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2naSalit

(101,882 posts)
5. Hmm...
Tue Feb 24, 2026, 01:27 PM
Feb 24

When I was nine, my mom left my dad, all by herself, walked away from six kids, some pretty young. I never blamed her, my dad was brutal, took it out on us afterward. They both had issues not related to their messy marriage as well but they were the only parents I had. I spent seven years finding my mother and made her take us away from my dad, most of us were still minors.

I know why she left and used it as my standard for when it's time to leave a bad relationship however I may decide to leave it. It also taught me to use multiple perspectives before making important decisions that could have lasting impacts. I get the feeling this lady understands why her mother left and why she never looked back.

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Sometimes you have to do what you need to for your own sanity. Srkdqltr Feb 24 #1
That's why I said no words malaise Feb 24 #2
Good... but also not good? Torchlight Feb 24 #3
She probably met some guy on AOL and took off dalton99a Feb 24 #4
Hmm... 2naSalit Feb 24 #5
Wow! malaise Feb 24 #6
I think it made... 2naSalit Feb 24 #8
For good malaise Feb 24 #9
Yes, We don't know what kind of abuse the woman suffered. n/t Jacson6 Feb 24 #7
I have mixed emotions about this MustLoveBeagles Feb 24 #10
That daughter expresses a good attitude and values lostnfound Feb 24 #11
Update: dalton99a Saturday #12
Thanks for this malaise Saturday #13
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