't Sympthsical Sunday #9

There is a author I have read a bunch of his books Tree Lady Sunday #18

The guy from Cinepals, per chance? Hassin Bin Sober Sunday #23

HOW DID YOU KNOW?! Sympthsical Sunday #24

LOL Hassin Bin Sober Sunday #25

I love this pull from absolute left field Sympthsical Sunday #29

Somebody is going to cash in a write a book about being Graham's lover Fiendish Thingy Sunday #11

Does he have a "porn stash buddy"? QueerDuck Sunday #15

Here's my take, and it''ll be controversial SpankMe Sunday #12

His hypocrisy is the heart of the matter. mr715 Sunday #13

Your 3rd paragraph is quite illogical. If a gay politician...... ColoringFool Sunday #17

Trappings wasn't a good word, but I was struggling to make a point SpankMe Sunday #22

I get your point, I just disagree Random Boomer 21 hrs ago #32

It MATTERS because, I firmly believe, LG allowed himself to be blackmailed... . ColoringFool Sunday #16

I couldn't have cared less what his sexual orientation was. I don't care what anyone's sexual orientation is. Raftergirl Sunday #20

The whole thing is b.s. Being never married isn't an indication of anything. valleyrogue Sunday #21

Marriage is not a tell, either way Random Boomer 21 hrs ago #33

Then why hasn't there been any reliable reporting on it? valleyrogue 19 hrs ago #34

The way he talked confused homophobes. rickyhall Sunday #26

Omg..he was gay. evemac Sunday #27