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In reply to the discussion: I want to help. [View all]

usonian

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25. Thank you, I say, especially about tech: "It's still a world of people. Just not here."
Mon Feb 9, 2026, 01:16 PM
Feb 2026

I try to make the best of every day. Last evening, I walked down the driveway to get some photos of Indian Warrior plants.



I'd rather say "close to nature" than the land, because I capture beauty everywhere I go, and it's time to move on from isolation.

I happened on this place after a divorce, and had half the proceeds of the home sale. Seeing how beautiful it was, I thought for sure that lots of old friends would visit, especially since it's on the road to Yosemite. Well, that never happened.

I'm supposed to drive, at age 77, at least 50 miles to "let's meet for coffee"?

People are really nice but lazy. It's human nature and I am not the kind to kick asses.

I'll make the 50 mile trek today to the nearest Trader Joe's. shop for new pillow covers and maybe get some prints made of my photos. Kiosk? No kiosk here. I've got maybe a couple of friends here, which is a large percentage of the population.

People stayed away from the marriage feast at Cana in the Bible. 500 followers walked out on the Buddha when they were comfy in their own skins and not feeling much for others, which is exactly what their teacher did for them.

A mystic wrote: Life's a game; one of giving and receiving. You get what you give, and I see that spirit here, where we try to encourage others and work for their betterment, not for any expected reward, but because "it's the right thing to do"

I share photos now and then, but they have to be shrunk to post, and lose quality, but nothing shrinks the concern and wishes I have for people I've befriended here who are in need. It just doesn't come with coffee and a muffin. I can make that happen in my sphere, even if means moving the sphere 'cause "it's too far to drive" for everyone but myself. (and my amazing daughter, who drives the 200 miles to visit)

Cheers. It's still a world of people, and I'll get there yet.

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I want to help. [View all] OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 OP
It sounds to me like you are being too hard on yourself senseandsensibility Feb 2026 #1
That seems to be the issue. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #10
Look in Blue Sky, and other websites, for content to applegrove Feb 2026 #2
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #7
This is a favourite of mine. It is hopeful. applegrove Feb 2026 #17
That was very interesting. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #18
This is why I have turned to ART in my life! For some reason, art always saves you. CTyankee Feb 2026 #21
As a former artist, I agree with you. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #23
I don't think you're alone Cirsium Feb 2026 #27
You are correct in saying that what I am raising is more about social and structural issues. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #29
I hear you Cirsium Feb 2026 #33
"But I do think this kind of honest conversation is closer to help than we usually think." OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #34
I bet you know enough people that if you asked five of them to pitch in five bucks and each ask five friends to do the WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2026 #3
Unfortunately, you would lose that bet. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #6
You've got 11 hearts on here. If you made a post asking people to throw five bucks at their local food shelf in addition WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2026 #15
Barely. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #19
It sounds like you are toying with ending it all. 1WorldHope Feb 2026 #4
I have been toying with that for most of my entire life. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #8
I hear you. I feel hopeless much of the time myself. 1WorldHope Feb 2026 #12
You can help. Everyone can help in some way. You don't have to be on the front lines. Ocelot II Feb 2026 #5
What is interesting is that I am also in need of most of what is listed there. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #9
You can write! You're good at it. Ocelot II Feb 2026 #11
Even a small act of kindness helps and can be enough to get someone moving. haele Feb 2026 #13
Thanks. Unfortunately, I am the one stuck in 'dissonance'. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #22
I feel like my 3x collective Greats who in the early 18th century, settled in hollars in haele Feb 2026 #24
You are correct. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #30
This time It's a lot more than standing on the street waving cardboard. Hope22 Feb 2026 #26
Thanks for the kind words. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #31
I have been living alone for over 10 years. usonian Feb 2026 #14
It seems as though you are connected to the land. I have known others in your position. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #20
Thank you, I say, especially about tech: "It's still a world of people. Just not here." usonian Feb 2026 #25
This is so correct. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2026 #28
I try not to go negative. That's why I said "lazy" usonian Feb 2026 #32
Walk for Peace videos are an Eye Opener MagickMuffin Feb 2026 #16
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