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Bobstandard

(2,222 posts)
17. This happened on a fishing trip
Fri Feb 20, 2026, 02:14 PM
Friday

A friend talked me into going on a fishing trip with a guide I knew and five other guys I’d never met. During dinner the first night one guy moved the conversation to politics and how well Trump was doing. We exchanged looks around the table. Someone moved the conversation back to fishing. In a moment or two the guy was back on to Trump. For the rest of the trip and without any coordination, nobody would talk to the guy unless it was to ask him to pass the salsa or something. Nobody wanted to get their blood pressure up by engaging with the guy. Each of us privately let the guide know we didn’t want to share a boat with him. (Each day two guys went out in a small boatwitha a guide trying to locate and catch permit on the fly) It took a couple of days for the guy to give up on his Trump humping but each of us individually ignored him for the rest of the seven day trip. Again, without talking among ourselves about it he was completely frozen out of the camaraderie of the trip. He grumbled a little bit, then just stayed away from the group except at meals. I doubt he learned anything from the experience.

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If I didn't want to go, I wouldn't go nor feel I have to apologize or come up with some excuse. Be yourself Deuxcents Friday #1
I tolerate everything except intolerance. markodochartaigh Friday #2
It's irrational to be rational in an irrational world struggle4progress Friday #3
Tolerance is one thing - usedtobedemgurl Friday #4
I would decline the invitation. pandr32 Friday #5
HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NO durablend Friday #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Prairie_Seagull Friday #8
Depends a lot on the occasion and how many people would be there that I DO want to talk to AZJonnie Friday #7
I follow an ex-Moonie on YouTube: Cult Expert-Dr. Steven Hassan. He gives excellent advice on dealing AnotherMother4Peace Friday #9
I never get invited anywhere, so......no problem! Floyd R. Turbo Friday #10
That is not true! You have been invited to go to several places, niyad Friday #11
"Go to.....!" Is not an invitation!😈 Floyd R. Turbo Friday #12
I humbly stand corrected! niyad Friday #14
😈 Floyd R. Turbo Friday #15
Wish I could read the rest of the article, but its subscription only. mwmisses4289 Friday #13
The most important question: will there be wine? niyad Friday #16
For Sure There Will Be Whine. ColoringFool Friday #19
. . . niyad Friday #23
To Clarify: FROM THE TRUMPER! ColoringFool Friday #24
Well, of course! One would not assume otherwise! niyad Friday #25
This happened on a fishing trip Bobstandard Friday #17
HELL, NO! Not Even With Provided Barf Bags. ColoringFool Friday #18
I wouldn't go. There's no way I could be civil. As it is, I avoid any known Trump humpers just to avoid Vinca Friday #20
I have little choice unless I cut off most contact with people misanthrope Friday #21
Oh crap! Me too! I'm so sorry. UniqueUserName Friday #32
Agreed on all points misanthrope Friday #33
No, I would not. He should refuse the invitation. tblue37 Friday #22
I absolutely could not go. FalloutShelter Friday #26
i would think the hosts of the event are not on the side of condemning pedophiles anytime anywhere. Tetrachloride Friday #27
Most of my in laws are maga. Woodwizard Friday #28
NO! democrank Friday #29
I just had encounters this week UpInArms Friday #30
I think the hostess is expecting you to decline. That's why she included ... JustABozoOnThisBus Friday #31
Only if it was a dark night canetoad Friday #34
If I want to go to an event, I go OC375 Friday #35
Life is too short to spend time with Trumpers Johonny Friday #36
Nope ibegurpard Friday #37
I am estranged from my maga family susanr516 Friday #38
Tell me what's on the menu Conjuay Friday #39
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