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UpInArms

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30. I just had encounters this week
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 05:28 PM
Friday

1 … am doing a freelance job with a friend … he gets the jobs, I do the words … appraising properties …

So, we are doing this piece of land for a trumper and we are riding in his truck to look at the property and then to the local places to get all the documents needed (crp contract, taxes, legal docs, etc) … and the trumper starts a conversation regarding bathroom uses by different sexes and how that’s a problem … I just say that I already have a shared bathroom and ask if he shares his with anyone, he says no … I I just say, well I don’t check to see what in anyone’s pants … he has no answer … subject changes

2 … went to the feed store to get layer mix for the chickens and oats for the horses … a guy I know pulls in and says I look like I’m in a hurry … I laugh, he gets out of his truck and I give him a big hug … we met in 2009 when I was covering a county commissioners meeting for the newspaper … he comes in and calls me a commie pinko tree hugging liberal … everyone knew I was annoyed, but I kept working and ignored him … went back to the office … I guess someone told him he should apologize, because he came in and tried to do that. My response was, no, I do not accept your apology, how would you like it if you were working and I interrupted and called you a jack booted nazi thug? Think about who you are and stay the hell away from me. He left, but came back and sincerely stated that no one had ever failed to accept an apology from him with that admonition. After that, he would come to my office and talk with me about all types of issues… and all I can say is that we are good acquaintances without any animosity and can talk about all of it. I may never change his voting, but he at least respects my opinions.

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If I didn't want to go, I wouldn't go nor feel I have to apologize or come up with some excuse. Be yourself Deuxcents Friday #1
I tolerate everything except intolerance. markodochartaigh Friday #2
It's irrational to be rational in an irrational world struggle4progress Friday #3
Tolerance is one thing - usedtobedemgurl Friday #4
I would decline the invitation. pandr32 Friday #5
HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NO durablend Friday #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Prairie_Seagull Friday #8
Depends a lot on the occasion and how many people would be there that I DO want to talk to AZJonnie Friday #7
I follow an ex-Moonie on YouTube: Cult Expert-Dr. Steven Hassan. He gives excellent advice on dealing AnotherMother4Peace Friday #9
I never get invited anywhere, so......no problem! Floyd R. Turbo Friday #10
That is not true! You have been invited to go to several places, niyad Friday #11
"Go to.....!" Is not an invitation!😈 Floyd R. Turbo Friday #12
I humbly stand corrected! niyad Friday #14
😈 Floyd R. Turbo Friday #15
Wish I could read the rest of the article, but its subscription only. mwmisses4289 Friday #13
The most important question: will there be wine? niyad Friday #16
For Sure There Will Be Whine. ColoringFool Friday #19
. . . niyad Friday #23
To Clarify: FROM THE TRUMPER! ColoringFool Friday #24
Well, of course! One would not assume otherwise! niyad Friday #25
This happened on a fishing trip Bobstandard Friday #17
HELL, NO! Not Even With Provided Barf Bags. ColoringFool Friday #18
I wouldn't go. There's no way I could be civil. As it is, I avoid any known Trump humpers just to avoid Vinca Friday #20
I have little choice unless I cut off most contact with people misanthrope Friday #21
Oh crap! Me too! I'm so sorry. UniqueUserName Friday #32
Agreed on all points misanthrope Friday #33
No, I would not. He should refuse the invitation. tblue37 Friday #22
I absolutely could not go. FalloutShelter Friday #26
i would think the hosts of the event are not on the side of condemning pedophiles anytime anywhere. Tetrachloride Friday #27
Most of my in laws are maga. Woodwizard Friday #28
NO! democrank Friday #29
I just had encounters this week UpInArms Friday #30
I think the hostess is expecting you to decline. That's why she included ... JustABozoOnThisBus Friday #31
Only if it was a dark night canetoad Friday #34
If I want to go to an event, I go OC375 Friday #35
Life is too short to spend time with Trumpers Johonny Friday #36
Nope ibegurpard Friday #37
I am estranged from my maga family susanr516 Friday #38
Tell me what's on the menu Conjuay Friday #39
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