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yardwork

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12. It is hitting me hard, too.
Wed Dec 17, 2025, 09:48 AM
Dec 17

There are a lot of reasons.

First, Rob Reiner and his wife were very good people - talented, kind, intelligent, generous - at a time when the opposite kind of people have taken over our country. That the Reiners would be killed feels especially awful. How could this happen to such good people?

Second, that they were killed by their son after years of trouble. Many of us have children who are struggling. Many young people are struggling now for many reasons. We worry about them and often feel helpless. We can relate to what the Reiners were going through and then this horrifying, mind boggling end. Not relatable. Jarring. Unreal feeling.

Finally, Trump's insertion of himself. I think it's a last straw for millions of us.

There's a particular age group that is most likely to be a fan of Rob Reiner and his work, and most of us on DU are in that age group. As a late-stage boomer (Generation Jones) I am right in that group.

This is a loss of a public figure that will remain memorable. People of certain ages remember when Buddy Holly was killed. I remember the plane crash that killed most of Lynyrd Skynyrd. We remember where we were when we learned that John Lennon was killed.

This has hit me hard.

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I tossed and turned about the murder last night for a while. Irish_Dem Dec 17 #1
I've been reflecting on that as well. LuckyCharms Dec 17 #2
I am a retired mental health professional and have seen a great deal during the 40 years I was working. Irish_Dem Dec 17 #4
I agree, but I think their assumed denial would be the natural reaction of a parent... LuckyCharms Dec 17 #5
Yes they were in some denial. Irish_Dem Dec 17 #21
What Malcolm Nance said on the mucifer Dec 17 #36
I was afraid of that. Irish_Dem Dec 17 #37
I agree ... OldBoss Dec 17 #13
Yes very sad situations. Irish_Dem Dec 17 #22
The US mental health care system has never been in good health. erronis Dec 17 #31
I agree. Irish_Dem Dec 17 #34
My sister was like this when... róisín_dubh Dec 17 #35
Illegal drugs are so heinous in this day, they could make anyone snap at any time. Clouds Passing Dec 17 #11
I imagine there's a degree of embarassment involved too dickthegrouch Dec 17 #27
I feel the same way. no_hypocrisy Dec 17 #3
I know what you mean PCIntern Dec 17 #6
Yes, and he was vulnerable, like the rest of us. LuckyCharms Dec 17 #7
I am comforted by the Reiners' final, enormous gift to this nation. Paladin Dec 17 #8
Bad things can happen to good people GreatGazoo Dec 17 #9
Kudos to you for this post. cer7711 Dec 17 #10
It is hitting me hard, too. yardwork Dec 17 #12
Yes, well said. Thank you. mountain grammy Dec 17 #15
Hey fellow Joneser! LittleGirl Dec 17 #17
Same here, only I was in bright red Heart of Ohio. yardwork Dec 17 #24
Me too, LuckyCharms. It was like a part of our youth was taken away. debm55 Dec 17 #14
As far back as high school I was saying we are no longer a society. We are an economy and military. twodogsbarking Dec 17 #16
We fought the law and the law won. yardwork Dec 17 #25
As hard as it hit all of us, I worry about how it hit a man who knew his dad well, and possibly knew Rob Reiner as a kid Attilatheblond Dec 17 #18
Had a thought about this that provided some consolation ... Jarqui Dec 17 #19
Thank you - beautiful post. erronis Dec 17 #32
My friends & I were 60's protesters... bluboid Dec 17 #20
I'm so sad over the murders and heartbroken over Romy who will live forever with the vision of her dead parents. TommieMommy Dec 17 #23
Having a child who is dangerous is devastating dlk Dec 17 #26
Dearest Lucky Niagara Dec 17 #28
. LuckyCharms Dec 17 #29
It was so shocking wendyb-NC Dec 17 #30
A lovely tribute to Rob and to Michael (Meathead). Thank you. erronis Dec 17 #33
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