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DFW

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Mon Feb 2, 2026, 07:45 PM Feb 2

"I missed you in New York!" "No, you didn't. I didn't go. I'm not setting foot in your country again while he's there." [View all]

A friend of mine from the Baden-Württemberg area was not at a convention I always go to in January in Manhattan. He's in his mid-seventies, so I was worried there might have been a sudden health issue. But I just saw him in Berlin a couple of days ago, and he is fine. We don't have a lot in common, but about 25 years ago, his then-girlfriend had some rare form of cancer which was, at the time, being most successfully treated by some doctors in Moscow. He asked if I had any contacts in Moscow that could help him. I did, she went, and was cured. We have been fairly close ever since.

But this time, the situation in the USA just became too much for him. He said, he was sorry, but no reasonable European could make the trip to the USA if it wasn't necessary, and he didn't consider it to be necessary. After all these decades, I thought he was so laid back that nothing could spook him to this degree. Apparently the answer to that is "almost nothing." These stories are not merely theoretical tales made up by AI for youtube entertainment.

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I don't blame him at all. An Australian friend of mine spooky3 Feb 2 #1
It's not safe here anymore MustLoveBeagles Feb 2 #2
My dear DFW, I am so sorry you didn't get to see your old friend. CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2 #3
Thank you for the update. Pertinent. cachukis Feb 2 #4
I wouldn't recommend anyone come here from another country. mdbl Feb 2 #5
Fred Trump should've pulled out durablend Feb 2 #14
FIFA won't pull out of the US. maxsolomon Feb 3 #42
No, they won't do anything. ShazzieB Feb 3 #45
I'm pretty sure Canadians feel the same way. Sogo Feb 2 #6
They absolutely do CelticCrow Feb 3 #40
I don't blame him or them one bit. I'm in CA and I refuse to fly anywhere. Buddyzbuddy Feb 2 #7
Exactly. And I'll limit my driving in any case. erronis Feb 2 #8
Script working as planned. Fear and loathing via propaganda/messaging. erronis Feb 2 #9
Jedem das Seine DFW Feb 2 #16
In Naples, Fl, tourism is way down. That's how this town makes money. kerry-is-my-prez Feb 2 #19
I'll be interested to see how it is in Cape Cod this summer DFW Feb 2 #22
Do you think Putin is responsible for the chaos we're experiencing? rubbersole Feb 2 #26
Partially, absolutely DFW Feb 2 #29
Thank you. rubbersole Feb 3 #34
I would guess that type of activity by the US has decreased greatly since a russian asset is in charge of DNI erronis Feb 3 #36
Kruschev Did This. BurnDoubt Feb 3 #49
New Smyrna Beach is the same way. rubbersole Feb 2 #23
A Florida town dependent on tourism will have a very unambiguous message to send DFW Feb 2 #24
"Air Chance" Alice Kramden Feb 3 #38
They used to be pretty bad. DFW Feb 3 #43
Surprising because Naples is a Republican Mecca, no? maxsolomon Feb 3 #46
Kick dalton99a Feb 2 #10
Wish there was a way we could entice our former allies KS Toronado Feb 2 #11
They DO protest. And the protests are huge. Wednesdays Feb 2 #21
The under-reporting of anti-Trump protests around the world is appalling DFW Feb 2 #25
The Cold War-era editors of Pravda would be maniacal with envy. nt Wednesdays Feb 3 #32
Wise friend. paleotn Feb 2 #12
"but no reasonable European could make the trip to the USA if it wasn't necessary, ..." Botany Feb 2 #13
I'm even tense every time i leave the house. Figarosmom Feb 2 #15
I think about that, too when I'm in the States. DFW Feb 2 #20
My friend from Norway says everyone is afraid of Trump/the U.S. now kerry-is-my-prez Feb 2 #17
And our national devolution into an isolated pariah state continues apace 0rganism Feb 2 #18
& isolated from being international arbiter of MONEY! ForeGoneLegsBirne Feb 2 #31
I don't even want to travel within the US as an American citizen. Irish_Dem Feb 2 #27
Dang. I did SO much driving when my mom was in asst. living Nittersing Feb 3 #51
I know, I go through some big cities where ICE is located. Irish_Dem Feb 3 #54
I don't want to go anyplace I can't drive to. Klarkashton Feb 2 #28
When you live in Europe, but have work, family, and vacation in the USA DFW Feb 2 #30
My wife is a Canadian citizen and she flatly refuses to enter the US while he's in office. Jedi Guy Feb 3 #33
Not at all theoretical. tavernier Feb 3 #35
K&R spanone Feb 3 #37
Same with my family karin_sj Feb 3 #39
I'm still following an expat group on Facebook LittleGirl Feb 3 #41
My wife has no interest in giving up her German citizenship DFW Feb 3 #44
Not Theoretical At All JustAnotherGen Feb 3 #47
I wish I could say something reassuring DFW Feb 3 #50
My elder son, living in Japan, told us the same thing. RVN VET71 Feb 3 #48
... and no Canadians, and no Greenlander, and NOBODY from all the Latin American countries... OR ANYBODY Jack Valentino Feb 3 #52
One thing my wife reported to me from New York today DFW Feb 3 #53
EVERYTHING is 'very expensive in New York', as I understand it, Jack Valentino Feb 3 #55
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