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All expenses paid for. If you could spend the summer anywhere in the world, where would you go? Me--Ireland. And you? (Original Post) debm55 Jun 20 OP
Back to Paris. sinkingfeeling Jun 20 #1
Thank you very much, for sharing, sinkingfeeling. debm55 Jun 20 #4
England anciano Jun 20 #2
Ah, beautiful place for the summer. Thank you anciano. debm55 Jun 20 #5
I'd like to go to Scotland. Haggard Celine Jun 20 #3
HAHHAHHAHh. thank you very much, Haggard Celine. Scotland was my second choice. debm55 Jun 20 #6
I vote for Scotland also. DURHAM D Jun 20 #31
Thank you DURHAM D. That sounds wonderful. debm55 Jun 21 #38
The town of Cairns, in Queensland, Australia, to fish for giant black marlin along the Great Barrier Reef. sop Jun 20 #7
Yes, it would. Thank you so much for sharing with us, sop debm55 Jun 21 #39
Had a great time the week I spent in Dublin. multigraincracker Jun 20 #8
Same here. I have been to Ireland before. Loved Dublin. Thank you very much, multigraincracker. debm55 Jun 21 #40
Scotland buzzycrumbhunger Jun 20 #9
Thank you for sharing with us, buzzycrumbhunger. Oz seems like a great place too. debm55 Jun 21 #41
Northern Italy. Srkdqltr Jun 20 #10
Excellent area, Srkdqtir. Thank you for sharing with us. debm55 Jun 21 #42
Southern Spain. lpbk2713 Jun 20 #11
Excellent are near the Mediterranean, Thank you , lpbk2713. debm55 Jun 21 #43
That's a tough one for me MIButterfly Jun 20 #12
Thank sounds wonderful and so meaningful. Thank you very much, MlButterfly. debm55 Jun 21 #44
Any number of remote fly in fishing camps in Northern Canada. Emile Jun 20 #13
Thank you very much, Emile. That sounds so relaxing . debm55 Jun 21 #45
denmark, europe, or n wisconsin. for the bread, bread, forest. pansypoo53219 Jun 20 #14
HAHAHAHAHHA. Love it!!!! Thank you, pansypoo53219. Great selections. debm55 Jun 21 #46
i need some dark italian bread from qvicky stat. pansypoo53219 Jun 21 #58
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH. debm55 Jun 22 #73
Norway Endlessmike56 Jun 20 #15
Fantastic, Endlessmike56 debm55 Jun 22 #68
Jamaica. LoisB Jun 20 #16
Oh, that would be wonderful, LoisB. And you can visit malaise.too debm55 Jun 22 #74
Vancouver Island, B.C., Canada love_katz Jun 20 #17
Me too. Borogove Jun 22 #65
From what I read and watched that is a beautiful place. Thank you very much,love_katz. debm55 Jun 22 #75
I lived there for 7 years u4ic Jun 23 #124
Great!!!! debm55 Jun 24 #127
If it wasn't for the cost of living u4ic Jun 24 #129
Great Britain or Germany LogDog75 Jun 20 #18
That sounds wonderful, LogDog75, I would like to go too. debm55 Jun 22 #67
Italy. Morbius Jun 20 #19
Me too, I like Southern Italian food, And all the sites to see.Thank you Morbius. debm55 Jun 22 #70
Any place where they've never, ever heard of Trmp. eppur_se_muova Jun 20 #20
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAh, Thank you, eppur_se_muova. debm55 Jun 22 #77
Japan. It's next on the list. I want to see the gardens. nt Phoenix61 Jun 20 #21
Thank you very much, Phoenix61, Japan was always on my list. Would love to go there. debm55 Jun 22 #80
Switzerland. Aristus Jun 20 #22
That it is, Aristus. I hope you dream comes through and you visit Switzerland. You and Mrs. Aristus both enjoy. debm55 Jun 22 #83
Me, Lilgirl44 Jun 20 #23
Welcome, Lilgirl44. You have a great sense of curiosity debm55 Jun 22 #84
Deb...more than anything like that..I would love to go to.. Tikki Jun 20 #24
Oh , Tikki , that sounds beautiful. I really wish instead of a post you really make it to Aurstralia. debm55 Jun 22 #90
Me too debm55!!!!! 🥰 ☘️ 🍀 🥰 ☘️ 🍀 🥰 ☘️ 🍀 a kennedy Jun 20 #25
We can visit together. I have been to Ireland before. Went to Dublin, slept in a castle.worked on horse farm. If you debm55 Jun 22 #93
Yes, yes, yes, Scotland......liked it but my heart will ALWAYS love Ireland more. a kennedy Jun 22 #96
☘️ debm55 Jun 23 #102
Visit enid602 Jun 20 #26
WOW, Since you are the 26th post, you can do both. Thanks for sharing enid602 debm55 Jun 22 #94
#1: New Zealand, #2 China/Taiwan, #3 Japan, #4 Egypt, #5 South Korea, #6 Australia, ... brachism Jun 20 #27
Wonderful choices, brachism. Yes, when I think of New Zealand , I think of Lord of the Rings and the lush green grass. debm55 Jun 22 #95
My hometown Frankfurt am Main Germany gopiscrap Jun 20 #28
Excellent choices. Thank you for sharing my friend.gopiscrap. debm55 Jun 23 #103
I'm with you, Ireland. A month in the north and a month in the South bottomofthehill Jun 20 #29
Thank you very much for sharing with us.bottomofthehill.☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️ debm55 Jun 23 #106
Norway also. jgo Jun 20 #30
Thank you very much for sharing with us. jgo. I love Bar Harbor.☘️☘️☘️☘️ debm55 Jun 23 #107
Rappahannock County Virginia. LastDemocratInSC Jun 20 #32
Thank you very much LastDemocratinSC. I will have to check it out. as VA is close. debm55 Jun 23 #108
I'm with you. Ireland. Bristlecone Jun 20 #33
Yes, That would be a great vacation, Bristlecone☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️. debm55 Jun 23 #109
Loved Ireland and New Zealand next vapor2 Jun 21 #34
Me too, vapor2. We went to Ireland. I wish we had also gone to Scotland at the time. Japan has always been on my bucket debm55 Jun 21 #50
Me too. I would really like to go to New Zealand. Thank you very much for sharing. vapor2.☘️☘️☘️ debm55 Jun 23 #110
it's a toss up between S Korea and the Netherlands. GP6971 Jun 21 #35
Wonderful selections, GP6971. That would be a hard decision. debm55 Jun 21 #49
To France oberle Jun 21 #36
Oh thank you very much. oberle. That would be a very special vacation, indeed. debm55 Jun 21 #48
Don't forget St Chappelle near Notre Dame, beveeheart Jun 21 #53
Right where I/we am/are going: Truro, Massachusetts. DFW Jun 21 #37
Thank you very much for sharing your delightful post. My husband is from Boston. When we visited, we would go to the debm55 Jun 21 #47
Thanks! DFW Jun 21 #55
Sicily ProfessorGAC Jun 21 #51
Thank you very much for sharing, ProfessorGAC. debm55 Jun 22 #71
Have you seen the recent production of The Leopard on Netflix? greatauntoftriplets Jun 22 #79
Alas, No ProfessorGAC Jun 22 #89
That's a shame, it's that good IMO. greatauntoftriplets Jun 22 #91
Thanks, But.... ProfessorGAC Jun 23 #98
I see your point. greatauntoftriplets Jun 23 #99
Kirkenes, Norway, above the Arctic Circle - where you can see Russia from your house. Ocelot II Jun 21 #52
HAHAHHAHAAHA. Thank you for sharing Ocelot II, Rich visited his mother's family home in Finland. You can really see debm55 Jun 22 #72
The Pacific Northwest surfered Jun 21 #54
Thank you very much, surfered. To watch the waves or surf the waves? debm55 Jun 22 #63
Now just watching. I used to take my wetsuit, but the water temp is just too cold..48-55 in July!! surfered Jun 22 #64
New Zealand Luciferous Jun 21 #56
Thank you very much, Luciferous. That was on my bucket list too. debm55 Jun 22 #62
Somewhere near the Arctic Circle liberaltrucker Jun 21 #57
I agree. liberaltrucker. I hate the heat. debm55 Jun 22 #61
Paris again. I used to work for the French, and went five or six times a year. I miss the place, not the job, but... NNadir Jun 22 #59
Thank you very much,NNadir. The art and food of France is wonderful. Yes, you can take your wife. debm55 Jun 22 #60
Paris ❤️ lucca18 Jun 22 #66
Thank you very much, lucca18 for sharing. I have never been to Paris. But I would love to go there too. debm55 Jun 22 #69
Scotland The Blue Flower Jun 22 #76
You are so lucky. I wish when we went to Ireland, We would have gone and visited Scotland. Thank you, The Blue Flower debm55 Jun 23 #101
Paris - TBF Jun 22 #78
Great idea, TBF. Thank you for sharingl debm55 Jun 23 #114
Thailand. NoMoreRepugs Jun 22 #81
Wonderful, NoMoreRepugs. debm55 Jun 23 #116
I'd go to Mexico LuvLoogie Jun 22 #82
Thank you very much, LuvLoogie. debm55 Jun 23 #117
Mexico or Costa Rica! JBTaurus83 Jun 22 #85
Thank you, very much for sharing. JBTaurus83. I would love to go to Costa Rica and view the flora and wildlife. debm55 Jun 23 #120
On our sailboat PJMcK Jun 22 #86
Maine is beautiful. You are so lucky to visit it yearly. My husband is from Boston and Mass. is easy to get to.I loved debm55 Jun 23 #118
Somewhere inside the Arctic Circle to experience 24 hrs of light.. Cloudhopper Jun 22 #87
My husband"s mother is from Finland. He loved it when he went with them before Grad School debm55 Jun 23 #119
Ditto, the Repuplic or Ireland TexLaProgressive Jun 22 #88
Thank you very much. TexLaProgressive. I have been there and it you get a chance to go, do it.☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️ debm55 Jun 23 #115
England... displacedvermoter Jun 22 #92
Thank you very much for sharing with us, displacedvermoter. debm55 Jun 23 #113
Right where I am. I'm exactly where I want to be. I am blessed beyond measure. WheelWalker Jun 22 #97
Blessings to you my friend. debm55 Jun 23 #100
New Zealand rickford66 Jun 23 #104
Very beautiful place, rickford66. And meeting your wife there adds to the love. debm55 Jun 23 #112
Wonderful people rickford66 Jun 23 #121
Very true debm55 Jun 23 #122
Alaska we can do it Jun 23 #105
I agree. I know some folks that took a guided tour of Alaska, I have family that live near and are stationed at the Air debm55 Jun 23 #111
Yowza, I can't just think of one! u4ic Jun 23 #123
Thank you very much for sharing your selections with us, u4ic debm55 Jun 24 #128
I would want to live somewhere in the U.K, mwmisses4289 Jun 23 #125
Thank you very much for sharing with us, mwmisses4289. That sounds wonderful. debm55 Jun 24 #126
London, England some_of_us_are_sane Jun 24 #130
Thank you very much for sharing, some of us are sane. I have friends that went there and they loved it. debm55 Jun 24 #131

Haggard Celine

(18,043 posts)
3. I'd like to go to Scotland.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 07:14 PM
Jun 20

They have a lot of cool weather, which I love. And I've liked every Scottish person I've met so far, even if I have some difficulty understanding what they're saying.

DURHAM D

(33,106 posts)
31. I vote for Scotland also.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:30 PM
Jun 20

Will spend a lot of time on the Isle of Skye. Also, other places in the Outer Hebrides.



sop

(19,985 posts)
7. The town of Cairns, in Queensland, Australia, to fish for giant black marlin along the Great Barrier Reef.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 07:29 PM
Jun 20

"All expenses paid" would cover chartering a boat, right?

debm55

(62,649 posts)
40. Same here. I have been to Ireland before. Loved Dublin. Thank you very much, multigraincracker.
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 11:47 AM
Jun 21

buzzycrumbhunger

(2,455 posts)
9. Scotland
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 07:39 PM
Jun 20

… and if I ever get there, I’m not coming back.

Still pissed that my GGF left Scotland for the US by way of Canada—which would be my second choice, if only my kids would agree to learn to love winter… His 11 brothers also left Alba and wound up in Oz, which probably would’ve been better than we got stuck with. (Wish I knew the story behind the weird split in the family; probably a good story.)

MIButterfly

(3,566 posts)
12. That's a tough one for me
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 07:59 PM
Jun 20

Last edited Sat Jun 20, 2026, 08:46 PM - Edit history (1)

I would love to go back to Paris but I also want to go to Amsterdam. I want to see Anne Frank's house. Maybe I could take the all expenses summer in Paris and then take a side trip to Amsterdam on my own dime. Why not? Then I could do another side trip to Belgium. I think l may be onto something here!

u4ic

(17,190 posts)
129. If it wasn't for the cost of living
Wed Jun 24, 2026, 08:58 PM
Jun 24

I'd still be living there...I loved it! It's unbelievably beautiful.

I still have friends there, and on Salt Spring Island, so I can visit

LogDog75

(1,486 posts)
18. Great Britain or Germany
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 08:58 PM
Jun 20

I was stationed twice in England and twice in Germany and I'd love to spend a couple of months in either one just exploring and taking in their cultures.

I'd like to travel the countryside in England, Scotland, and Wales and visit the small towns and learn some of their histories. I've been to many of the tourist spots in England and toured Edinburgh so visiting the non-tourist areas would be great.

Same goes for Germany but I'd include some of its cities like Heidelberg, Munich, and Cologne. I'd take boat rides down the Rhine and Mosel Rivers and visit the the smaller castles and cities. One thing Germany has over England is the food is much better, especially their pastries.

eppur_se_muova

(42,942 posts)
20. Any place where they've never, ever heard of Trmp.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 09:46 PM
Jun 20

And I'm not excluding backwoods Papua New Guinea.

Aristus

(72,781 posts)
22. Switzerland.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 09:48 PM
Jun 20

I have two monitors for my work computer. One is for working, the other I use to play soothing piano music videos with images of Switzerland on a twelve hour loop. Long enough for a long workday.

I need a getaway in a place like Switzerland for a while. Mainly to lose my desire to throttle whoever it was who told Trump to keep the country on all-chaos, all-the-time mode; it’s exhausting.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
83. That it is, Aristus. I hope you dream comes through and you visit Switzerland. You and Mrs. Aristus both enjoy.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:44 PM
Jun 22
 

Lilgirl44

(11 posts)
23. Me,
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 10:16 PM
Jun 20

I would travel, to the north pole,simply to, experience, history, and cold, on a physical basis,,no nothing more

I, live with, AC, and heat
I often wonder, how did people survive, there? Without Our phones, our websites, our comforts?
I would like to experience, extremes, without comfort. B
But then again,
I'm just a Democrat

Tikki

(15,302 posts)
24. Deb...more than anything like that..I would love to go to..
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 10:32 PM
Jun 20

Australia to see a live (AFL) Australian Rules Football Game. This would mean I
would need to go to one of the larger cities where the stadiums are located.
I would chose Perth AU that sits on the beautiful Western AU Coast right there
along the Indian Ocean.
While in the Perth area I would hope to see some of the AU bands whose
music I have discovered.
I would love to cruise through the Coastal towns like Cervantes and Jurien Bay, etc,
and hopefully make the trip to the Shire of Tooyay.

Tikki

debm55

(62,649 posts)
90. Oh , Tikki , that sounds beautiful. I really wish instead of a post you really make it to Aurstralia.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 09:31 PM
Jun 22

debm55

(62,649 posts)
93. We can visit together. I have been to Ireland before. Went to Dublin, slept in a castle.worked on horse farm. If you
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 09:46 PM
Jun 22

don't mind---lets take a side trip Scotland.☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️

enid602

(9,797 posts)
26. Visit
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:01 PM
Jun 20

Chongqing, China or La Paz, Bolivia. The most vertical cities on Earth. Fabulous views.

brachism

(85 posts)
27. #1: New Zealand, #2 China/Taiwan, #3 Japan, #4 Egypt, #5 South Korea, #6 Australia, ...
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:07 PM
Jun 20

As for my top choice, it comes down to nature and the Lord of the Rings movies. Israel used to rank #2 for me, but given current events, it’s no longer even in my top 15.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
95. Wonderful choices, brachism. Yes, when I think of New Zealand , I think of Lord of the Rings and the lush green grass.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 09:53 PM
Jun 22

bottomofthehill

(9,464 posts)
29. I'm with you, Ireland. A month in the north and a month in the South
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:22 PM
Jun 20

Although pretty much most time spent in the Republic

First month ish North, around Malin Head, as far north as you can go. The Inishowen peninsula. Maybe some time in Moville Greencastle. Then a few days in Derry, walking the wall, checking out the murals thinking of John Hume and Phil Coulters the town I loved so well.
Then all the way to the opposite end, around Cork city for some golf, history and fishing. The town of Cobh has an amazing history. It is where many emigrated from. Some to America, some to a Australia, wherever the crown was sending them. Cobh is the home of the Irish Alcatraz, the last stop of the Titanic and the Lusitania. Taking a boat out of Cobh may not be a great idea but it is beautiful.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
106. Thank you very much for sharing with us.bottomofthehill.☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 11:33 AM
Jun 23

jgo

(1,040 posts)
30. Norway also.
Sat Jun 20, 2026, 11:22 PM
Jun 20

Ireland sounds good also. Brazil would be the next choice. In the United States, would pick Bar Harbor and surrounding areas in Maine, for a laid back summer.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
107. Thank you very much for sharing with us. jgo. I love Bar Harbor.☘️☘️☘️☘️
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 11:34 AM
Jun 23

debm55

(62,649 posts)
50. Me too, vapor2. We went to Ireland. I wish we had also gone to Scotland at the time. Japan has always been on my bucket
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 01:45 PM
Jun 21

list.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
110. Me too. I would really like to go to New Zealand. Thank you very much for sharing. vapor2.☘️☘️☘️
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 11:53 AM
Jun 23

oberle

(479 posts)
36. To France
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 02:44 AM
Jun 21

Paris to see the redone Notre Dame and hear the organ
Strasbourg to see the Cathedral and hear the organ
Cologne to see the Cathedral and hear the organ

I have cds of all these organs, now I want to hear them in person.

beveeheart

(1,552 posts)
53. Don't forget St Chappelle near Notre Dame,
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 02:10 PM
Jun 21

my favorite of all the ones you mentioned. And France would be my choice also.

DFW

(60,874 posts)
37. Right where I/we am/are going: Truro, Massachusetts.
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 04:21 AM
Jun 21

We discovered it on a recommendation over 40 years ago. We liked it so much then that we thought we could try it again the next year. Rinse and repeat. Our one year old daughter who was with us in 1984 now joins us every year for at least one week with her husband and two sons. Our younger daughter, who lives in Germany, will also be stopping by with her man and two daughters, since they will be attending some World Cip games in which Germany is playing.

We will rent a house that is a one minute walk from a bayside beach, or a ten minute drive from our favorite ocean side beach (Long Nook beach). We have been going for so long that some of the locals are now old friends, and I guest on the local community radio at least once a year. In next door Provincetown, you could run into almost anyone. House Minority Whip Katherine Clark or Rachel Maddow are just two examples. Singers Zoe Lewis and Patty Larkin, humorist David Sedaris, a lot of etc. Any of them might turn up sitting next to you at any of the outdoor cafés or restaurants. A street banjo player once invited me to join him on guitar. I did and his take jumped from $15 to $45 (he wanted to give me half, and I told him no way—I went ahead and made his day).

Truro is a 15 minute drive south of Provincetown. Fifteen minutes from relaxed hustle to tranquility. Provincetown in the summer is nearly impossible to park in for under $25 unless you are willing to make a long walk. The reasoning behind that is to keep it a largely pedestrian town and it works. Restaurants range from modest to expensive, but since I am married to a gourmet chef, we rarely eat out. We just buy our fish from one of the local shops, buy the spices and veggies where we can find them, and she works her magic. A local place makes their own ice cream, and their key lime cheesecake ice cream alone is worth the trip over to America.

It’s our place for needed yearly decompression.

We live in the German Rheinland. Every month for my job, I am in Paris, Brussels, Utrecht, Barcelona, Switzerland, etc. If we want a weekend or even a week in Scandinavia, Prague, Budapest, Croatia, Portugal, Italy, etc. it’s a spur of the moment decision we can make any time. They are all one to three hour flights at most. But to just chill out and let nature and lack of planning be our flag bearers, it’s back to the Outer Cape for us.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
47. Thank you very much for sharing your delightful post. My husband is from Boston. When we visited, we would go to the
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 01:39 PM
Jun 21

beach on the Cape and various others and get various foods--especially fried clams. I enjoyed walking around the beach towns and taking in the town shops. Have a wonderful visit with your family, DFW.

ProfessorGAC

(77,730 posts)
51. Sicily
Sun Jun 21, 2026, 01:55 PM
Jun 21

I can speak a bit of Italian. If I spent a whole summer there, I'd be fluent, even at my age.

greatauntoftriplets

(179,652 posts)
79. Have you seen the recent production of The Leopard on Netflix?
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:38 PM
Jun 22

That made me want to go to Sicily, too. Gorgeous scenery and architecture.

ProfessorGAC

(77,730 posts)
89. Alas, No
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 09:06 PM
Jun 22

Netflix is one of the few things we don't have.
Sounds cool, though.
I've been to Italy 40 something times but never south of Naples. Our family is from Sicily and I've never even been close.
My dad was there several times while he was in the army as a medical corps translator in Naples. He was there 3 years, so had plenty of opportunities to see family.

greatauntoftriplets

(179,652 posts)
91. That's a shame, it's that good IMO.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 09:34 PM
Jun 22

I've never seen the earlier movie with Burt Lancaster for comparison, but doubt that version could be any better.

I've been to Italy twice, but never south of Rome. Like so many European countries, there's so much to see and it takes many trips unless you can stay for a long visit, despite it being more compact than the U.S.

I hope that you get to go to Sicily someday.

ProfessorGAC

(77,730 posts)
98. Thanks, But....
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 06:51 AM
Jun 23

...there will be no Sicily visit.
As much as I had to travel for my job, being retired means not going anywhere.
I worked in 41 countries outside the US having taken around 650 business trips. I'm not going anywhere by plane ever again.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
72. HAHAHHAHAAHA. Thank you for sharing Ocelot II, Rich visited his mother's family home in Finland. You can really see
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:26 PM
Jun 22

Russia from your home.

surfered

(15,212 posts)
64. Now just watching. I used to take my wetsuit, but the water temp is just too cold..48-55 in July!!
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 11:25 AM
Jun 22

Also to see the waterfalls, the redwoods, the wine country, and enjoy cool weather

NNadir

(38,905 posts)
59. Paris again. I used to work for the French, and went five or six times a year. I miss the place, not the job, but...
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 12:48 AM
Jun 22

...the place.

Somehow I never managed to take my wife with me. The all expense trip paid won't be accepted if she could not come with me.

I did, on the off hours during business trips, take in the culture of Paris, mostly the art. The city - and the art - had a certain, well, erotic import as I saw it. I thus missed her intensely while there. Our kids were young then; we had no one who could watch them who we trusted, and anyway, I had lots of work to do when I was there, long days and long nights.

I'd love to bring my son as well, as his French is far superior to my own. When he speaks to me in French, I have to struggle as I sometimes did with the real French.

I used to joke with the French = it was during the Clinton years that I worked with them - about the relative merits of our respective countries, telling them for instance that Paris could profit by being more like New York. I was lying though, just to defend my country. New York is a great city; but Paris is well, Paris.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
60. Thank you very much,NNadir. The art and food of France is wonderful. Yes, you can take your wife.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 10:58 AM
Jun 22

lucca18

(1,474 posts)
66. Paris ❤️
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 12:56 PM
Jun 22

We were in Paris this past October for the third time.
I want to go back again!

debm55

(62,649 posts)
69. Thank you very much, lucca18 for sharing. I have never been to Paris. But I would love to go there too.
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 02:08 PM
Jun 22

debm55

(62,649 posts)
101. You are so lucky. I wish when we went to Ireland, We would have gone and visited Scotland. Thank you, The Blue Flower
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 10:57 AM
Jun 23

TBF

(37,706 posts)
78. Paris -
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:37 PM
Jun 22

traveled there once for a week; would love to stay for the summer and use the trains to explore around Europe

debm55

(62,649 posts)
120. Thank you, very much for sharing. JBTaurus83. I would love to go to Costa Rica and view the flora and wildlife.
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 03:06 PM
Jun 23

PJMcK

(25,245 posts)
86. On our sailboat
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:55 PM
Jun 22

We’re planning to leave NYC just after the Fourth of July Sail 250 Celebration to sail to Maine and back. It’s a voyage we’ve made before but this time we want to explore further down east into Maine. Acadia National Park beckons.

Although we have to pay our expenses, cruising on a small yacht— in our case a 27-foot cutter— is much less expensive than traveling on shore primarily because we have our home with us so there are few hotel bills. It’s like traveling in a recreational vehicle. Since we sail, our fuel costs are diminutive and our solar panel along with the Diesel engine’s alternator keep our batteries fully charged.

In a typical week, we will anchor at night 3-5 nights which is free. The other nights we stay at a marina which varies in cost but typically is equivalent to a room at a discount motel chain. Those stops are helpful to reprovision our food, replenish our water, buy fuel and pump out our sewage tank.

We feel excited, fortunate and grateful to have these opportunities to see our world as explorers.

debm55

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118. Maine is beautiful. You are so lucky to visit it yearly. My husband is from Boston and Mass. is easy to get to.I loved
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 02:49 PM
Jun 23

Bar Harbor.

debm55

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119. My husband"s mother is from Finland. He loved it when he went with them before Grad School
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 02:53 PM
Jun 23

TexLaProgressive

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88. Ditto, the Repuplic or Ireland
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 09:03 PM
Jun 22

county Cork and Kerry to be specific. Oh and to have a really nice road Bicycle.

debm55

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115. Thank you very much. TexLaProgressive. I have been there and it you get a chance to go, do it.☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 02:38 PM
Jun 23

debm55

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111. I agree. I know some folks that took a guided tour of Alaska, I have family that live near and are stationed at the Air
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 12:00 PM
Jun 23

Force Base. Maybe it is time to visit the,

u4ic

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123. Yowza, I can't just think of one!
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 10:18 PM
Jun 23

Never mind one country or area - but I'll take any of these: Scandinavia, including the cities and a Norwegian fjord cruise, or China/Japan/Vietnam, or Greece/Turkey. Given that most of our spring and 2 full days of summer have been mostly rain, perhaps the latter appeals the most!

mwmisses4289

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125. I would want to live somewhere in the U.K,
Tue Jun 23, 2026, 11:07 PM
Jun 23

and use that as a base for exploring not only the U.K, but Europe also.

some_of_us_are_sane

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130. London, England
Wed Jun 24, 2026, 09:14 PM
Jun 24
I've ALWAYS been a bit of an Anglophile but IRELAND would be a close second!



The E.R. is for Elizabeth the Second and the inner circle is the garter representing The Order of the Garter bearing the motto, “Honi soit qui mal y pense” (“Evil to him who evil thinks”).

I like that.

debm55

(62,649 posts)
131. Thank you very much for sharing, some of us are sane. I have friends that went there and they loved it.
Wed Jun 24, 2026, 09:46 PM
Jun 24
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