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I was sitting by the aquarium at my Doctor's office watching the fish. How do fish mate? (Original Post) debm55 Mar 9 OP
Not an expert by any means... 10 Turtle Day Mar 9 #1
Thank you very much, 10 Turtle Day. That is very interesting. debm55 Mar 9 #4
There are variations, of course. Like mouth-breeders and pouch-breeders (seahorses). eppur_se_muova Mar 9 #5
you mean like grunion? DBoon Mar 9 #10
No, they bury their eggs in the sand, so not quite as messy. Herring are known to have huge seasonal coastal spawnings. eppur_se_muova Mar 9 #14
Thank you , very much for your great and informative post. debm55 Mar 9 #27
There's live bearers and others that lay eggs Niagara Mar 9 #2
That is very interesting. Then they have male and female parts? Thank you very much for answering the my question. debm55 Mar 9 #6
Yes, they have male and female anatomy. And you're very much welcome, Debbie Niagara Mar 9 #15
Bettas and gouramis are particularly interesting. surrealAmerican Mar 9 #20
Interesting. I know nothing about gouramis either Niagara Mar 9 #34
Absolutely beautiful. Thank you for your personal information. Niagara debm55 Mar 9 #28
You're so welcome, Debbles Niagara Mar 9 #35
Starts with a hot date...if it all goes swimmingly... MiHale Mar 9 #3
Thank you very much for sharing. I have never heard of that before. debm55 Mar 9 #7
well, they have to get exicted first. sdfernando Mar 9 #8
Oh , you! Thanks sdfernando. debm55 Mar 9 #9
Fish don't care if their mortgage is underwater. Onthefly Mar 9 #11
HAHAHAHAHAH Onthefly. debm55 Mar 9 #12
Some of the "facts" alleged in this thread WestMichRad Mar 9 #13
I believe them. the posters have experience with fish. I am happy they answered the question for me and provide other debm55 Mar 9 #30
it depends mike_c Mar 9 #16
That is so interesting. Are you a Marine Biologist? debm55 Mar 9 #31
no, I'm a retired entomologist and ecologist... mike_c Mar 9 #40
Thank you. mike_c. debm55 Mar 11 #42
;-{).... Goonch Mar 9 #17
What beautiful colors. Thank you for sharing. Goonch. debm55 Mar 9 #26
By putting the king into check wher he cannot excape...... frogstar0 Mar 9 #18
I can tell True Dough Mar 9 #22
Thank you. debm55 Mar 9 #25
Their personal life is none of our business! Phentex Mar 9 #19
It was just a thought to ponder, Phentex. I got some excellent answers here. debm55 Mar 9 #24
You'd be fun True Dough Mar 9 #21
Thank you very much, True Dough. Do you want to go with me? debm55 Mar 9 #23
Is this some sort of plot True Dough Mar 9 #29
No. Not at all. debm55 Mar 9 #32
Why can't we all go to the zoo together? Niagara Mar 9 #33
Yes, that would be nice, debm55 Mar 9 #36
I'm serious. We need to get out there and Niagara Mar 9 #38
We know you wouldn't stick with us for long, Niagara True Dough Mar 9 #37
Wow. You know me so well, True Niagara Mar 9 #39
Varies by species. There are many variations. malthaussen Mar 11 #41
Ok, how do they have sex. debm55 Mar 11 #43

10 Turtle Day

(1,204 posts)
1. Not an expert by any means...
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:00 PM
Mar 9

But from all the nature shows I’ve watched, generally the female lays her eggs on the floor of the water body and then the male excretes sperm over the eggs to fertilize them. With mammals such as whales, however, the male and female actually physically copulate, then after a gestation period, the female gives birth to a live calf.

eppur_se_muova

(41,812 posts)
5. There are variations, of course. Like mouth-breeders and pouch-breeders (seahorses).
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:06 PM
Mar 9

And then there's the cast-it-all-into-the-sea approach, where tight gatherings of males and females dump all their gametes in the water at once, not much different from pine trees. There are times and places along the seacoast where the waves are frothy with fish spooge after such spawnings, usually timed to the phases of the moon.

Different environments, different adaptations, different "strategies".

eppur_se_muova

(41,812 posts)
14. No, they bury their eggs in the sand, so not quite as messy. Herring are known to have huge seasonal coastal spawnings.
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:33 PM
Mar 9

I don't know what other fish do, but herring form very large schools, so that probably has a lot to do with it. Sheer force of numbers -- what programmers call the "Mongolian hordes" approach (ironically, not actually the devastating tactic the Mongols usually used. They preferred to flee into a pre-set ambush by concealed reinforcements, then turn and finish off their pursuers).

Google "satellite imagery of herring milt" to get some idea of the scale involved.

Niagara

(11,748 posts)
2. There's live bearers and others that lay eggs
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:02 PM
Mar 9

Swordtails and Black Molly's are live bearers.


Siamese Fighting fish lay eggs. This an extremely elaborate "dance" and process.

debm55

(60,070 posts)
6. That is very interesting. Then they have male and female parts? Thank you very much for answering the my question.
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:08 PM
Mar 9

Niagara

(11,748 posts)
15. Yes, they have male and female anatomy. And you're very much welcome, Debbie
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:40 PM
Mar 9

whenever anyone talks about aquariums, I just assume they're talking a fresh water fish because that's what I had for many years.


There's salt water aquariums as well but I know nothing about salt water fish or aquariums.




I had success breeding Black Molly's. But because they're live bearers, the aquarium keeper needs to remove the babies ASAP because all and any adult fish will mistake the newborns for a meal.






And here's the elaborate dance of the Siamese Fighting Fish. I never had any success with breeding them.












surrealAmerican

(11,858 posts)
20. Bettas and gouramis are particularly interesting.
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 06:09 PM
Mar 9

They build floating nests out of bubbles, and the male squeezes the female to get her eggs into the nest.

MiHale

(12,961 posts)
3. Starts with a hot date...if it all goes swimmingly...
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:03 PM
Mar 9

The female will deposit her eggs somewhere on the gravel…in real water…like a lake…the fish may …depending on species fan out a shallow depression in the sand with her fins…then the male will swim over the eggs and deposit the sperm…hopefully the eggs meet the sperm and little fishies are created. The depression keeps the sperm more localized so currents have a harder time washing it away.

Not real romantic from our perspective.

debm55

(60,070 posts)
30. I believe them. the posters have experience with fish. I am happy they answered the question for me and provide other
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 09:22 PM
Mar 9

facts.

mike_c

(37,039 posts)
16. it depends
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 03:40 PM
Mar 9

Some fish practice internal fertilization (sharks, for instance) while others fertilize eggs externally. In the latter case, females lay eggs and then males release semen into the water over them. Some fish also routinely reproduce parthenogenetically (without mating), and others change sexes sometime during their life cycles, so they play both sides of the mating game during their lives.

mike_c

(37,039 posts)
40. no, I'm a retired entomologist and ecologist...
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 11:26 PM
Mar 9

...but I taught general zoology for 20 years. Glad I'm not teaching any longer!

True Dough

(26,489 posts)
29. Is this some sort of plot
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 09:21 PM
Mar 9

to lock me in a cage with a silverback gorilla and throw away the key?

True Dough

(26,489 posts)
37. We know you wouldn't stick with us for long, Niagara
Mon Mar 9, 2026, 10:44 PM
Mar 9

You'd be bonded with the tigers in no time!

malthaussen

(18,558 posts)
41. Varies by species. There are many variations.
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 04:24 PM
Mar 11

Note that "mating" is not necessary for reproduction.

-- Mal

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