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CrispyQ

(41,177 posts)
7. They have every damned excuse except the real one--we haven't created a society that supports having a family.
Tue Jun 16, 2026, 12:08 PM
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Too many young people go into their adulthood with huge college debt. Single family houses in my area start at half a million. Child care can eat up an entire paycheck. Employers cut more slack for workers with children, but I wouldn't call any company I worked for "family supportive." And once they leashed us with pagers, & then smartphones, our private life was open for invasion & I worked for two companies that didn't have much respect for your off-time. And these weren't high-up positions, either. Then there are the jobs where they give you your schedule a few days in advance. WTF? How do you possibly plan child care if you only get your schedule a few days before work?

And I didn't even touch on the issue of abortion/miscarriage & the life/health risk women take by getting pregnant. Oh, and don't forget pregnant & postpartum women have an increased risk of being murdered.

But hey...smartphones.

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Mom yells to kid "Get off the phone and have sex!" Nanjeanne Tuesday #1
You can make babies while staring at your smartphone milestogo Tuesday #2
Im sure there is an app n/t gay texan Tuesday #4
You win the internet. jeffreyi Tuesday #15
I suppose if their take was "people just watch porn on their smartphone and pleasure themselves" AZJonnie Tuesday #3
Eight billion miracles is enough. CrispyQ Tuesday #8
I agree. We don't handle too many people very well. OC375 Tuesday #14
It's like blaming video games on real life violence. sakabatou Tuesday #5
well - at least the poster is identifying it as dumb as dirt. stopdiggin Tuesday #6
They have every damned excuse except the real one--we haven't created a society that supports having a family. CrispyQ Tuesday #7
There is also some conflicting pressure based on how society judges women on their looks AZJonnie Tuesday #12
That's a very shallow statement about women LearnedHand Tuesday #19
I'm not "accusing women", I'm saying there are a % of women for whom this calculus would be considered AZJonnie Tuesday #22
It did. Thanks. LearnedHand Tuesday #23
Perhaps, and of course this is completely hypothetical gay texan Tuesday #9
People are getting smarter about deciding Bettie Tuesday #10
Perhaps it's not the phones per se, but the addictive social media apps on them. Intractable Tuesday #11
Perhaps the world at present in not a very nice place for children randr Tuesday #13
There are many reasons. Diamond_Dog Tuesday #16
My daughter doesn't want kids. Happy Hoosier Tuesday #17
Sigh LearnedHand Tuesday #18
might be the only good thing about them mike_c Tuesday #20
"America's birth rate has plunged." area51 Tuesday #21
Here is the real explanation for it synni Tuesday #24
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