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MontanaMama

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99. Unlimited aggression?

Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:43 PM

Feb 13

She absolutely had to disable him to the point where he didn't come back at her. If he had been able to do that, she might be dead. But thanks for mansplaining how she should have gone easy on this degenerate. Good grief.

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A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️ [View all] riversedge Feb 13 OP

Good on her! 3catwoman3 Feb 13 #1

Think? BidenRocks Feb 13 #52

Sadly true. niyad Feb 13 #96

Well, yes, there is that. 3catwoman3 Feb 13 #97

It's all bdamomma Feb 13 #165

life can be challenging when you think with your dick. and so many of them do nt orleans Feb 13 #167

I had a biology professor in college that said something like that. WinstonSmith4740 Saturday #190

She beat the crap out of him !!!!!!! Yahooooo Trueblue1968 Saturday #191

Good LetMyPeopleVote Feb 13 #2

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Nah...and he won't report it anyhow. MineralMan Feb 13 #7

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How was she to know that? I would have been scared to death that he would attack again in that closed space. AnotherMother4Peace Feb 13 #15

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What leads you to assert a momentarily lowered head removes all threat? Torchlight Feb 13 #34

Are you really going to ask a sexual assault victim BidenRocks Feb 13 #60

I included an excerpt from the post I responded to Torchlight Feb 13 #61

Perhaps quotation marks might have avoided confusion. I knew niyad Feb 13 #92

Bet you that those who are trying to give the assaulter protection are not female. efhmc Feb 13 #102

Definitely. MorbidButterflyTat Feb 13 #115

You underestimate the danger she was in ninjanurse Feb 13 #133

Now is that clearly no longer a threat in your eyes or hers? usedtobedemgurl Saturday #214

Same as emptying a magazine RoseTrellis Saturday #205

Shooting someone is a bit more damaging than a groin kick Attilatheblond Saturday #207

Hoooo boy, some of them, for sure... electric_blue68 Sunday #234

Don't think he'll be pressing charges, but if he does, my money is on her. Joinfortmill Feb 13 #17

Maybe a little overkill is what he needed. GaYellowDawg Feb 13 #18

IMO if she stopped short of debilitating him until the doors opened, this story would have a different ending. Hope22 Saturday #220

I am guessing that it must be difficult to be a woman within your circle of niyad Feb 13 #27

Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 13 #49

What would Krusty Gnome have done?? BattleRow Feb 13 #66

Pulled out her gun? niyad Feb 13 #98

What man would touch Kristie Gnome? maxrandb Feb 13 #124

Well, there is at least one. Wednesdays Feb 13 #131

We can't count her plastic surgeon. :-) nt spooky3 Feb 13 #175

By all reports: Corey Lewandowski ShazzieB Saturday #179

I hear she has had him pegged from the very beginning. MineralMan Saturday #223

Nominated for best reply of the century. Maybe Ilsa Feb 13 #71

I am deeply honoured, thank you. My first reaction was unprintable. niyad Feb 13 #87

+1 leftstreet Feb 13 #108

+2 Permanut Feb 13 #118

Great response niyad Brenda Feb 13 #138

Thank you. It took a bit to write calmly! niyad Feb 13 #140

It's been sad to see apologists here for decades. Brenda Feb 13 #142

I am absolutely not surprised, coming from that one Skittles Saturday #181

So disappointingly true. niyad Saturday #185

Bravo! BlueSpot Saturday #182

Thank you. niyad Saturday #186

THIS! And especially.... electric_blue68 Sunday #233

The Asshole was groping a woman in an elevator. MineralMan Feb 13 #69

I agree liberalgunwilltravel Feb 13 #95

Some people respond as if it's not the real world people live in. MineralMan Feb 13 #101

Thank you for mentioning training in self defense oberle Feb 13 #169

She made it quite clear after the 1st kacekwl Feb 13 #80

Nobody is immobilized by one woman's kick to the groin synni Feb 13 #88

No it wasn't and her defense was exactly as women are trained to do when being assaulted ms liberty Feb 13 #120

Not from my viewpoint Sanity Claws Feb 13 #10

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You wholly ignore 'Reasonable Fear' Torchlight Feb 13 #20

The fact that she was trapped & couldn't escape changed the situation, IMO. CrispyQ Feb 13 #29

....... bluestarone Feb 13 #38

And she reasoned that he needed a little more reason not to re-attack. MineralMan Feb 13 #74

Your concern for the sexual predator is noted. chia Feb 13 #119

if a guy touches me uninvited Skittles Saturday #183

Sorry, he had ample opportunity to act in an adult and civil manner Torchlight Feb 13 #11

He put hands on her mcar Feb 13 #22

He wasn't going to stop The Blue Flower Feb 13 #26

That's right mcar Feb 13 #160

He put his hands on her TWICE Seinan Sensei Feb 13 #45

She had every reason to believe he wouldn't stop mcar Feb 13 #161

Is there a legal limit on beating a potential rapist to the floor? I saw no blood, body parts were still attached irisblue Feb 13 #23

Even if in a place with a "duty to flee" IbogaProject Feb 13 #25

Not excessive at all Soul_of_Wit Feb 13 #30

If that was done to my Daughter or my Wife Seinan Sensei Feb 13 #50

Nope. She's got it on video. He was warned. thought crime Feb 13 #33

LOL don't you ever watch scary movies? leftstreet Feb 13 #40

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Sorry. Your post is just so tone deaf leftstreet Feb 13 #48

Self-defense, not aggression. niyad Feb 13 #51

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What then is the precise point at which defense ends and aggression begins? Torchlight Feb 13 #59

see post 27 niyad Feb 13 #82

It's not a free pass for anything. Aristus Feb 13 #93

Unlimited aggression? MontanaMama Feb 13 #99

The problem is MorbidButterflyTat Feb 13 #117

Unlimited aggression would have been empting a full magazine on his self entitled ass. Attilatheblond Saturday #212

Ah, correct! leftstreet Feb 13 #58

And I am so FUCKING PISSED at the misogynistic, patriarchal BS niyad Feb 13 #109

Misogyny is Patriarchy's oxygen leftstreet Feb 13 #110

Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 13 #67

Stiletto to the eyes face would be an effective response. irisblue Feb 13 #84

There was a reason I used to wear 4-inch heels when I was in public. niyad Feb 13 #125

Stick him with a Hat Pin! BidenRocks Feb 13 #152

Very true. I don't wear hats, since my sunglasses are usually there if I niyad Feb 13 #156

Somehow I think that kick to the balls Hope22 Saturday #208

There isn't a jury on this planet that would convict her. cloudbase Feb 13 #42

He was lucky she didn't pull out a pistol. Nt spooky3 Feb 13 #70

Sadly, you are overly optimistic about juries. I have seen too many niyad Feb 13 #126

Indeed. Some of the posts beggar belief. cloudbase Feb 13 #127

Sadly true! niyad Feb 13 #129

It absolutely is not obamanut2012 Feb 13 #53

If she were a man... Dear_Prudence Feb 13 #54

Killing him would have been excessive use of force Random Boomer Feb 13 #56

And I hope she reported him to the police. Nt spooky3 Feb 13 #72

He assaulted her, she moved away, he assaulted her again Justice Saturday #192

He put his hands on her. She had no idea what was next. Irish_Dem Feb 13 #62

What legal standpoint? fujiyamasan Feb 13 #65

Thank you for pointing that out. niyad Feb 13 #128

Not a problem fujiyamasan Feb 13 #145

I heard that some Japanese rail lines BidenRocks Feb 13 #157

While that is helpful to a degree, it does not address the problem niyad Saturday #197

All this. electric_blue68 Sunday #235

This would be a good training video ! thought crime Feb 13 #171

She was trapped in a box with a man who assaulted her. LuckyCharms Feb 13 #68

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You're very wrong. LuckyCharms Feb 13 #77

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I think you're confusing rejections of your assertions with "being upset" Torchlight Feb 13 #90

Snicker Brenda Feb 13 #139

Oh, jeez. I'm late to this thread. He really said women were "being upset" because we object to demands Scrivener7 Monday #240

Oh, I'm not upset at all. LuckyCharms Feb 13 #100

She turned and pushed a button BidenRocks Feb 13 #158

Even if it was staged, only good can come from images of women fighting back. Scrivener7 Monday #241

See post 27. Keep digging that hole, dear heart. It is such a good look for you. niyad Feb 13 #130

Damn straight niyad. MontanaMama Saturday #213

I am angry, and disgusted. niyad Saturday #215

As we should be. MontanaMama Saturday #216

EXACTLY!!! niyad Saturday #221

If you are in that situation, you have every reason to believe someone is going to try and rape you. FascismIsDeath Saturday #189

She was always at risk of him strangling her. Taller/ heavier Hope22 Saturday #218

"Excessive" would have been another two or three kicks to his nuts. GoCubsGo Feb 13 #76

Nope. MontanaMama Feb 13 #91

+1 for the blame comment. - nt CrispyQ Feb 13 #159

She should've shouted "but the DOW is over fifty thousand" Shambala Feb 13 #114

Snicker niyad Feb 13 #132

Snort! electric_blue68 Sunday #236

Public Service Notice ninjanurse Feb 13 #134

Not sure about this because she would surely have been in fear of her life. He assaulted her by PatrickforB Feb 13 #154

Well, if that had gone to trial and she was in the dock on assault charges, and I were on the jury... Jedi Guy Feb 13 #178

I don't think so. A man is bigger and stronger than a woman, so she would be justified in fearing that if she didn't tblue37 Saturday #184

A women who was assaulted in a confined space she cannot readily retreat from can/should use all the force she can Attilatheblond Saturday #206

Golly, maybe if he had smiled more she wouldn't have felt the need to fiercely defend herself until she could escape Attilatheblond Saturday #210

Yes. Because he could catch more flies with honey than with a creepy sexual assault in an elevator. Scrivener7 Monday #239

Really? She was still stuck in there with him LearnedHand Saturday #227

Oh, for fuck's sakes. No, it wasn't excessive force. She did exactly the right thing. Scrivener7 Sunday #232

Hope she left some lasting damage dalton99a Feb 13 #4

And That's How You Do It! MineralMan Feb 13 #5

She really dealt with that assaulter but hope she also called security and police to protect other less capable women. MLAA Feb 13 #6

The fact that we are seeing the video... Soul_of_Wit Feb 13 #36

I'm pretty sure a lot of elevators have security cameras in them. MineralMan Feb 13 #78

I assumed it was security video Soul_of_Wit Saturday #209

Yes. They only look at them if there is an incident. MineralMan Saturday #211

That was the perfect place to put my last heart. 1WorldHope Feb 13 #8

K&R! Torchlight Feb 13 #12

Good for her! SheltieLover Feb 13 #13

Whoa, don't know if this is real, but I'm gonna use her moves! Joinfortmill Feb 13 #16

He (and Trump) need a dictionary that explain what "No!" means. Ping Tung Feb 13 #19

From 2016, apparently woman is a Beijing TV host and actress. betsuni Feb 13 #21

Thank you for this. I thought it looked a bit familiar. Still relevant. niyad Feb 13 #135

My first thought was AI slop. Thanks for the post. Monsieur_Grumpe Saturday #196

I wish more women/girls had more situational awareness. irisblue Feb 13 #24

A friend asked me once why I do not use headphones when I am niyad Feb 13 #39

Holy shit that was pretty badass! fujiyamasan Feb 13 #28

Bravo! You go, girl! Vinca Feb 13 #31

BRAVA!!! niyad Feb 13 #37

I do not know whether this was staged (as I remember a similar video niyad Feb 13 #35

Excessive force, Maj. Dude Feb 13 #41

Well done! UpInArms Feb 13 #44

This seems staged. However, IF this video teaches or inspires a woman to: flvegan Feb 13 #46

What more do we know about this? I think it looks like... QueerDuck Feb 13 #47

There is a (possibly apocryphal) story from many years ago in the London tube dickthegrouch Feb 13 #55

She was in danger with no ability to flee until the door opened Ritabert Feb 13 #63

And THAT, my dears, is how it is DONE!!!!! hamsterjill Feb 13 #64

I celebrate her quick reactions--and good aim! hlthe2b Feb 13 #73

Good for her. He has no business putting hands on her. She did excellent. Don't minimize. Srkdqltr Feb 13 #79

Possibly fake video Tasmanian Devil Feb 13 #81

Nope. That is a camera mounted in the ceiling of the elevator car. MineralMan Feb 13 #104

well, i guess i could smile at the camera next time i'm in an elevator -- but i don't think it'll show up very good orleans Feb 13 #168

Looks fake to me. There's a lot of this stuff getting posted in the "reels" Liberal In Texas Feb 13 #107

So.... MorbidButterflyTat Feb 13 #113

LOL! ShazzieB Saturday #180

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Wut? Brenda Feb 13 #147

And the only rec for this post calling it AI slop is Brenda Feb 13 #143

Please ... Tasmanian Devil Feb 13 #153

This looks so fake Chicagogrl1 Feb 13 #83

It's fake. They're both amateur actors. Made to be click-bait and passed all over social media. Liberal In Texas Feb 13 #149

Fake or not, if only something like that had happened to a convicted 34-count... the nelm Feb 13 #170

Staged or not, it shows women a course of action in such a situation. niyad Saturday #225

The "well actually" crowd is in the building mcar Saturday #228

Yes, but this is about women protecting themselves. The very idea niyad Saturday #229

Yes, they have to be totally aware of what they are doing mcar Saturday #230

ggrrrrrrr niyad Saturday #231

I can't believe that the guy thought that would work. mjvpi Feb 13 #85

He got what's coming to him. bluescribbler Feb 13 #89

She did a fine job. Swede Feb 13 #94

should have kicked him once more when he was down moonshinegnomie Feb 13 #103

It looks rehearsed. Omnipresent Feb 13 #105

"She allowed him...." MorbidButterflyTat Feb 13 #111

I never suggested she put herself in a corner. Omnipresent Saturday #194

And if he came at her again when her back was against the wall, she could have been trapped. ShazzieB Feb 13 #151

My point is that most people want to see who is lurking around behind them. Omnipresent Saturday #193

Convince me this isn't staged misanthrope Feb 13 #106

Staged or scripted Tasmanian Devil Feb 13 #112

I don't care if it's staged or not. Dem_in_Nebr. Feb 13 #121

Yeah, even if it was staged or faked, I think it was informative. ShazzieB Saturday #187

And THAT is how it's done. Javaman Feb 13 #122

If i am alone on an elevator and a MineralMan Feb 13 #123

Used to be a tip of the Fedora. BidenRocks Feb 13 #173

Well, don't expect a tip of the MAGA cap. MineralMan Saturday #200

I've watched the video a couple of times and IMO no jury would convict her LogDog75 Feb 13 #136

FAFO Timewas Feb 13 #137

I also agree that no jury would convict her. HeartsCanHope Feb 13 #141

She was in an enclosed space with someone making unwanted advances, with no way to know how far he was going DFW Feb 13 #146

Right on. Tactical Peek Feb 13 #144

Not been Rebl2 Feb 13 #148

Same here. And I did not get on an elevator if there was a lone man there. niyad Feb 13 #150

Think back to 2016 canetoad Feb 13 #155

That's about how old this staged video is. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 13 #162

Really? canetoad Feb 13 #163

I'll have to remember that move! ShazzieB Saturday #188

Can you just imagine the hysteria had she done so? niyad Saturday #217

That... I partly (at the least) wished she'd said "Get the hell way from me!" electric_blue68 Sunday #237

Women bdamomma Feb 13 #164

And boy will it be tough in our new burkas! Nt Hope22 Saturday #219

Unless bdamomma Saturday #224

I look good in red.. Hope22 Saturday #226

If real, she did exactly the right thing. chowmama Feb 13 #166

'Bought 9-10 years ago, my husband broke up a dude from hitting the dude's girlfriend. chouchou Feb 13 #172

She should have nailed him even more. Make him a eunuch. BigmanPigman Feb 13 #174

Good for her! ABC123Easy Feb 13 #176

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excellent job. pansypoo53219 Saturday #195

Busting his nuts! Smart move. ProudMNDemocrat Saturday #198

Violence is good as long as we agree with the outcome AZLD4Candidate Saturday #199

Good for Her!! She walloped an Epstein Jr. !! It appears she is trained blue-wave Saturday #201

ouch... myohmy2 Saturday #202

Just make sure you hurt them bad enough they can't follow you. Linda ladeewolf Saturday #203

That looked super choreographed LoveSucky Saturday #204

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Good on her! Either real (effin' bastard wouldn't take no), or staged as training. electric_blue68 Sunday #238