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38. You have many people in that boat with you.

Wed Apr 15, 2026, 10:07 PM

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I’m there, too.

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this right now. And you’re right: there’ll be a little bit of you that won’t ever get over it. Could it be because your Zeke took that part with him when he headed off to Heaven?

He’ll meet Mousetrap and dB and Barney & Betty and other beloveds from here and elsewhere, who’ve gone ahead, themselves. He’ll have many new friends Upstairs.

Sometimes when I think of the Here-After, I find myself wondering if I’ve been good enough to go to THEIR part of Heaven, instead of where the spirits of the good people get to go.

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We had to put our kitty Zeke to sleep tonight [View all] Danmel Wednesday OP

That's always so hard duckworth969 Wednesday #1

So sory for your loss. niyad 13 hrs ago #98

How I hate this for you. Our furry kids are everything and I wish you some peace with your sweet memories 😿 Deuxcents Wednesday #2

I'm so sorry. We don't get to keep them long enough. nt Phoenix61 Wednesday #3

So sorry for your loss. FalloutShelter Wednesday #4

They really worm their way into our hearts, don't they? CrispyQ Wednesday #5

So sorry, Dannel debm55 Wednesday #6

Been there and I know how damn hard it is. Hey Joe Wednesday #7

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Wednesday #8

You did the right thing. It's cruel to make them suffer. multigraincracker Wednesday #11

I'm so sorry, Daniel. Diamond_Dog Wednesday #9

it's so hard Skittles Wednesday #10

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Wednesday #12

I'm sorry 😔 MustLoveBeagles Wednesday #13

Never easy hurl Wednesday #14

I'm so sorry 😔 mine died from kidney failure two years ago Raine Wednesday #15

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I'm so very sorry Danmel, JMCKUSICK Wednesday #17

I'm so sorry for your loss. HoosierDebbie Wednesday #18

So very sorry. It's awful to lose such a good friend. catrose Wednesday #19

I am so so sorry for your & your family's loss irisblue Wednesday #20

I'm so sorry... FemDemERA Wednesday #21

I know that raw, shattering pain. I am so very sorry. Maru Kitteh Wednesday #22

I'm so sorry for the loss of your kitty. Dr. Shepper Wednesday #23

I'm so sorry! FoxNewsSucks Wednesday #24

Zeke will never forget you all. And you, him. CurtEastPoint Wednesday #25

I'm sorry about your beautiful, beloved friend. AllyCat Wednesday #26

In our family, we call this most difficult of decisions "liberating the spirit." 3catwoman3 Wednesday #27

I am sorry to hear that. OldBaldy1701E Wednesday #28

Sorry for what you are going through. mr715 Wednesday #29

Sending you support. Irish_Dem Wednesday #30

Family. Saddened. cachukis Wednesday #31

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I have always felt popsdenver Wednesday #33

So sorry IbogaProject Wednesday #34

I'm so sorry! CousinIT Wednesday #35

Goodbye to your sweet boy blogslug Wednesday #36

I'm so sorry. Solly Mack Wednesday #37

You have many people in that boat with you. calimary Wednesday #38

I determined ages ago that if I could not be reunited with my babies niyad Wednesday #47

You reminded me of a GREAT Will Rogers quote. calimary Wednesday #50

YES!!! niyad Yesterday #80

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Always painful malaise Wednesday #40

I'm so sorry for your loss debsy Wednesday #41

I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet Zeke virgdem Wednesday #42

Sending love and understanding EuterpeThelo Wednesday #43

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They are family, and I am so sorry for your loss. hamsterjill Wednesday #45

Lady Bast, please take Your little Zeke gently home in Your loving arms, niyad Wednesday #46

I am so sorry. murielm99 Wednesday #48

I am sorry for your loss 💔 BlueKota Wednesday #49

"Those of us The Wizard Wednesday #51

rest inn peace zeke i am so sorry for your loss dawn5651 Wednesday #52

I am so sorry for your loss. nt spooky3 Wednesday #53

Sorry you lost your friend, it's a tough time. dem4decades Wednesday #54

I'm so sorry. area51 Wednesday #55

After I had to put Spike to sleep in 2017 she has visited me ever since! BigmanPigman Wednesday #56

So sorry, Danmel.. Permanut Wednesday #57

I'm so very sorry. Losing them is so painfully heartbreaking. StarryNite Wednesday #58

Our furry friends never stay long enough. Teacher of the Year Wednesday #59

Dear Danmel, I am so sorry for your loss MIButterfly Wednesday #60

I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. My heart goes out to you on the loss of your beloved family member Zeke.❤️ MLAA Yesterday #61

I am so sorry Bettie Yesterday #62

We would have much sadder lives without our fur kids in them Bayard Yesterday #63

We gave up on having any pets after the last one had to be put down. CTyankee Yesterday #64

I'm so sorry Laurelin Yesterday #65

I am so sorry for your loss of your beloved pet. Losing one takes a big emotional toll. Huge hugz. Celerity Yesterday #66

I am so sorry for your loss. maptap22 Yesterday #67

I'm sorry bdamomma 17 hrs ago #92

I'm so sorry. There's something about them that never goes away. They're always with you. Vinca Yesterday #68

I know how hard that is. Condolences. NNadir Yesterday #69

Soooo sorry !! Karadeniz Yesterday #70

My deepest condolences. It's such a hard decision to make. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #71

I'm so sorry CaptainTruth Yesterday #72

It always hurts to say goodbye to our furbabies, bluescribbler Yesterday #73

Condolences ProfessorGAC Yesterday #74

So sorry, Danmel. 70sEraVet Yesterday #75

So sorry your beloved kitty has crossed the bridge. I feel your pain. Fla Dem Yesterday #76

It is hard to say goodbye to a family member LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #77

I'm so very sorry for your loss. City Lights Yesterday #78

Losing our cat family members sucks. Happy Hoosier Yesterday #79

I'm sorry for your loss. It's terribly hard to have to make that decision and it leaves a hole in your heart(s). Texin Yesterday #81

Zeke kitty Clouds Passing Yesterday #82

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I'm so sorry, Danmel. WinstonSmith4740 23 hrs ago #84

I am so sorry Dear_Prudence 23 hrs ago #85

I'm so sorry, Danmel. arkielib 22 hrs ago #86

I'm so sorry Figarosmom 21 hrs ago #87

💜😢my deepest sympathy for you.🤟🏼🙏🏼 1WorldHope 18 hrs ago #88

I lost my first dog when I was 10 years old Wifes husband 18 hrs ago #89

I am so, so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Trueblue Texan 18 hrs ago #90

My sympathy bdamomma 18 hrs ago #91

So very very sorry Chicagogrl1 17 hrs ago #93

So sorry for your loss. Timeflyer 17 hrs ago #94

I am so sorry. My condolences to you and your family. HeartsCanHope 16 hrs ago #95

I'm so sorry radical noodle 15 hrs ago #96

My deepest condolences on your loss. AltairIV 14 hrs ago #97

I am so so sorry. mgardener 13 hrs ago #99

so sorry Danmel, peacebuzzard 13 hrs ago #100

I'm so sorry. It's so hard to lose them Catlady123 13 hrs ago #101

They're in our lives for such a short time Blaukraut 13 hrs ago #102

We just went through this with our little girl Willow exactly 4 weeks ago today, so I know how hard this is. ShazzieB 9 hrs ago #103