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BlueKota

(5,034 posts)
53. It's hard.
Thu Oct 9, 2025, 04:45 PM
Oct 9

My parents always helped others. My Mom was a RN and my Dad delivered water to wells, and farmers, and took volunteer fire calls for 3 local companies, and watered the fairgrounds racing track between races. The last he did not for money, but tickets so we could go to the County fair.If people couldn't pay for their water bill, he'd let them pay a little over time interest free. My Mom provided nursing care to my paternal grandma and grandma's friends for free. That's how my sister and I were raised, to work hard, help others without expecting anything in return, and follow the rules.

Now it seems those "values," are no longer valued. It's the people who lie, cheat, steal, and harm others for no valid reason except they are not white straight American born men, and Republican, who are held in esteem. The rest of us are viewed as weak suckers whose only purpose is to worship and work for that privileged class only.

My college professors were mostly guys who were hippies in the sixties, and taught equal rights, to respect the Constitution, and social justice. Now they would be called radicals.

You're right. I don't recognize this country anymore either. It's heartbreaking.

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😁 Trump Will Go Nuts 😁 [View all] MayReasonRule Oct 8 OP
Inshallah. nt Tommy Carcetti Oct 8 #1
What's that mean? raccoon Oct 8 #3
Arabic for "If God wills it." Tommy Carcetti Oct 8 #5
You must not know many Middle Easterners, Arabs, or Muslims. It's a very common expression. It means 'if Allah wills it' Celerity Oct 8 #6
I learned the meaning by reading Amelia Peabody books...Elizabeth Peters AKA Barbara Mertz Demsrule86 Oct 8 #15
Those are great books BlueKota Oct 8 #47
Old compadre of mine worked in Saudi for a few years paleotn Oct 8 #32
A favorite Nikossitti Oct 8 #44
Just do it.. Deuxcents Oct 8 #2
Yip, close to the vest, not give clues for their damage control, please. UTUSN Oct 8 #28
Please explain "go" nuts... Conjuay Oct 8 #4
It probably means MLWR Oct 9 #52
I'm wondering if the Grim Reaper is close to knocking in his door Jerry2144 Oct 8 #7
He will never push up daisies.... lastlib Oct 8 #29
Yup lonely bird Oct 9 #51
I will believe it when I see it. dugog55 Oct 8 #8
Our Democracy sure could use a little tweaking KS Toronado Oct 8 #11
"Look at what is going on with armed forces in Democrat cities..." Wednesdays Oct 8 #14
Yep. That right there is a tip-off. calimary Oct 8 #19
Yeah, I didn't alert because it could easily have been a mistake. Wednesdays Oct 8 #20
My Money Says Most Folks Are Unaware That The Term Originated As A Slur... MayReasonRule Oct 8 #25
Then it's high time we taught 'em. nt Wednesdays Oct 8 #42
For Sure Y'all.. I Just Don't See It As A Hill To Die On... Definitions Of Terms Vary Through Time And Cultures... MayReasonRule Oct 8 #45
Post removed Post removed Oct 8 #46
Not everyone knows that, it's a bit much to denigrate a du member as "bastard.. mean.. stupid.. poorly educated" chia Oct 8 #38
My Money Says Most Folks Are Unaware That It Originated As A Slur MayReasonRule Oct 8 #24
I agree with dugog55 and if your only complaint is that he wrote "Democrat" instead on "Democratic" then... Towlie Oct 8 #33
Words have consequences. nt Wednesdays Oct 8 #41
Rec for the IC malaise Oct 8 #43
Complete revisionist history regarding the ACA. None of your claims about it are true. Wiz Imp Oct 8 #16
He's on monthly infusions for Congestive Heart Failure Captain Zero Oct 8 #36
Democratic Cirsium Oct 8 #39
I'll take any good news--even if quite possibly exaggerated (and yes, I do love Swalwell, but...) hlthe2b Oct 8 #9
I need it badly today, too Grim Chieftain Oct 8 #10
I totally relate to every word you've posted, Grim Chieftain. calimary Oct 8 #23
I told my psychiatrist BlueKota Oct 8 #48
Bless your heart, BlueKota, i know how you feel Grim Chieftain Oct 8 #49
It's hard. BlueKota Oct 9 #53
I hope Eric is right! nt Exp Oct 8 #12
I hope it is true. SamKnause Oct 8 #13
He's nuts already. WestMichRad Oct 8 #17
Cleanup on Aisle 7, Condiments!! lastlib Oct 8 #18
... SheltieLover Oct 8 #27
I WANT to believe lame54 Oct 8 #21
Yep I'll believe it when I see it. Irish_Dem Oct 8 #31
False hope, Eric. ReRe Oct 8 #22
Short trip... SheltieLover Oct 8 #26
I hope that Congressman Swalwell is right LetMyPeopleVote Oct 8 #30
I hope so too, but won't put much faith in it happening until enough GOP Congress Cretins force Johnson to open things Attilatheblond Oct 8 #34
I'll believe it when I see it awesomerwb1 Oct 8 #35
I am too afraid too hope again. BlueKota Oct 8 #37
It's WAY PAST TIME for fuck's sake Blue Owl Oct 8 #40
"Jailbreak" is the right word! Jack Valentino Oct 8 #50
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