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lostnfound

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6. To MAGA relatives, Trump feels like the most important family member they've got
Mon Dec 8, 2025, 06:28 AM
Monday

They think they know him. They think Trump understands and cares about them.

Imagine that your niece or your cousin has a new boyfriend or girlfriend (let’s call them “Jamie”) that they've been dating for a few years, and you can’t stand “Jamie”..
Your niece/cousin asks what you want for Christmas. Poignantly, they ask because they are unwell, and they specifically are thinking that they might not be around for next year’s Christmas, so they want it to be a good present.
You answer “Jamie in a coffin”.

When a relative is dating Jamie, it is beyond frustrating that they keep choosing Jamie in spite of all of the evidence, cajoling, insight and important perspective we might try to share. We know that Jamie is bad — he is stealing from them and from us, he is cheating and being deceptive, he is full of empty blarney and flattery, and we suspect he could and might burn the house down to collect the insurance money.

But to our naive MAGA relatives, Jamie might as well be their Beloved, their biggest high school crush, their fiancee. He is or was their dream, and to the extent that the dream is dying, it is a big raw wound for them.

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I feel your pain. Haggard Celine Monday #1
Thank you so much for your kind response! Coventina Monday #3
I understand. If my father were alive today, he'd be just like your father. no_hypocrisy Monday #2
somehow, I get the feeling that "owning the libs" with just petty barbs and jokes Coventina Monday #4
Very insightful comment...people feel inadequate in this complicated world nt lostnfound Monday #5
To MAGA relatives, Trump feels like the most important family member they've got lostnfound Monday #6
I think that's spot on with many of them - harumph Monday #11
So sorry to hear that wolfie001 Monday #7
The boyfriend answered, "A coffin full of Trump." Do they come in that size? usaf-vet Monday #8
I am so very sorry Tesha Monday #9
I hope the boyfriend apologizes for his response. alcuno Monday #10
I'm so sorry... Of all the horrible things Trump has done.... Happy Hoosier Monday #12
I have always believed that politics do not belong in family communications. MineralMan Monday #13
That's my philosophy. Xolodno Yesterday #29
Absolutely blubunyip Yesterday #32
Cue up the DUers scolding those of us who shun MAGAt relatives and friends Arazi Monday #14
There's a significant gap between shunning and deliberately antagonizing EdmondDantes_ Monday #15
lol, so in *THIS* exchange the Dem family member got snarky first Arazi Monday #16
From the evidence presented, that's an assumption EdmondDantes_ Monday #24
Often, that gap is little more than inference. Torchlight Monday #18
I'm so sorry 😔 MustLoveBeagles Monday #17
Sounds like there is pain on both sides GreatGazoo Monday #19
Wondering how we can deprogram 70 million cult members? Emile Monday #20
Start arresting Fox News hosts? Initech Monday #22
The Boyfriend should have refrained from that "joke". maxsolomon Monday #21
I'm sorry your sister got such a fierce response from your father.... electric_blue68 Monday #23
I would have saved that joke for someone other than family. Iggo Monday #25
I'll agree with you. Deuxcents Monday #27
I'm sorry . Republican voters are mean and their vileness and explosiveness increases with age....because.... Bread and Circuses Monday #26
Just as they project their weaknesses, failure and fears on others, Jabba the Orange Hutt is a projection of themselves. usonian Yesterday #28
Sorry to disagree. tavernier Yesterday #30
I would be pissed, but I certainly wouldn't jump to, "That means you want me dead too." Scrivener7 Yesterday #31
I agree. The dad is blubunyip Yesterday #33
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