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2na fisherman

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18. Men Have Options Too
Thu Dec 18, 2025, 04:40 PM
Dec 18

Vasectomy is a simpler procedure but some men feel it might make them less of a man. And they may be afraid to have their junk messed with by a doctor's blade. But as one who became childless by choice, I am glad I never had to defend myself in paternity suits and have court ordered child-support payments garnished from my pay. The sowing of "wild oats" has lasting consequences not to mention the trauma induced in an unwanted or "bastard" child. It's a shame that some men feel intitled to impregnate many women and brag about how virile they are. Well I say, farm animals can breed but real men take responsibility as parents raising their children or they choose not to father a child. And today's right wing anti-abortion agenda makes it more important to not burden a woman with an unwanted pregnancy. So in some cases, it's literally a matter of life or death.

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The right-wingers are going to shit! Aristus Dec 18 #1
Well there's that but also the fact that they hate when women have autonomy over their bodies AZJonnie Dec 18 #3
Actually the male right wingers want to keep women at home and making babies. Diamond_Dog Dec 18 #4
And I can only imagine what the radtrads and fundamentalists will say... keep_left Dec 18 #19
the right wingers will take that away -- either by law or by buying the hospitals JT45242 Dec 18 #2
Probably doesn't have to happen in a hospital. MorbidButterflyTat Dec 18 #22
You are correct I had mine done at a clinic Akacia Dec 18 #23
Here in Iowa almost all clinics are associated with a hospital group JT45242 Dec 18 #24
Does anyone have a link without a paywall? This one does not work for me. Thanks in advance. Diamond_Dog Dec 18 #5
Sorry. I don't know how to do that. The link to the NYTimes applegrove Dec 18 #6
I have shown posters here the archive site link so so many times before. Here it is again: Celerity Dec 18 #20
Here is an out-take from the article: applegrove Dec 18 #7
I think this will work angel823 Dec 18 #8
Good. Tbh I haven't heard convincing pro-natal arguments to women not wanting babies and why they should have them. Oneironaut Dec 18 #9
Good. Their body, their choice. And frankly flvegan Dec 18 #10
Just one of the reasons to not have children in the US is area51 Dec 18 #11
We are not childLESS, we are childFREE synni Dec 18 #12
You are bloody well right irisblue Dec 18 #15
Can't say I blame them under the circumstances MustLoveBeagles Dec 18 #13
There are entire Discord groups xmas74 Dec 18 #14
I'm sure that tubal ligation woud be a seriously punishable crime in the Republic of Gilead. flashman13 Dec 18 #16
The wealthy can get in vitro gulliver Dec 18 #17
Men Have Options Too 2na fisherman Dec 18 #18
My thoughts on this subject Diamond_Dog Dec 18 #21
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