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Irish_Dem

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44. My daughter is 4ft 10in and 95 lbs.

Wed Apr 15, 2026, 06:44 AM

Apr 15

By the time she was in high school she was a third degree blackbelt,
had beat several state/national champs in competition and was
asked to do performances at local events. (And yes these big boys were shocked
that a tiny girl took them down quickly. One of the champs started crying to his mother like a baby because a little girl beat him.)

I was not thrilled with all of this because I was afraid she would get hurt
like some of the other black belts did. But she never did.

Yes it was funny how the boys were so polite to her.
She is attractive but did not get hassled or treated badly at school.

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A friend and I were discussing assaults, both sexual and otherwise, [View all] niyad Apr 14 OP

Most sexual assaults are not stranger abductions. yardwork Apr 14 #1

Yes, taught to be nice is abig one. Figarosmom Apr 14 #4

Exactly! yardwork Apr 14 #5

You will notice that I did not limit my OP to sexual assaults only. niyad Apr 14 #20

Yes more women are abused by someone thwy trust Lifeafter70 Apr 14 #24

Times change and we live in a world of privacy violations jfz9580m Apr 14 #38

When my daughter was 12 Figarosmom Apr 14 #2

Brava! Congrats to her! You must be very proud of her! SheltieLover Apr 14 #6

Sure am!😊 Figarosmom Apr 14 #13

Excellent! I wish all parents did this. niyad Apr 14 #19

Same here. My daughter was a black belt at age 13. Irish_Dem Apr 14 #26

Yeah funny how that works, the politeness factor. Figarosmom Apr 14 #36

My daughter is 4ft 10in and 95 lbs. Irish_Dem Apr 15 #44

I taught taekwondo to children and adults oberle Apr 14 #29

I had friends that trained Figarosmom Apr 14 #35

Thank you for all that you have done. niyad Apr 14 #37

My daughter loved it. Irish_Dem Apr 15 #45

Worry more about partners, "friends," and creepy bosses, Ocelot II Apr 14 #3

Yes! SheltieLover Apr 14 #7

You will notice that I did not limit my OP to sexual assaults only. niyad Apr 14 #21

I don't remember what SING stands for LearnedHand Apr 14 #8

I think it's Solar plexus, Insole, Nose, Groin EdmondDantes_ Apr 14 #11

Thanks! LearnedHand Apr 14 #12

Watch Miss Congeniality! MorbidButterflyTat Apr 14 #25

That's where i first learned about it lol LearnedHand Apr 14 #33

I like that dye idea, like in money robbed from a bank EdmondDantes_ Apr 14 #9

But Swalwell knew what was right and wrong JI7 Apr 14 #15

Not enough to not be an abuser EdmondDantes_ Apr 14 #16

Teaching men and boys not to be abusers is great. How long is that niyad Apr 14 #18

My fantasy is that men are barred from owning any weapon. Irish_Dem Apr 14 #27

Sadly, the way things are going in this misogynist, patriarchal niyad Apr 14 #28

Yes women's rights are going by the wayside. Irish_Dem Apr 14 #30

A man that SA women I_UndergroundPanther Apr 14 #42

My point is I don't think simply giving women tools is enough EdmondDantes_ Apr 14 #31

All very interesting. But PLEASE notice that I specifically mentioned niyad Apr 14 #32

Any physical boundary violation when a woman says no. Irish_Dem Apr 15 #47

I agree there will need to be a multi-layered approach. Irish_Dem Apr 15 #46

cell phones. mopinko Apr 14 #10

The biggest threats are those we know and agree to see JI7 Apr 14 #14

??? niyad Apr 14 #17

Women need to be empowered to fight back. hamsterjill Apr 14 #22

Looking self-assured and aware certainly helps. In a similar discussion niyad Apr 14 #23

If you find yourself in a bad situation, wnylib Apr 14 #34

Yes, trust your instincts! I am so very glad that you did exactly that, niyad Apr 14 #39

Yikes 😳 MustLoveBeagles Apr 14 #40

So am I. It seems even scarier to me now that I'm older and wnylib Apr 14 #41

Good for you! YES, always trust gut instinct! SheltieLover Apr 15 #43