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ShazzieB

(22,108 posts)
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 02:45 AM Tuesday

Update on Willow

Last edited Tue Dec 9, 2025, 12:21 PM - Edit history (1)

Some of you may recall that our tortie Willow was diagnosed with mammary cancer back in May 2024. I made several posts here at the time, about the diagnosis and subsequent surgery to remove the 2 mammary glands that had masses growing in them. When they were sent to their lab for analysis, only one was ruled malignant, but that was one too many.

She came through the surgery just fine, but we were told that recurrence was virtually inevitable, due to the way these cancers progress in cats. In other words, it was eventually going to be fatal, and there was no way to protect exactly how long it would be. We decided to just give her the best life possible for as long as we could, and that's what we've been doing ever since.

She seemed fine for about a year or so, eating, sleeping, and pooping normally and showing no signs of distress. But one day we noticed a new lump, and another one popped up shortly thereafter. We were pretty sure what was happening, but took her the vet to find out for sure. Our suspicions were confirme, and our choices were either more surgery or just continue to spoil her rotten while waiting for nature to take its course. We chose the latter. She was pretty traumatize by the first surgery, and decided it wasn't woth the additional trauma or expense to put her through more surgery just to buy a little more time.

She continued to seem basically fine for months after that. Her lumps continued to grow but she seemed unbothered by them and was still her normal self in most ways. Her appetite gradually got a little more fussy, but not to an alarming extent. But this past weekend, the largest lump started to bleed a little bit, so we called the vet first thing o Monday and got an appointment for 2 pm on Tuesday. We're not sure what we're going to fine out, it seems clear that she's running out of time.

The only thing we're sure of right now is that her comfort is our highest priority. My husband and I are agreed that we are not going to try to prolong her life past the point where it's no longer enjoyable for her. I'll post an update when we get back from the vet.

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Update on Willow (Original Post) ShazzieB Tuesday OP
Healing vibes on the way to sweet Willow, you & your family SheltieLover Tuesday #1
I am so sorry ShazzieB. If it helps any, I do think brer cat Tuesday #2
Willow is lucky she is with you not fooled Tuesday #3
I'm so sorry ShazzieB, JMCKUSICK Tuesday #4
gentle hug 🫂 to you and willow. mwmisses4289 Tuesday #5
Glad you've given her such good care IbogaProject Tuesday #6
Her comfort Dear_Prudence Tuesday #7
Vibes for best possible outcome for all of you. We are here for you niyad Tuesday #8
Willow has had the best love and care given to her by you. Polly Hennessey Tuesday #9
Im so, so sorry..... Karadeniz Tuesday #10
AW, Willow, sending good vibes for healing and comfort wendyb-NC Tuesday #11

brer cat

(27,313 posts)
2. I am so sorry ShazzieB. If it helps any, I do think
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 03:08 AM
Tuesday

how you are handling this is the best possible for Willow. It's very hard, but keeping her comfortable as long as possible without subjecting her to additional trauma shows kindness and love for your fur baby.

I hope it goes well for all of you.

JMCKUSICK

(4,849 posts)
4. I'm so sorry ShazzieB,
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 04:56 AM
Tuesday

You're describing the agony that is payment due for the ecstasy. God bless you during your time of decisions and results.
Your Willow has things to say to you if you listen, her gratitude for this life, your being her Hooman or however they say it.
I'm more certain today that cats communicate with us far more often than we give credit.
Please say all the things that need and deserve saying, cry the tears that will flow, and please keep her near you during these difficult times for all of you, and let the love you feel lead you forward.
God Speed ShazzieB

IbogaProject

(5,524 posts)
6. Glad you've given her such good care
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 08:45 AM
Tuesday

These things are always hard with animal companions which such shorter lifespans. You've given her like an extra decade or more in cat years. I did get confused but the "tortie" even though I have a mute color one right by me. I was trying to picture a tortoise for part of your post.

niyad

(129,204 posts)
8. Vibes for best possible outcome for all of you. We are here for you
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 09:28 AM
Tuesday

and your precious girl.

Polly Hennessey

(8,476 posts)
9. Willow has had the best love and care given to her by you.
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 10:20 AM
Tuesday

What you have done for her shines brightly. Gently, Willow, gently, you are so loved.

wendyb-NC

(4,568 posts)
11. AW, Willow, sending good vibes for healing and comfort
Tue Dec 9, 2025, 11:08 AM
Tuesday

Thanks for the update, all take care.

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