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No Kidding: Sexist Jokes Aren't Funny, They're Hostile
What's the difference between a woman and a pay phone?
You need a quarter to use a pay phone."
"How is a woman like a condom?
Both of them spend more time in your wallet than on your dick."
"What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?
Nothing, you already told her twice."
Women can be easily deceived, used and abused. Women are gold diggers, teasing you sexually but really only after your money. That's the subliminal message here, right? That last joke is great because it alludes to physical abuse, which we all know makes for hysterical comedy material.
Care for one more? Here goes!
"I like my violence like I like my beer: domestic"
That last one wasn't a joke told by a bunch of guys on their fifth pitcher of beer, slowly starting to slur their words and letting their inhibitions down.
Nope.
It was the recent Facebook status of popular east-end Montreal bar, Nacho Libre, whose social media manager somehow thought it completely appropriate to publish this cringe-inducing "joke." Isn't domestic abuse a riot?
That same bar recently had a sign outside, announcing the pick-up line of the day. Want to know what it was? Take notes, boys and girls. This one's bound to score you some digits.
"Does this handkerchief smell like chloroform?"
You need a quarter to use a pay phone."
"How is a woman like a condom?
Both of them spend more time in your wallet than on your dick."
"What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?
Nothing, you already told her twice."
Women can be easily deceived, used and abused. Women are gold diggers, teasing you sexually but really only after your money. That's the subliminal message here, right? That last joke is great because it alludes to physical abuse, which we all know makes for hysterical comedy material.
Care for one more? Here goes!
"I like my violence like I like my beer: domestic"
That last one wasn't a joke told by a bunch of guys on their fifth pitcher of beer, slowly starting to slur their words and letting their inhibitions down.
Nope.
It was the recent Facebook status of popular east-end Montreal bar, Nacho Libre, whose social media manager somehow thought it completely appropriate to publish this cringe-inducing "joke." Isn't domestic abuse a riot?
That same bar recently had a sign outside, announcing the pick-up line of the day. Want to know what it was? Take notes, boys and girls. This one's bound to score you some digits.
"Does this handkerchief smell like chloroform?"
the rest at:
http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/toula-foscolos/sexist-jokes-women_b_4815632.html
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I don't know why because they make me want to slap somebody (and that would be the hostility, people).
If I ain't laughing it ain't funny 
you (and I) -think- like a -man- .... we have discussed this yet, we don't find those jokes funny ....
and I have terrible hospital humor and laugh at a lot of very distasteful jokes.
Fascinating:
Still, it's important to point to actual studies that pinpoint the results of something so many consider utterly benign. In the study, men were exposed to sexist images and humour, and then asked to participate in a project designed to determine how funding cuts should be allocated among select student organizations.
The study found that, upon exposure to sexist humour, men higher in sexism discriminated against women by allocating larger funding cuts to a women's organization than they did to other organizations. They also found that, in the presence of sexist humour, participants believed the other participants would approve of the funding cuts to women's organizations.
What this shows is that humorous disparagement creates the perception of a shared standard of tolerance of discrimination that may guide behaviour when people believe others feel the same way.
"Sexist humor is not simply benign amusement. It can affect men's perceptions of their immediate social surroundings and allow them to feel comfortable with behavioral expressions of sexism without the fear of disapproval of their peers," said Thomas E. Ford, a faculty member in the psychology department at WCU. "Specifically, we propose that sexist humor acts as a 'releaser' of prejudice."
The study found that, upon exposure to sexist humour, men higher in sexism discriminated against women by allocating larger funding cuts to a women's organization than they did to other organizations. They also found that, in the presence of sexist humour, participants believed the other participants would approve of the funding cuts to women's organizations.
What this shows is that humorous disparagement creates the perception of a shared standard of tolerance of discrimination that may guide behaviour when people believe others feel the same way.
"Sexist humor is not simply benign amusement. It can affect men's perceptions of their immediate social surroundings and allow them to feel comfortable with behavioral expressions of sexism without the fear of disapproval of their peers," said Thomas E. Ford, a faculty member in the psychology department at WCU. "Specifically, we propose that sexist humor acts as a 'releaser' of prejudice."
In the comments section, I love Jake T:
I have three sons and I have taught them since infancy that sexist humour creates image inside their brains that denigrates all women. I have taught them when someone says a joke imagine it is about their younger sister or their mother. I ask them how they would feel if people said those sorts of things about their mum even in jest. The answer has always been, "it would make me feel angry and/or sad." These jokes perpetuated negative stereotypes against women and cause them harm. These jokes minimize violence and emotional harm perpetrated against women. Simply put, they are not funny.
I think it is a quick, low snow total storm, but still.... 17 degrees actual, windchill, -3.
Boy was the Farmer's Almanac correct in predicting a snowy winter.