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Bonobo

(29,257 posts) Thu Dec 5, 2013, 02:59 AM Dec 2013

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Didn't you just post something from GD and put it in this safe haven? hrmjustin Dec 2013 #1

Errrr, no. Bonobo Dec 2013 #2

No you didn't but the person you mentioned is banned from this room and can not defend herself. hrmjustin Dec 2013 #3

Is it only crappy in the men's Group? Bonobo Dec 2013 #4

Of course, it is. Behind the Aegis Dec 2013 #5

What is amazing is that we don't block them from doing so. Bonobo Dec 2013 #6

Happy Hannukah, Aegis! Bonobo Dec 2013 #7

Yea but you started an OP here complaining about flame bait and people discussing things in safe hrmjustin Dec 2013 #10

You know, I remember advocating for a DU mens' group before there ever was one. NYC_SKP Dec 2013 #8

Yeah, yer probably right. Bonobo Dec 2013 #9

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)

1. Didn't you just post something from GD and put it in this safe haven?

Reply to Bonobo (Original post)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:00 AM

Dec 2013

http://www.democraticunderground.com/111411793

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Bonobo

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2. Errrr, no.

Reply to hrmjustin (Reply #1)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:06 AM

Dec 2013

I didn't make that GD post.

See the difference?

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hrmjustin

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3. No you didn't but the person you mentioned is banned from this room and can not defend herself.

Reply to Bonobo (Reply #2)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:10 AM

Dec 2013

That is kind of crappy too.

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Bonobo

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4. Is it only crappy in the men's Group?

Reply to hrmjustin (Reply #3)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:18 AM

Dec 2013

This is one OP. That kind of behavior is done by a factor of about 100x in another place. Never heard you take issue with that.

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Behind the Aegis

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5. Of course, it is.

Reply to Bonobo (Reply #4)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:21 AM

Dec 2013

Amazing how many come here to scold.

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Bonobo

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6. What is amazing is that we don't block them from doing so.

Reply to Behind the Aegis (Reply #5)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:26 AM

Dec 2013

But that is what separates us, I guess.

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Bonobo

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7. Happy Hannukah, Aegis!

Reply to Behind the Aegis (Reply #5)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:27 AM

Dec 2013

Forgot to say that.

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hrmjustin

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10. Yea but you started an OP here complaining about flame bait and people discussing things in safe

Reply to Bonobo (Reply #4)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:33 AM

Dec 2013

havens when you just posted about a poster who is banned from this safe haven. You should expect push back.

As for the other group I don't read it, and I rarely read this group. You OPs catch my attention because they come late at night.

Saying other people do things is not an excuse. You are a host of this room and you should not be discussing banned people unless you will let her respond.

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NYC_SKP

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8. You know, I remember advocating for a DU mens' group before there ever was one.

Reply to Bonobo (Original post)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:29 AM

Dec 2013

.

And this post is decidedly NOT representative of kinds of initiatives that I hoped the group would support.

Self delete. That's what I'd do.

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Bonobo

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9. Yeah, yer probably right.

Reply to NYC_SKP (Reply #8)

Thu Dec 5, 2013, 03:33 AM

Dec 2013

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