Mental Health Support
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I live with someone who forbids me from calling 911 when his 200-lb ass is on the floor. I can't lift him.
My insane sister fell the day and banged herself up and whose right side is according to her becoming paralyzed. She's on Medicare. She's out of money so can't go for treatment.
I must be crazy. When I go for care, I present my Medicare card and they bill me later. I'm surrounded by assholes. I mean some stupid mofos. I'm gonna let them kill themselves.
I've got a medical bill coming today for surgery.
ETA my 7000 plus bill was $8.02

WhiteTara
(30,395 posts)If he refuses EMT care, you will have to leave him until he can get himself up. Yikes. Unless they take him to the hospital, it costs nothing for the help to lift him. This has happened so often to us that the EMTs know where they're going when they hear the first numbers of our address. Lol They are angels and kind. Sorry you are in such a pickle of life.
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)I'm beyond disgusted. I refuse to lift him..he slipped in the shower and stuck bc he's obese. I said I'm calling and not paying. Fuck you.
Btw, my sister is buying expensive food and eating lobster shrimp quiche from scratch telling me I'm lazy bc i eat frozen meals. She's an asshole.
WhiteTara
(30,395 posts)and leave him be. To lift him costs NOTHING. Ambulance to hospital costs, but you are billed first and then give insurance info and usually the cost is still nothing.
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)Change the locks. He was screaming once you want me outta here! And i said I do.
My latest response to I'm-cutting-the-money-off is do it we will be evicted in 30 days and goodbye
WhiteTara
(30,395 posts)and then when you get evicted, move on and leave him to care for himself. The sister too. Change your number and block their calls.
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)And emotional abuse and other things. I'm only hete bc i can't afford to live on ssdi. He's 72
WhiteTara
(30,395 posts)pillow over his face when he's passed out? No, really just a joke.
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)The phone is perfect for that. I'm supposedly supposed to get 10 yrs of his pension which I'll need.
WhiteTara
(30,395 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)Not sure i understand what u mean by when but i try not to interact w him throughout the day
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)He drinks n s smokes and misused RXes. He has barrett esophagus. He's a addict.
WhiteTara
(30,395 posts)perhaps a pillow would be a mercy.
Permanut
(6,822 posts)They bill you after Medicare pays. So be paralyzed. You'll end up eating frozen meals since you won't be able to cook
LoisB
(9,446 posts)and it won't be too much longer before you remove yourself from all those toxic people.
I think he's gonna stroke out screaming at me
LoisB
(9,446 posts)6th round, Foreman could barely lift his arms - he had punched himself out. Ali knocked him out in the 8th round.
Eventually, he will scream himself out.
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)Expensive shellfish and claiming no money for serious health problems. I just got my $7000.00 bill I'm paying $8.02
LoisB
(9,446 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)I did pay 500 facility fee. Still awaiting Hida Scan bill who knows what else
LoisB
(9,446 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)When stressed like a fight i get pain
LoisB
(9,446 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)I started to feel normal... got stressed, left- sided pain and groin pain started up. Today feel ok. Its weird..
XanaDUer2
(15,281 posts)Still no movememt towards medical care. Again, you present Medicare card and you're billed later. I am in the twilight zone