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Coventina

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Mon Apr 13, 2026, 05:15 PM Apr 13

If He Leaves You on a Mountain, End Your Relationship [View all]

One afternoon in July 2024, Stefanie Peiker, a hiking guide in the Austrian Alps, came across a woman lying on the ground, heavily injured after falling off her electric bike.

“Her face was completely destroyed, she was bleeding and crying,” Ms. Peiker said. “The first thing I asked was, ‘Are you alone?’”

The woman explained that she’d been cycling with her boyfriend, Ms. Peiker said, but he had left her after an argument.

“I called the ambulance, took out my first-aid kit,” said Ms. Peiker, 31, who was on duty as a park ranger in a nature reserve that is part of a network of protected areas called Natura 2000. “Then, the boyfriend came back and screamed how stupid she is and that she destroyed his holiday.”

Though this was an extreme case, Ms. Peiker said she often comes across women who are alone on mountain paths because their partners are hiking ahead. So she wasn’t surprised when, during the past weeks, women on Reddit, Instagram and TikTok began sharing stories of being left behind by their partners while hiking, biking and climbing in nature, calling it “Alpine divorce.”

Often, the women described risky or uncomfortable circumstances where their partners had more knowledge of the terrain or more experience with the sport. In some cases, the couple met again, but in others, the women remained alone or relied on strangers to descend the mountain safely.

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/12/style/alpine-divorce-relationships-hike.html?

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OK, even the fact that this is a known "thing" is proof that there is something deeply wrong with men.

Seriously, men, WTF?

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People need self-awareness and recognition of boundaries. bucolic_frolic Apr 13 #1
It seems that people in many areas are no longer being taught to care for each other, just take care of yourself... wcmagumba Apr 13 #2
As a man, I can confidently say I'd never abandon my partner like that in a million years, not for Musk's fortune... Dave says Apr 13 #3
That's the way I feel. No matter the horrible argument, get back safely and then say the sayanoras. erronis Apr 13 #8
Never Cirsium Apr 13 #15
It's not "men"; it's "some men". maxsolomon Apr 13 #4
Of course "NOT ALL MEN" but it is a male problem. Coventina Apr 13 #5
Testosterone. maxsolomon Apr 13 #6
Maybe not all but a big hunk of it. efhmc Apr 13 #7
It can go both ways... BeneteauBum Apr 13 #12
Not about meeting criteria Cirsium Apr 13 #17
Competitive sailing can be dangerous BeneteauBum Apr 13 #22
Women have levels slightlv Apr 13 #18
DEFINITELY!!! calimary Apr 13 #9
Lack of love, plain and simple. patphil Apr 13 #10
People make my head and heart hurt EdmondDantes_ Apr 13 #11
Dale Carnegie suggested going canoeing with a lover before marrying them IronLionZion Apr 13 #13
This is a form of deadly abuse ms.pamela Apr 13 #14
Dominance Nasruddin Apr 13 #16
Another male checking in.. Permanut Apr 13 #19
I find this saddening more than anything. harumph Apr 13 #20
I think in general people need to be more conscientious meadowlander Apr 13 #21
If he abandons you anywhere... Iggo Apr 13 #23
A person who is taller has a longer stride. milestogo Apr 13 #24
Amazing Cirsium Apr 13 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Apr 13 #26
Here's an earlier article from The Guardian: hunter Apr 14 #27
I'm I man and I would never leave a person in distress behind unless it was to get help... NNadir Apr 14 #28
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