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U.S. Rep. Tony Gonzales engaged in a romantic relationship with an aide who died last year by setting herself on fire outside her Uvalde home, according to a text message and people close to the aide and her family.
A former staffer in Gonzales' district office who worked closely with the aide, Regina Ann "Regi" Santos-Aviles, said she told him they had an affair in 2024, and that she spiraled into a depression after her husband discovered the relationship and Gonzales abruptly cut her off. He also shared with the San Antonio Express-News a screenshot of a text message from Santos-Aviles in which she acknowledged having an affair with our boss.
The staffer, who asked not to be named, citing a fear of retaliation, faulted Gonzales' office for failing to intervene, saying he warned the congressman's district director months before Santos-Aviles' death that he was concerned about her well-being. He described her as his best friend and said their families knew each other.
Gonzales, a Republican representing Texas' 23rd Congressional District, is currently seeking reelection in a contested primary. He and his staff did not respond to a list of detailed questions submitted by the Express-News.
A lawyer for Santos-Aviles' husband said her romantic relationship with the congressman was an open secret, and that he does not believe it played a role in her death. Authorities have said there was no evidence of foul play in Santos-Aviles death. Both she and Gonzales were married to other people at the time of the alleged affair.
https://www.expressnews.com/news/article/tony-gonzales-affair-regina-santos-aviles-21357720.php
rampartd
(4,383 posts)take a long hot shower and get over it.
for gonzalez. keep it in your pants. trump uses these "wonderful secrets" to screw your constituents.
self immolation is a terrible mess to leave for others to clean up, and should be reserved for serious political statements.
looked this up, mostly to remember names thich quang duc and mohamed bouazizi. i had forgotten norman morrison at the pentagon and the handful of soviet era dissidents.
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/sen-kelly-says-death-threats-have-increased-since-trump-called-for-his-execution/ar-AA1RvQbD
surprising fact : 50% survival rate (modern medicine = maybe rfk has some ideas to improve the fatality rate?)
Clouds Passing
(7,626 posts)LetMyPeopleVote
(177,433 posts)This asshole needs to be voted out of office
GOP aide who died by lighting herself on fire alleged affair with House Republican: report
— Raw Story (@rawstory.com) 2026-02-18T01:55:16.457Z
https://www.rawstory.com/tony-gonzales-2675278691
According to The San Antonio Express-News, "A former staffer in Gonzales' district office who worked closely with the aide, Regina Ann 'Regi' Santos-Aviles, said she told him they had an affair in 2024, and that she spiraled into a depression after her husband discovered the relationship and Gonzales abruptly cut her off. He also shared with the San Antonio Express-News a screenshot of a text message from Santos-Aviles in which she acknowledged having an 'affair with our boss.'"
Gonzales is a married father of six.
"A lawyer for Santos-Aviles' husband said her romantic relationship with the congressman was an open secret, and that he does not believe it played a role in her death," said the report. However, "The staffer, who asked not to be named, citing a fear of retaliation, faulted Gonzales' office for failing to intervene, saying he warned the congressman's district director months before Santos-Aviles' death that he was concerned about her well-being. He described her as his 'best friend' and said their families knew each other."
Gonzales, who represents a sprawling district that covers most of the U.S.-Mexico border in Texas as well as the southwestern suburbs of San Antonio, is currently locked in a tough primary race with gun rights activist Brandon Herrera, who also fielded a close challenge for this seat in 2024.