General Discussion

Okay maybe you don’t get it if you have no experience with it. And I do find that it is something men, even cool men, don’t grasp as intuitively. The one poster who does seems to work in those areas.
I am not American so I know people here in the global south or even rural America can say things that rub people the wrong way without being malicious or creepy.

But it is such a human female instinct instinct.

What really is grotesque is how language and thought are manipulated by predatory people to make points that can seem occasionally reasonable- except in some completely different context.

I read about this immediately grasped it, especially with everything else. It is an establishment predator’s behavior.

And sometimes systems are really hard on some low level flunky who is not creepy or malicious and that is bullying the other.
But that is not powerful elite men with an entitlement complex.

I hate this suck upwards, bully downwards mentality. Where I do accept grey areas some it would be lower down and with way less serious transgressions.
Power is dynamic any which way.

I altogether embittered by everything. How is this my job?