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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWould you rather spend your vacation at a ritzy hotel or a cabin in the mountains near a lake?
Edited to add lake.
displacedvermoter
(5,056 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)2naSalit
(103,937 posts)Don't have the budget for a ritzy hotel and I'd rather get away from other people and enjoy the company of the natural inhabitants of the mountain.
debm55
(62,058 posts)hlthe2b
(114,828 posts)serial killers on the loose--seemingly the plot of nearly every horror movie lately-LOL)
But yeah the mountains, the lake and with LOTS of mosquito repellent.
debm55
(62,058 posts)sop
(19,486 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(11,647 posts)But I am biased...

ShepKat
(552 posts)I'll take the pampering for my vacation
debm55
(62,058 posts)Dave Bowman
(7,511 posts)Last edited Fri May 29, 2026, 01:05 AM - Edit history (1)
debm55
(62,058 posts)Alpeduez21
(2,076 posts)Love me some mountain time
debm55
(62,058 posts)Grey5
(134 posts)I want somewhere interesting, I want to learn about the history of the place, get to know the people and/or check out the culture. I am always wanting to know about people, places, things, history, and the list goes on...
TexasBushwhacker
(21,316 posts)concerts, parks, etc. Fancy hotels have no appeal to me and while spending a few days in a cabin in the woods sounds nice, I'd get board pretty quick.
debm55
(62,058 posts)Traildogbob
(13,182 posts)In a little cottage in the mountains. (With my lab) Paid off. Retired. This is vacation daily. As Ritzy as I ever will need. Fresh ground coffee every AM. Very quite. (Except for mocking birds on crack) and extremely minimal person contact. Quit different from life on a Destroyer, all male crew. Currently at war with crows destroying my yard, but Paradise to me. Blue bridge Parkway a short bushwhacking away. Mountains to Sea a bushwhacking climb above the BRP, and endless no trail forests all around.
Plus too poor to travel, or stay in Ritzy Hotels, the effects of State Faculty career. But, most of that was in the Forest.
I did however win a scholarship 4 years ago to tour Northern California Forests and we stayed in the Ahwahnee Hotel in Yosemite. I could get use to living in that economic lifestyle if I had the cash.
That was damn nice. Amazing meals and lots of great wine. (All paid for with the award)
debm55
(62,058 posts)Aristus
(72,618 posts)Provided it was within walking distance of a public library. Ritzy hotel, room service, comfortable sleeping arrangements, and some good books, and I'm all set.
I won't even pretend that I'd rather be out in the cold and the rain, doing "macho man" stuff. I did all that as a tanker in the Army. I was good at it. But it's a young person's game. Now, I just want creature comforts to enjoy.
debm55
(62,058 posts)2MuchNoise
(888 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Bobstandard
(2,390 posts)Is the mountain cabin on blue ribbon trout or steelhead waters and comes with a Michelin quality chef, maid and guide service? If not, Ill have to go with the St Regis Punta di Mita, a five star hotel with a world class surf spot in walking distance.
Im paying for either of these with my tariff refund. Or Mabye my J6 slush fund payout. I deserve that because of how distressing revelations about the event, Trumps complicity, and my worries about how dangerous the pardoned rioters are to me, my family, and the whole country are.
debm55
(62,058 posts)wnylib
(26,575 posts)In a state park, with hiking trails, a small beach on a small lake, guided nature tours for anyone interested.
Cooked outdoors, chatted and played cards by oil lamp in the evening (no electricity and no cell phones back then). Met other campers. Chased raccoons away from our food while cooking it. Little pests tried to steal it off of the cooking fire.
debm55
(62,058 posts)Maninacan
(352 posts)Some day may stay in Chicago overnight after getting there by train from Harvard IL I have a peaceful house with trees but enjoy taking trips with a small van around the country. The big RV stuff and trailers are not my style.
Fla Dem
(27,802 posts)If it's in the mountains near a lake I'll definitely take the Ritzy hotel.
debm55
(62,058 posts)ProfessorGAC
(77,377 posts)And,it's not a close call for me.
debm55
(62,058 posts)MIButterfly
(3,192 posts)all the sights and sounds to my heart's content.
I'm a big city girl through and through.
debm55
(62,058 posts)Polly Hennessey
(8,993 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)doc03
(39,207 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Midnight Writer
(25,846 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Niagara
(12,206 posts)Lately, I've been thinking how fabulous it would be to visit Mackinac Island and stay in the ritzy, historic and infamously haunted Grand Hotel near the lake!
This hotel checks all the boxes!

llmart
(17,751 posts)that right now is peak tourist season and one side of the island is usually elbow to elbow people. But the hotel is beautiful and the other side you can rent a bike and see amazing scenery. I haven't stayed at the hotel but I dined there. Oh, and if she's never seen it, watch the movie "Somewhere in Time."
Niagara
(12,206 posts)frequently. I don't think that crowds bother her.
This isn't her first time visiting the island. It's just been awhile since she's visited.
I'll mention the movie "Somewhere in Time" to her.
llmart
(17,751 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Niagara
(12,206 posts)I think I was 10 years old or so and so it's been a long, long time.
Emile
(43,463 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Mopar151
(10,350 posts)ain
debm55
(62,058 posts)At a racetrack near a state park.
debm55
(62,058 posts)blueknight73
(346 posts)So I would like some ritz!
debm55
(62,058 posts)sinkingfeeling
(58,106 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)highplainsdem
(63,287 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)ms liberty
(11,400 posts)Unlimited hot water. Unlimited fresh towels. Room service. A huge buffet running breakfast, brunch and lunch. Bonus points if it's on a nice, near deserted beach.
debm55
(62,058 posts)justaprogressive
(7,232 posts)in a medium-sized house in the mountains, near a lake, and numerous spring-fed
swimming holes..
debm55
(62,058 posts)Ocelot II
(131,430 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Deep State Witch
(12,770 posts)Preferably either by the beach, or in a city where I can visit cultural activities. I camped when I was a kid in Girl Scouts. My idea of roughing it nowadays is a Motel 6.
debm55
(62,058 posts)MenloParque
(568 posts)I live and work in San Francisco and it is soul crushing! SF Bay native. Can't wait to retire and it will be a very long drive to the closest city. The only poop I want to avoid stepping in should not be human feces!
debm55
(62,058 posts)LogDog75
(1,396 posts)I'd get bored easily in a hotel or a cabin. I stayed in the Sheraton Hotel in Zagreb, Croatia for three months and frankly, I wasn't impressed with it. I mean, the room was nice, good restaurant, etc.. but most hotels are boring. I liked walking through the city and seeing the sights. I like smaller hotels because basically it's there for sleep and bathing. I stayed in a small hotel in England, for a couple of nights, that was over 200 years old. The ground floor was level but the second and third hallway was warped (wavy) but the rooms were level. It was more comfortable than larger, more expensive hotels.
debm55
(62,058 posts)DURHAM D
(33,095 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Bluestocking
(820 posts)as long as someone else is paying for it.
debm55
(62,058 posts)JMCKUSICK
(6,677 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)AllaN01Bear
(29,849 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)I want to be pampered.
debm55
(62,058 posts)walkingman
(11,190 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)Upthevibe
(10,246 posts)Great post!
Without question I'd be in a cabin in the mountains with hopefully a fireplace going.
debm55
(62,058 posts)very calm and relaxing.
kimbutgar
(27,600 posts)And I can get a luxious suite and food and beverage services paid for!
debm55
(62,058 posts)oberle
(433 posts)and going to the cathedrals and major churches to see and hear the organs.
debm55
(62,058 posts)retread
(3,937 posts)debm55
(62,058 posts)NNadir
(38,644 posts)...fancy, high end hotels, like for instance, for just one example...The Hotel Regina sur le Place Jeanne D'Arc, a short walk from the Louvre.
None of that struck me with as much joy and happiness as a small cabin in Big Sur in a grove of coastal redwoods with the girlfriend who would eventually become my wife. That night in that cabin - we stumbled onto it - was, up to that point, the best night of my life. Decades later I still have tremendous joy to think of that night, the first of many "best days of my life," she brought to me.
When you're a road warrior, after a time, all hotels suck if you're alone without your lover. If you are with your lover, the hotel doesn't matter.
