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DFW

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36. I live in Germany, speak the language fluently, and am married to a German
Thu Jun 11, 2026, 05:17 PM
Jun 11

Sorry, but your friends and acquaintances are all wet. The Germans can get stodgy and a bit full of their rules and bureaucracy, but they are not idiots. They know perfectly well how strong the opposition to Trump is inside the USA, because their news media is full of it day in and day out. Plus, Americans that visit tend to be a majority of educated, reasonable people who are only too eager to tell anyone who will listen that American doesn not mean Trump-supporting any more than Russian means Putin-supporting.

It obviously means a lot to the locals that I can speak their language, but not ONCE have I experienced a hostile reaction from merely telling peoplpe where I was born. You are a hundred times more likely to be asked if you would take a few minutes to practice their English than you are to be trashed for your nationality. I travel almost every day for work, and this goes not just for Germany, but for the rest of Europe as well. I speak the languages of most surrounding countries as well, and this goes for all of them, too. France, Belgium, NL, Switzerland, Austria, Poland, Denmark, it doesn't really matter much. Reasonable, friendly behavior is almost always reciprocated.

Come on over. Have no fear. On the contrary, help the rest of us show the Europeans how UNLIKE Trump we really are!

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Following Sedona Jun 11 #1
I guess these colors *do* run? Tim S Jun 11 #2
It gets complicated when the president claims the flag as his own tavernier Jun 11 #7
That's A Rather Nasty Implication And A Nonsensical .... ColoringFool Jun 11 #17
I live in England, fwiw róisín_dubh Jun 11 #3
Yes. The "Ugly American" phenom is real. I worked overseas for years and nearly everyone hlthe2b Jun 11 #5
it's also a very old stereotype LymphocyteLover Jun 11 #13
Well, When This Century Has Been Dominated By Our ILLEGAL INVASIONS AND... ColoringFool Jun 11 #18
And? There is a reason stereotypes persist. I saw it first hand and learned to avoid it because hlthe2b Jun 11 #19
An old stereotype resurrected by a president who is the ultimate ugly American. -nt CrispyQ Jun 11 #28
the loud ones get attention Skittles Jun 11 #32
When I went to Europe, I was also mistaken for a Canadian. haele Jun 11 #34
It has been like that for a long time genxlib Jun 11 #8
Being polite and respectful helps always Easterncedar Jun 11 #4
I have been to various parts of Europe twice this year. Everyone was friendly and welcoming. Lonestarblue Jun 11 #6
I was in Europe kairos12 Jun 11 #9
We returned from a family visit last month after 3 weeks in Germany: there were no issues. MLWR Jun 11 #10
My neighbor just returned from Europe HAB911 Jun 11 #11
In Sept of 2016 while visiting my aunt & uncle in western Switzerland; she took me and a cousin to Paris. While there... electric_blue68 Jun 11 #37
JEEZE HAB911 Jun 11 #39
Right?! Bummed me out for a few mins...but then got focused on getting to the Eiffel Tower! electric_blue68 Jun 11 #40
Well, since a good chunk of us are struggling just to survive each day... OldBaldy1701E Jun 11 #12
My teenager is over there on a school trip Dr. Shepper Jun 11 #14
We were not treated badly! WVGIRL Jun 11 #15
Sitting in Sofia Bulgaria al_liberal Jun 11 #16
That kind of warnings makes me irate. sinkingfeeling Jun 11 #20
I can only echo what others have said. cab67 Jun 11 #21
Trump is ruining travel for decent Americans. That's why no decent restaurant or resort should provide service to any ChicagoTeamster Jun 11 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author sinkingfeeling Jun 11 #23
I was in France and Spain last summer and was never treated badly. yardwork Jun 11 #24
wear an obama hat. mopinko Jun 11 #25
I haven't seen it there in recent trips JustAnotherGen Jun 11 #26
My 15 year old grandson is in Germany on an exchange school trip. BoomaofBandM Jun 11 #27
Was in Frankfurt and Cologne a week ago.... Melon Jun 11 #29
My experience last year in Frankfurt, at a party, was that other guests were cautious initially, but once wiggs Jun 11 #42
Just got back from Germany actually MenloParque Jun 11 #30
My experience as well. Germany and the UK Melon Jun 12 #43
You'll definitely be asked your opinion of Trump in the first conversation with anyone overseas. sboatcar Jun 11 #31
SO and I traveled through Europe in October mcar Jun 11 #33
I live part time in England GenThePerservering Jun 11 #35
I live in Germany, speak the language fluently, and am married to a German DFW Jun 11 #36
Thank you to you and to everyone who answered. tavernier Jun 12 #46
Had a wonderful time in Paris when my aunt took me and a cousin from where I was visiting them in Switzerland.... electric_blue68 Jun 11 #38
One thing we did Unwind Your Mind Jun 11 #41
I'm always floored by people thinking they deserve to be chewed out abroad, or should pretend to be from somewhere else rictofen Jun 12 #44
I've lived and travelled overseas more or less continuously since 2003 meadowlander Jun 12 #45
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