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MIButterfly

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15. When I was under 10, my mother would send me alone to the store two-and-a-half blocks away to get her cigarettes!
Fri Jun 6, 2025, 11:43 AM
Jun 2025

Edited to add that I think this is a horrible thing to do to the parents, who have suffered enough with the loss of their child. That's just cruel. Why don't they go after some real criminals?

I believe in holding negligent parents responsible, but this wasn't a case of negligence. It was a tragic accident.

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When I was 10, I would walk across the rural road into a farmer's field regularly. Archae Jun 2025 #1
I shudder to think of some of the crazy and careless things I did as a child NH Ethylene Jun 2025 #4
Over at Youtube there are a number of videos showing what us kids in the 1960's and 70's had, that would be banned now. Archae Jun 2025 #9
My parents would have been charged with neglect now-- viva la Jun 2025 #17
At 12 I was babysitting for the neighbors kids forthemiddle Jun 2025 #81
We sure had more energy then. viva la Jun 2025 #82
But if the younger brother shot the older brother with the father's pistol,... magicarpet Jun 2025 #7
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2025 #37
Well Hi Sunshine!! Full of questions aren't you. GP6971 Jun 2025 #38
Losing their precious child is not enough punishment for them? NH Ethylene Jun 2025 #2
Maybe the city should consider pedestrian walkways Johonny Jun 2025 #34
There was a crosswalk at the intersection - they did not go to it. ms liberty Jun 2025 #77
When I was five, no_hypocrisy Jun 2025 #3
I walked by myself to kindergarten which was a mile away and I had to cross two arterials to get there. OMGWTF Jun 2025 #10
My mom would occasionally send me to the local bodega at age four in the Bronx. Squaredeal Jun 2025 #41
Good grief! Seriously?!? mwmisses4289 Jun 2025 #5
If not, I hope somebody can throw the judge out. n/t Igel Jun 2025 #71
Certainly a tragedy, but not sure charges are appropriate if facts are as in excerpt. Silent Type Jun 2025 #6
This is so, so cruel. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2025 #8
They already will pay for their entire lives for this very bad decision karynnj Jun 2025 #11
Got to wonder if the charges would still have been filed Bettie Jun 2025 #12
One of them is white Mountainguy Jun 2025 #18
Doesn't mean that there isn't an element Bettie Jun 2025 #26
Agreed, and the surviving son is probably blaming himself. brush Jun 2025 #30
And his parents aren't there to Bettie Jun 2025 #50
Maybe its much better for the surviving child Mountainguy Jun 2025 #31
WOW ! You are really tearing IN on this one, aren't you ? -(nt)- stopdiggin Jun 2025 #53
I'm not the one Mountainguy Jun 2025 #56
Are you a parent? Bettie Jun 2025 #64
There are many parents who relish attacking other parents in situations like this. NH Ethylene Jun 2025 #86
Deleted due to carelessness Bettie Jun 2025 #88
Yep. Bettie Jun 2025 #91
Is it uncommon to let a 10 and 7 year old run to the store? mzmolly Jun 2025 #67
It was when I was a kid. haele Jun 2025 #76
I think you misunderstood my post. mzmolly Jun 2025 #80
This kind of thing has been reported for pretty much every race/orientation/ethnicity. Igel Jun 2025 #73
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2025 #42
You're right to highlight the racial aspect... regnaD kciN Jun 2025 #55
... Solly Mack Jun 2025 #13
"... as his older brother attempted to hold him back." unblock Jun 2025 #14
When I was under 10, my mother would send me alone to the store two-and-a-half blocks away to get her cigarettes! MIButterfly Jun 2025 #15
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2025 #39
Who's to say the same thing wouldn't have happened with his mother standing right there? MIButterfly Jun 2025 #46
Seems clear to me Mountainguy Jun 2025 #16
What justice is served by incarcerating the parents and leaving the older brother with the burden that not only did his WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2025 #21
Justice for a dead 7 year old Mountainguy Jun 2025 #43
What justice is it tho WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2025 #44
'duty to supervise' - meaning parent must be in attendance at all times? 24/7? stopdiggin Jun 2025 #28
"Crossing a busy 4 lane" Mountainguy Jun 2025 #32
crossing a busy street (or road) is not beyond the capabilities of stopdiggin Jun 2025 #45
No, its actually not Mountainguy Jun 2025 #48
I agree - NOW it is stopdiggin Jun 2025 #52
Hypercriticism? Mountainguy Jun 2025 #57
and for every dead child - we MUST of course assign blame .... -(nt)- stopdiggin Jun 2025 #87
yeah Mountainguy Jun 2025 #94
"Reasonable person" BannonsLiver Jun 2025 #69
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2025 #40
Unrec ProfessorGAC Jun 2025 #36
Strong rule of law Mountainguy Jun 2025 #47
Not to mention cruel MorbidButterflyTat Jun 2025 #83
Makes as much sense as charging parents who send their kids to school where they die in a mass shooting Ponietz Jun 2025 #59
Ridiculous Mountainguy Jun 2025 #62
Parents held on $1.5 million bond!!! Moosepoop Jun 2025 #19
Honestly, I don't think it would have mattered if Mom was there or not. haele Jun 2025 #20
Hopefully there is a judge or jury with common sense Renew Deal Jun 2025 #22
Unbelievable, but too believable. LAS14 Jun 2025 #23
A bit more from the local tv station & paper. The drivers name is not given irisblue Jun 2025 #24
76 year old driver not charged but questionseverything Jun 2025 #51
If the child darted out in front of them and they couldn't stop in time NH Ethylene Jun 2025 #85
Lemme guess the color of the driver in the Jeep... FakeNoose Jun 2025 #65
Friend of law enforcement? MorbidButterflyTat Jun 2025 #84
10-year-olds can generally gauge the speed of cars and are ready to cross the street on their own. LudwigPastorius Jun 2025 #25
I agree that 10-year-olds are competent to cross streets by themselves, and that mother shouldn't be charged . . .BUT markpkessinger Jun 2025 #61
I was paid to babysit when I was 10, even infants. Native Jun 2025 #68
this is NOT any form of abuse or neglect (IMO) stopdiggin Jun 2025 #27
Stupid roscoeroscoe Jun 2025 #29
We live in a police state. GoodRaisin Jun 2025 #33
Government once again telling people what they can and cannot do bucolic_frolic Jun 2025 #35
Yeah damn government Mountainguy Jun 2025 #60
Damn government thinks everything can be controlled. nt LAS14 Jun 2025 #75
When I was four I snuck out of my backyard. Jacson6 Jun 2025 #49
So a couple things Johnny2X2X Jun 2025 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author Ponietz Jun 2025 #58
Wow, this seems dumb. flvegan Jun 2025 #63
Our daughters used to cross a 4 lane street to get to school when they were 9 and 7. DFW Jun 2025 #66
My siblings and I were all free-range kids, and... ananda Jun 2025 #70
I was a feral child in the midwest in the 70's... WarGamer Jun 2025 #72
I had access to guns when I was that age Kaleva Jun 2025 #74
A Tragic Story ScoutHikerDad Jun 2025 #78
This is tragic but no ibegurpard Jun 2025 #79
If the father hadn't rang canetoad Jun 2025 #89
Maybe for boys that's too young ecstatic Jun 2025 #90
I guess I should be in supermax Grolph_ Jun 2025 #92
. MorbidButterflyTat Jun 2025 #93
When i was 7 or 8, i used to bike to school every day alone lostnfound Jun 2025 #95
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