History of Feminism
Related: About this forumAfter reading a certain thread tonight
I'm starting to get pissed off, that we are accused of being abusive. What was and is being posted in a thread in GD is what is truly fucking abusive.
Response to boston bean (Original post)
Tuesday Afternoon This message was self-deleted by its author.
cinnabonbon
(860 posts)callouts are only bad when feminists do it (and especially when they don't use names, like other groups do.)
It's not abusive to call a survivor a liar and other harmful things, it is abusive to tell that person that it's callous to say so.
Did I miss anything?
boston bean
(36,620 posts)cinnabonbon
(860 posts)boston bean
(36,620 posts)They can't have anything like that be happening now, can they?
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)or has shit gotten exponentialy worse here lately?
It is like the hate and abuse is amped up to 11.
There is allowing for "discussion" and then there is just plain insanity.
cinnabonbon
(860 posts)They're starting to show their true colours.
JustAnotherGen
(34,145 posts)Something similar to what you wrote in the AA Group.
Boston - pm me a link to this thread you reference.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)I am sure BB will hook you up... I'm on a mobile device and it's hard.
boston bean
(36,620 posts)JustAnotherGen
(34,145 posts)cinnabonbon
(860 posts)It's a bad thread, and I don't say that lightly.
JustAnotherGen
(34,145 posts)After the guy who said white men were only with black women to "conquer" them this summer and got like 300 recs - I vomited in my mouth a little.
Then I found out MLK was actually a white man who fought for labor rights per DU - and I think I had a minor stroke.
Rape doesn't happen - and women make more money than men - those gave me a nervous tick.
But when I see such petty vicious vindictive bullshit I just feel nothing. That's a quality and extent of horses ass that is beyond comprehension.
boston bean
(36,620 posts)She's never been one I would have suspected of being so damned mean. But then again she said she feels the same way about lgbt here. So obviously some of these tendencies have popped up.
cinnabonbon
(860 posts)democrats if they dislike women and LGBT folk.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)"I can't believe somebody wrote that."
And now I've thought that 3 times in the last day or two. (The misogynist screed that resulted in a PPR, and a couple times in CreekDog's thread.)
I am curious if these folks really believe what they write or if they are intentionally pushing buttons. Either way, wow. Just wow.
kcr
(15,522 posts)That surprised me, too. It's a shock when people reveal their true feelings like that.
seaglass
(8,181 posts)combined with Skinner's lock and the lack of expected support on the SI thread. Backlash.
boston bean
(36,620 posts)DURHAM D
(32,869 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)DURHAM D
(32,869 posts)I know they were written by a 60+ year old woman but all I could hear in my head was -
Oh my goodness, what a wounded child.
I feel sorry for her. At the same time I am so glad she is not my sister or my neighbor.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)Be honest.
DURHAM D
(32,869 posts)boston bean
(36,620 posts)Jeepers creepers.
You know something. I treated you with respect. And this is what you do in return. Some accusations that I'm dissing you?
No this is not about you.
RiffRandell
(5,909 posts)I treated you with respect too. No need to get fired up....funny I use Jeepers Creepers around my kids all the time.
I believe you. Move on.
boston bean
(36,620 posts)I'm relaxed. Don't you worry about that.
RBStevens
(227 posts)just about as cynical as I could be but that display of callousness was one of the most jaw-dropping I have seen in some time.
Then to be added to the *bullies* list by a person whom I've learned is a merciless supporter of such callousness is disturbing, to say the least.
Who needs yahoo or headline news comments sections when you can get all the garden variety sexism and racism you'd ever need right here?
hlthe2b
(107,537 posts)If being (mis)-labeled "bullies" merely for standing up for gender, race, and sexual orientation equality, and more specifically the rights of women, well then I'll wear that label proudly. You are quite right about the callousness demonstrated towards a brave victim of sexual violence and none of us intends to sit by silently as they are re-victimized by their cruel comments.
Again, I'm glad you found your way to this group. Welcome!
RBStevens
(227 posts)I just wish it had been under less painfully awful circumstances.
TDale313
(7,822 posts)Wow, how completely vicious. And not just that one poster, although she was the worst. I can't even wrap my head around that sort of cruelty.
ismnotwasm
(42,510 posts)Cruel and weird.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)who'd supposedly been big meanies to her in the past. That she would use such a painful, intimate subject for those purposes really borders on the sociopathic.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)boston bean
(36,620 posts)and are active once more.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)MadrasT
(7,237 posts)to brutally attack a sexual assault survivor on DU, and claim she might be lying.
Jesus that is sick.
Sick.
redqueen
(115,177 posts)Clear as a bell.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)pintobean
(18,101 posts)She's on the five-hide time-out.
RBStevens
(227 posts)Mighty generous of you.
DURHAM D
(32,869 posts)CrispyQ
(38,882 posts)http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=4539333
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Just why the hell is it that anyone with two brain cells to rub together in order to form a thought know intuitively that crapping on people of color or LGBT people isn't acceptable anywhere on DU but when it comes to crapping on women hell, DU has a whole group dedicating itself to that and it's a regular staple in the Lounge that's supposed to be welcoming to everyone. Are the women of DU supposed to be GRATEFUL when people "stick up" for us non-penis wearing folk when they say that shit shouldn't be in GD, but hey, perfectly fine for other places on DU and be happy to join in the objectifying in those places.
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