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Bluetus

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25. and incels

Reply to Blue Owl (Reply #24)

Sun Feb 22, 2026, 12:16 PM

Yesterday

I'm not sure "misogynists" fully captures who these people are. It isn't just a disdain of women or a need to control them. It is fear of women. It is a lifetime inability to maintain healthy relationships with women. It is deep-seated feelings of inadequacy. And their lack of success in life is not limited to failed relationships with women. They fail at everything, but they see women as the easiest, must vulnerable people as an outlet for their own failings.

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Incels wearing masks, roaming cities with automatic weapons...what could go wrong ??? CincyDem Saturday #1

And you can't spell InCEls without Ice. GreenWave Yesterday #27

And it's exemplified by Renee clearly stating. "It's ok dude. I'm not mad at you." Just before he murdered her. SheltieLover Saturday #2

Yep, the dismissal as insignificant is in line with the incel grievance (however spurious). RockRaven Saturday #3

I'm opposed to the death penalty, but would make an exception for him SheltieLover Saturday #5

He may have thought she was "dismissing" him.. whathehell Saturday #8

That, and the fact that Renee's wife mocked him moments before. Mister Ed Saturday #6

Very true. Goon is way too emotional to have weapons & a fed position SheltieLover Saturday #12

AND, the fact that to him popsdenver Saturday #16

Agree. Ticked off because she wasn't trembling and crying. Her reaction was LoisB Saturday #19

K&R Solly Mack Saturday #4

And THIS is why I am NOT a fan of Scott Galloway--for all his seemingly being anti-Trump & "progressive" hlthe2b Saturday #7

That's exactly... 2naSalit Saturday #10

Me three BaronChocula Saturday #18

Those words are an admission of a hate crime RockCreek Saturday #9

Incels hate women? Iggo Saturday #11

Resentment leads to hatred. Women who they perceive that they have a "right" to expect will have hlthe2b Saturday #14

Iggo did you forget this irisblue Saturday #20

Its commonplace, not freaky. milestogo Saturday #13

We need a " fucking bitch'' to rip the throat out of YoshidaYui Saturday #15

ATTENTION MODERATORS: My comment breaks all the rules AverageOldGuy Saturday #17

it doesn't really break any rules Kali Saturday #22

Strong he-men with bigly hate for women is a sign. Kid Berwyn Saturday #21

Since Bill Clinton won his first term drmeow Saturday #23

No surprise tRump/Miller's Nazi goon squad is loaded with misogynists Blue Owl Yesterday #24

and incels Bluetus Yesterday #25

They actually see women as more powerful GenThePerservering Yesterday #28

Since everything has already been well said GenThePerservering Yesterday #26