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Lunabell

(7,203 posts)
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 10:24 PM Nov 3

After their son came out, this conservative Christian couple went into a closet of their own.

Great article!!

As soon as Greg McDonald Jr. saw his parents, he knew he was in trouble. His father stood waiting for him with his arms folded and his brow furrowed. Beside him was Greg’s mother, her eyes red and puffy.

“Quick, pretend you’re interested in me,” Greg Jr. told his friend Betsy as he steered the speedboat toward the dock at his parents’ riverfront home outside Grand Rapids, Michigan.

Greg Jr. had just taken a group of friends out for a rollicking boat ride. It was late in the summer of 2001, and he was about to head off to his first year of college. In just a few weeks the 17-year-old thought he’d be free.

But while Greg Jr. was away his father, a conservative Christian, had checked his computer’s search history. He’d heard stories of young men being corrupted by the internet and had discovered his son’s secret: visits to gay porn sites.

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After their son came out, this conservative Christian couple went into a closet of their own. (Original Post) Lunabell Nov 3 OP
huge read. i briefly scanned it and o my. i feel for anyone in a "christian, conservative " family AllaN01Bear Nov 3 #1
It reminded me of my very conservative Christian parents. Lunabell Nov 3 #2
You can be either a person that hates or a person that loves. Midnight Writer Nov 4 #3
Thank you for the article recommendation The Great Open Dance Nov 4 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author Tbear Nov 5 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author Tbear Nov 5 #5
The children of progressive Christians The Great Open Dance Nov 10 #7

AllaN01Bear

(23,735 posts)
1. huge read. i briefly scanned it and o my. i feel for anyone in a "christian, conservative " family
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 10:35 PM
Nov 3

notice i said that in quotes ,

Lunabell

(7,203 posts)
2. It reminded me of my very conservative Christian parents.
Sun Nov 3, 2024, 10:48 PM
Nov 3

After my mom died, my step mom pretty much laid down the law about loving his daughter unconditionally. My dad even eventually totally accepted my wife. Sent love to her over the phone etc. He was really changed by my step mom.

Midnight Writer

(23,334 posts)
3. You can be either a person that hates or a person that loves.
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 07:36 AM
Nov 4

The message of Christ is clearly to be a person that loves.

There are no loopholes, there is no ambiguity in His teaching to love one another.

4. Thank you for the article recommendation
Mon Nov 4, 2024, 12:48 PM
Nov 4

In my church, nobody really cares if you're right handed or left handed, brown eyed, or blue eyed, gay or straight--thank God.

Response to The Great Open Dance (Reply #4)

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7. The children of progressive Christians
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 10:35 AM
Nov 10

don't have to suffer like this. Nor do their parents suffer from homophobia. Brittle, rigid worldviews produce needless suffering.

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