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mnhtnbb

(33,116 posts)
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:46 AM Dec 14

DU member elleng has passed. Edited

Last edited Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:53 AM - Edit history (2)

Update: I have replaced the link--which was in my original post very early this morning--with a screen shot because some people indicated the link didn't work for them.

She has been a member here since 2004. No details. Her daughter has posted it on her Facebook account.



And her other daughter has just now posted this photo of her when she was younger



May her memory be a blessing.

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DU member elleng has passed. Edited (Original Post) mnhtnbb Dec 14 OP
!!!! 😭😭😭 LearnedHand Dec 14 #1
+1. Her last post: dalton99a Dec 14 #16
Oh no! unblock Dec 14 #2
Oh gosh, a devoted and long term DU member. Sad and sorry.😞 Fla Dem Dec 14 #17
I am saddened to hear this. Tactical Peek Dec 14 #3
I second LearnedHand's thought: How is this possible? She was just here. NT mahatmakanejeeves Dec 14 #4
How can this be? sprinkleeninow Dec 14 #5
... SamKnause Dec 14 #6
Oh No montanacowboy Dec 14 #7
That's the other forum jfz9580m Dec 14 #40
Her contributions will be missed. ZZenith Dec 14 #8
Aw.. didn't she have a cherub moniker? She was very nice. She will be missed. Exp Dec 14 #9
Oh my, this is a tough one. blm Dec 14 #10
Oh no.. jfz9580m Dec 14 #11
Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to learn this. hamsterjill Dec 14 #12
That is quite a shock. She will certainly be missed here. brer cat Dec 14 #13
She was so active in the cooking and baking group tishaLA Dec 14 #14
I'm so shocked NJCher Dec 14 #15
We met for dinner once PJMcK Dec 14 #78
I was lucky enough to meet up with her in -person too (I was a member back in 2004 and for many years after VTderry Dec 14 #181
Shocking and sad. dalton99a Dec 14 #18
121,926 posts Dear_Prudence Dec 14 #19
17. Oh gosh, a devoted and long term DU member. Sad and sorry.😞 Fla Dem Dec 14 #20
Oh, no. I'm so sorry to read about this. Her last posts here were just a few days ago - Wednesday. highplainsdem Dec 14 #21
A huge loss for us DFW Dec 14 #22
I second that emotion. yellow dahlia Dec 14 #131
Whew, she will be missed IbogaProject Dec 14 #23
One of my favorite posters. Permanut Dec 14 #24
:( C Moon Dec 14 #25
Stunned and sad. Loved her music posts. yorkster Dec 14 #26
This makes me so sad! catchnrelease Dec 14 #27
...... chowder66 Dec 14 #28
My deepest condolences to her family and our DU family. HeartsCanHope Dec 14 #29
Sorry to hear this YoshidaYui Dec 14 #30
What! This is too sad irisblue Dec 14 #31
Shocking and very sad Easterncedar Dec 14 #32
What!?! This is a shock. My deepest condolences to her family. LoisB Dec 14 #33
Deeply saddened to learn of EllenG's passing SheltieLover Dec 14 #34
Oh,no! PJMcK Dec 14 #35
We never mer... 2naSalit Dec 14 #50
RIP LostOne4Ever Dec 14 #36
This is sad news. RIP, Ellen. LuckyCharms Dec 14 #37
oh no! May she rest in peace BlueWaveNeverEnd Dec 14 #38
This place won't be the same. Laffy Kat Dec 14 #39
Soft passing elleng. c-rational Dec 14 #41
Rest in Grace, Elleng Donkees Dec 14 #42
That's a beutiful tribute, Donkees. ms liberty Dec 14 #87
Sorry to hear this sad news Marthe48 Dec 14 #43
I audibly gasped reading that. Oh my heavens! elleng has been quite the fixture here and much appreciated. hlthe2b Dec 14 #44
Sorry to hear this samplegirl Dec 14 #45
Same here😢 we can do it Dec 14 #49
Heartbreaking news BeyondGeography Dec 14 #46
Oh no! 2naSalit Dec 14 #47
Oh no! we can do it Dec 14 #48
Rest well, elleng UpInArms Dec 14 #51
Goodbye, Ellen blogslug Dec 14 #52
It was a joy to share the struggles of politics BootinUp Dec 14 #53
Oh no. bucolic_frolic Dec 14 #54
Well, That's Sad ProfessorGAC Dec 14 #55
This breaks my heart. Emile Dec 14 #56
Such shocking and sad news, and so sudden. It doesn't seem real. DeeDeeNY Dec 14 #57
So surprised and sad to read this! She was so vital! liberalla Dec 14 #58
This is very sad. So sorry to hear this, and condolences to her family. lostincalifornia Dec 14 #59
Very, very saddened. cachukis Dec 14 #60
Oh, no!! Nothing prepares us. Deep condolences to all who know and love her. 💧❤️ littlemissmartypants Dec 14 #61
Ohhhhhhhh. Our friend... I hope it was an easy passing. Rest in peace elleng. Scrivener7 Dec 14 #62
Oh no! So sorry to hear this! Mad_Dem_X Dec 14 #63
What a lovely lady! PikaBlue Dec 14 #64
Rest in peace elleng. My sympathy to her family livetohike Dec 14 #65
It's impossible to fathom. choie Dec 14 #66
My deepest condolences to her family. She was posting away on Wednesday. She will be sinkingfeeling Dec 14 #67
Dear elleng loved your posts here. May your memories be a blessings to your family. debm55 Dec 14 #68
This breaks my heart Niagara Dec 14 #69
😢😢😢 Docreed2003 Dec 14 #70
I am shocked! I'm just so saddened to hear this news. Diamond_Dog Dec 14 #71
Oh no, I was wondering why she hasn't posted lately IronLionZion Dec 14 #72
words cannot onethatcares Dec 14 #73
Oh no! I'm shocked and so sad Nittersing Dec 14 #74
You will be missed, Ellen. mwmisses4289 Dec 14 #75
Oh no!!! BumRushDaShow Dec 14 #76
Just too shocked and surprised, just one of the best of DUers marble falls Dec 14 #77
. . . DinahMoeHum Dec 14 #79
Oh no!!! CaptainTruth Dec 14 #80
Oh no! Kali Dec 14 #81
RIP kind woman... JoeOtterbein Dec 14 #82
Oh no. I gasped. We had lunch together I'd say 12 years ago underpants Dec 14 #83
Sad news indeed. Loved her posts. RIP dear Ellen. Nanuke Dec 14 #84
I hate when we lose DUers. No one lives forever of course, but... CousinIT Dec 14 #85
A kind and wise woman. Love and light to her family. GPV Dec 14 #86
Shocked and sad. My sympathy to her family and friends, here and IRL ms liberty Dec 14 #88
I'm in shock. I'll miss her dearly. Her photos of the birds around her home. Her quiet feistiness. Solly Mack Dec 14 #89
I am so sorry to hear this cate94 Dec 14 #90
May her family and friends find peace. riversedge Dec 14 #91
Oh, no! I'm so sorry to hear that! Ocelot II Dec 14 #92
I am so sorry to be reading this. CBHagman Dec 14 #93
What shocking and sad news. She loved DU. My condolences to her family. CaliforniaPeggy Dec 14 #94
Rest in Peace Sanity Claws Dec 14 #95
Oh no! radical noodle Dec 14 #96
This is, indeed, sad. Collimator Dec 14 #97
......... marmar Dec 14 #98
I am so sorry to hear this. whathehell Dec 14 #99
Her memory will be a blessing..,, will very much Ninga Dec 14 #100
OMG noooo! lapfog_1 Dec 14 #101
Rest easy, Ellen, you are loved and missed. quaint Dec 14 #102
She will be missed. Vibes to her on her passage and to her family. applegrove Dec 14 #103
I echo everybody else, I'm shocked. Beacool Dec 14 #104
... defacto7 Dec 14 #105
This is not possible, was my first reaction. Polly Hennessey Dec 14 #106
Such sad news democrank Dec 14 #107
Purely a wonderful woman, a great DUer, clearly with a life well lived. NNadir Dec 14 #108
elleng Clouds Passing Dec 14 #109
...and the Wheel turns. WheelWalker Dec 14 #110
Terrible news. She and I had a number of conversations on this site. Miles Archer Dec 14 #111
... leftstreet Dec 14 #112
"" AllaN01Bear Dec 14 #113
It takes an exceptional person to break through bronxiteforever Dec 14 #114
Will miss the S Maryland photos. Sneederbunk Dec 14 #115
I will miss her TCM Schedules, and her posts Emile Dec 14 #116
What a dark day this is hermetic Dec 14 #117
I'll fly away tribute to our birder cbabe Dec 14 #118
She was a comforting presence here. I offer my heartfelt condolence. Maraya1969 Dec 14 #119
Sorry to hear. She posted 5 days ago about music with no hint of problems surfered Dec 14 #120
Rest in peace, dear Elleng! MacKasey Dec 14 #121
So sad. Onthefly Dec 14 #122
snif justaprogressive Dec 14 #123
Condolences to her family and friends. xocetaceans Dec 14 #124
Oh-this is sad news. Alliepoo Dec 14 #125
Shalom, elleng debm55 Dec 14 #126
I am shocked and saddened to hear this...elleng was such a huge part of my DU experience, DAILY Leghorn21 Dec 14 #127
Rest in peace. OLDMDDEM Dec 14 #128
My condolences to her family kimbutgar Dec 14 #129
Thanks for posting PatSeg Dec 14 #130
Oh no! Grumpy Old Guy Dec 14 #132
We lost a good person. pandr32 Dec 14 #133
Like the rest of you here I was shocked to read this. sheshe2 Dec 14 #134
This makes me so sad. nocoincidences Dec 14 #135
How terribly sad. It will not be the same without her here. QueerDuck Dec 14 #136
Such a shock! DelMar dem Dec 14 #137
May she rest in heavenly peace. Catherine Vincent Dec 14 #138
Oh, no! Bayard Dec 14 #139
So sorry to hear this angrychair Dec 14 #140
So, So sorry to hear this. bluestarone Dec 14 #141
elleng was a DU treasure. MLAA Dec 14 #142
Very sad to hear of this - harumph Dec 14 #143
RIP sweet Ellen Mike Nelson Dec 14 #144
Sad news. Was a prolific contributor in many groups, including the Weather Watchers question everything Dec 14 #145
She will be missed. n/t Greybnk48 Dec 14 #146
I will miss elleng. Her loss diminishes our community. n/t TygrBright Dec 14 #147
My sympathies to her family and many friends. lpbk2713 Dec 14 #148
My condolences to her family and friends. FemDemERA Dec 14 #149
Cross gently, EllenG. Deepest condolences to her family -- she will be missed at DU. Hekate Dec 14 #150
I'm sorry to hear this EarlG Dec 14 #151
Sad news. She was a rock here - solid, steadfast, levelheaded. yonder Dec 14 #152
Broken up to hear this orangecrush Dec 14 #153
Her taste in music was sublime Blue Owl Dec 14 #154
Very sad. cilla4progress Dec 14 #155
I am in shock malaise Dec 14 #156
Rest in peace Vogon_Glory Dec 14 #157
Oh no, how could that be wendyb-NC Dec 14 #158
She will be missed KT2000 Dec 14 #159
I'm so sorry to hear that. LNM Dec 14 #160
Ohh, I'm So Sorry.. 💙 Cha Dec 14 #161
This has me picking my jaw up from the floor! slightlv Dec 14 #162
I really appreciated her posts JudyM Dec 14 #163
I will miss her cally Dec 14 #164
I will miss her thoughtful insights and comments. Sail on Ellen! Ford_Prefect Dec 14 #165
Too sad. She and her gentle spirit will be missed. Marie Marie Dec 14 #166
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! Phentex Dec 14 #167
I'm crying. I loved elleng so much. Aristus Dec 14 #168
Oh bdamomma Dec 14 #169
May she rest in peace LetMyPeopleVote Dec 14 #170
I'm in shock MustLoveBeagles Dec 14 #171
Peace to her family and friends. greatauntoftriplets Dec 14 #172
Oh no! Just saw this. mountain grammy Dec 14 #173
elleng Iggo Dec 14 #174
My heart to her family. herding cats Dec 14 #175
I am so very, very sorry to learn of Ellen's passing. Silver Gaia Dec 14 #176
The length of this thread is a testimonial to how highly regarded she was by the DU community. 3catwoman3 Dec 14 #177
Very sad. H2O Man Dec 14 #178
May she rest in peace! BlueKota Dec 14 #179
May her memory be for a blessing. nt TBF Dec 14 #180
A DU keystone. So thoughtful and kind. Wonderful pictures. This news hurts. Peace to all. IA8IT Dec 14 #182
Rest in peace Figarosmom Dec 14 #183
Love and aloha elleng mahina Dec 14 #184
I feel sick from the shock. BigmanPigman Dec 14 #185
Oh no how bloody awful róisín_dubh Dec 14 #186
I have had many nice DU "chats" with her. She was always kind and supportive. mysteryowl Dec 14 #187
Today is so heavy qanda Dec 14 #188
Oh no! That's what I exclaimed to no one when I saw this scipan Dec 15 #189
Blessings sweet Ellen. I'm so sad to hear that she has passed. 1WorldHope Dec 15 #190
sending heartfelt condolences to her family orleans Dec 15 #191
Sorry beyond words... Sparkly Dec 15 #192
I'm crushed.... PCIntern Dec 15 #193
Oh no, I'm sad beyond words ... 💔 Raine Dec 15 #194
A decent person Wolf Frankula Dec 15 #195
So sorry to see this Mz Pip Dec 15 #196
I am saddened to hear this JoseBalow Dec 15 #197
We will miss elleng here on DU senseandsensibility Dec 15 #198
Oh, RIP elleng. 🕯 electric_blue68 Dec 16 #199
:( mzmolly Dec 16 #200
So sad to read this. OAITW r.2.0 Dec 16 #201

LearnedHand

(5,240 posts)
1. !!!! 😭😭😭
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:48 AM
Dec 14

It’s almost not possible. She was just posting yesterday or the day before!

Fla Dem

(27,421 posts)
17. Oh gosh, a devoted and long term DU member. Sad and sorry.😞
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:03 AM
Dec 14

My sympathies go out to her family, she was truly a good person, may she rest in peace.

jfz9580m

(16,573 posts)
40. That's the other forum
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:41 AM
Dec 14

I knew I have seen her posts a bunch. I interacted with her only once..something to do with the plural of mongoose… She posted about atheists once in the Jewish Forum.

She used to post pics of geese and other birds..she must not have been well. Very sad. I don’t have FB so I couldn’t see it.

She seemed like a sweet person.

blm

(114,423 posts)
10. Oh my, this is a tough one.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 02:28 AM
Dec 14

For us long timers, she was a daily voice…..a dependable pal.

💐🕯️💐

jfz9580m

(16,573 posts)
11. Oh no..
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 02:36 AM
Dec 14

She posted just last week..

That’s sad. I have seen her posts for years (in cooking and baking mostly)…

hamsterjill

(16,979 posts)
12. Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry to learn this.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 02:38 AM
Dec 14

I always loved interacting with her. This is DU sadness.

tishaLA

(14,717 posts)
14. She was so active in the cooking and baking group
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 02:47 AM
Dec 14

we'll miss her and her many contributions.

NJCher

(42,461 posts)
15. I'm so shocked
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 02:54 AM
Dec 14

I noticed I had not seen posts from her in the last few days, but she had talked about being with family, so I thought she was busy with holiday gatherings.

I was going to post to ask about her.

I'm so sad to hear this. This place will not be the same without elleng.

PJMcK

(24,738 posts)
78. We met for dinner once
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:11 AM
Dec 14

When we sailed the Chesapeake a few years ago, we met up with Ellen on Solomons Island, MD which was near her home. We shared a delicious seafood dinner and wonderful conversation. I genuinely liked her immediately.

Her interests and knowledge were broad but her love for her family overshadowed everything. We frequently communicated on DU email and her calm intelligence was a hallmark of her personality. Of course, her love of food was evident from her posts on your daily dinner posts!

VTderry

(76 posts)
181. I was lucky enough to meet up with her in -person too (I was a member back in 2004 and for many years after
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:13 PM
Dec 14

before real life took me away from online life.)

I was in DC for a conference and we met for lunch near my hotel. She was the first "internet friend" I ever met in real life. She set a high bar.

I've been meaning to reach out to her to say "It's me" and how I still think of that lovely afternoon. And now I will carry regret that i waited too long.

Peaceful passage, Ellen. Your memory will certainly always be a blessing to me.

Fla Dem

(27,421 posts)
20. 17. Oh gosh, a devoted and long term DU member. Sad and sorry.😞
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:14 AM
Dec 14

My sympathies go out to her family, she was truly a good person, may she rest in peace.


highplainsdem

(59,985 posts)
21. Oh, no. I'm so sorry to read about this. Her last posts here were just a few days ago - Wednesday.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:14 AM
Dec 14

I can't see what her daughter posted on FB. Sometimes I can see a posr there if a link is provided, but with this I just get a log-in page.

My condolences to all her friends and family. This was so sudden.

DFW

(59,729 posts)
22. A huge loss for us
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:14 AM
Dec 14

She was smart, informed, always civil.

We are poorer for her passing.

yellow dahlia

(4,518 posts)
131. I second that emotion.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:57 AM
Dec 14

I am relatively new to DU, but her persona and presence were clear.

IbogaProject

(5,613 posts)
23. Whew, she will be missed
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:16 AM
Dec 14

I estimate she averaged just shy of 16 posts per day since March, 2004. 141,926 posts.

yorkster

(3,673 posts)
26. Stunned and sad. Loved her music posts.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:28 AM
Dec 14

She loved Smetana's Moldau.
What a voice to lose...

catchnrelease

(2,131 posts)
27. This makes me so sad!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:31 AM
Dec 14

She always had something interesting and/or informative to say. And I always checked out her posts. I will miss her so much! I hope there will be more info on what happened, it seems so sudden.

HeartsCanHope

(1,529 posts)
29. My deepest condolences to her family and our DU family.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:42 AM
Dec 14

Elleng was a beloved member of the forum. She gave so much of herself to others. We were fortunate to have her as a DUer.
She will be missed.

SheltieLover

(76,754 posts)
34. Deeply saddened to learn of EllenG's passing
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:15 AM
Dec 14

Deepest condolences to her family.

I will forever treaaure her posts of nature, especially the Spring she had the Osprey nest outside her window.

Soar with your beloved Osprey, Ellen!

PJMcK

(24,738 posts)
35. Oh,no!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:27 AM
Dec 14

elleng and I had become friends IRL. I miss her already.

She was funny, kind, thoughtful and she loved her family. A retired lawyer, she was smart and wise. elleng was a dedicated DUer who was fiercely progressive and a determined Democrat.

She loved food and her contributions to the Cooking and Baking forum were delicious.

RIP, dear friend.

2naSalit

(99,989 posts)
50. We never mer...
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:50 AM
Dec 14

But have had some interesting conversations on DU. She was one of the first DUers I had conversations with here. I've always appreciated her knowledge of the law. I will miss her too.

Donkees

(33,402 posts)
42. Rest in Grace, Elleng
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:52 AM
Dec 14

Photo - Douglas Liu

When despair for the world grows in me...

I go and lie down where the wood drake
rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds.
I come into the peace of wild things
who do not tax their lives with forethought
of grief. I come into the presence of still water.
And I feel above me the day-blind stars
waiting with their light. For a time
I rest in the grace of the world, and am free.
- Wendell Berry


Marthe48

(22,708 posts)
43. Sorry to hear this sad news
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 05:19 AM
Dec 14

I enjoyed seeing her posts and I will miss her.

R.I.P. elleng.

hlthe2b

(112,802 posts)
44. I audibly gasped reading that. Oh my heavens! elleng has been quite the fixture here and much appreciated.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 05:38 AM
Dec 14

I will be sending my love to her in whatever realm exists and my appreciation for her to her grieving family.

2naSalit

(99,989 posts)
47. Oh no!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:45 AM
Dec 14

I like her! Haven't interacted much recently but...



Thank you for letting us know!

UpInArms

(54,051 posts)
51. Rest well, elleng
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:59 AM
Dec 14

Valiant and steadfast, you have been a unflinching warrior

You will be missed

bucolic_frolic

(54,020 posts)
54. Oh no.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:09 AM
Dec 14

Her daily doses of culture will be sorely missed.

Thanks for giving us courage these many months of 2025 and many years before.

DeeDeeNY

(3,901 posts)
57. Such shocking and sad news, and so sudden. It doesn't seem real.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:18 AM
Dec 14

Thank you for letting us know.

liberalla

(10,812 posts)
58. So surprised and sad to read this! She was so vital!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:26 AM
Dec 14

She certainly will be missed here... she added so much!
My condolences to her family and friends.


PikaBlue

(426 posts)
64. What a lovely lady!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:55 AM
Dec 14

I so enjoyed her nature photos, especially those taken of the water in southern Maryland. They brought back happy memories of more than 50 years ago for me. Sending love to her family and friends. She will be greatly missed and fondly remembered.

livetohike

(23,977 posts)
65. Rest in peace elleng. My sympathy to her family
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:56 AM
Dec 14

and friends. I will miss her posts in the Outdoor Life group. Such a heavy sadness to hear this news .

sinkingfeeling

(57,205 posts)
67. My deepest condolences to her family. She was posting away on Wednesday. She will be
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:07 AM
Dec 14

missed and lovingly remembered here on DU.

debm55

(55,694 posts)
68. Dear elleng loved your posts here. May your memories be a blessings to your family.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:20 AM
Dec 14

Last edited Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:25 AM - Edit history (1)

Niagara

(11,520 posts)
69. This breaks my heart
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:21 AM
Dec 14

We seem to keep losing all the friendly and beautiful souls here on DU.


Rest in Paradise, elleng.

Docreed2003

(18,708 posts)
70. 😢😢😢
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:41 AM
Dec 14

My deepest condolences to Ellen's family. She was such an incredibly warm and supportive person. She was one of my first friends here when I first joined this forum. In fact, we chatted frequently during some pretty tumultuous times on DU to commiserate and share our feelings. We shared a birthday and I always enjoyed slyly wishing her a Happy Birthday in posts without drawing attention. I will miss her presence here dearly.

Diamond_Dog

(39,764 posts)
71. I am shocked! I'm just so saddened to hear this news.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:50 AM
Dec 14

I always enjoyed her posts, recipes, and photographs of the river where she lived. Rest in Peace, Ellen. We will all miss you here with heavy hearts here at DU.

IronLionZion

(50,817 posts)
72. Oh no, I was wondering why she hasn't posted lately
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 08:59 AM
Dec 14

she's often in the DC group.

Rest in Power

BumRushDaShow

(165,703 posts)
76. Oh no!!!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:09 AM
Dec 14


I have been interacting with her on and off over the years, especially if I had any news items about Maryland.

What a loss but I send my condolences to her family and hope she is at peace now.

marble falls

(71,045 posts)
77. Just too shocked and surprised, just one of the best of DUers
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:09 AM
Dec 14

Last edited Sun Dec 14, 2025, 12:10 PM - Edit history (1)

underpants

(194,864 posts)
83. Oh no. I gasped. We had lunch together I'd say 12 years ago
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:21 AM
Dec 14

Her friend was in town to go to a public hearing of some sort. We met and had lunch. What a truly kind wonderful person.

This makes me very sad.

❤️🕯️

CousinIT

(12,229 posts)
85. I hate when we lose DUers. No one lives forever of course, but...
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:30 AM
Dec 14

...

Wishing EllenG's family strength and peace at this painful time. I know Ellen's memory will be a blessing to them as time goes on.

ms liberty

(10,957 posts)
88. Shocked and sad. My sympathy to her family and friends, here and IRL
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:40 AM
Dec 14

This shakes me a bit, she has been here almost as long as I have. I just commented on one of here posts, like two days ago.

Solly Mack

(96,325 posts)
89. I'm in shock. I'll miss her dearly. Her photos of the birds around her home. Her quiet feistiness.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:42 AM
Dec 14

She was steadfast. I never told her, but I loved that about her.

Goodbye, Ellen.

May you soar always.

Ocelot II

(129,042 posts)
92. Oh, no! I'm so sorry to hear that!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:44 AM
Dec 14

She was a DU mainstay, and such a sweet person! My deepest condolences to her family.

CBHagman

(17,431 posts)
93. I am so sorry to be reading this.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:49 AM
Dec 14

I so appreciated her, and I know her memory will be for a blessing.

Deepest sympathy to all in her circle of family and friends.

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,136 posts)
94. What shocking and sad news. She loved DU. My condolences to her family.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:50 AM
Dec 14

May her memory be a blessing.

Collimator

(2,079 posts)
97. This is, indeed, sad.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:04 AM
Dec 14

My heart goes out to her family and those DUers who felt a strong connection with her.

I had noticed that her location is in Maryland where I am and I had recently toyed with the idea of reaching out to her personally. Now, that chance is gone.

The tributes posted here are lovely. I hope they provide comfort to those dealing with the sharp pangs of loss.

There is no doubt that, with the easing of pain, her memory will carry on as a song of joy; a blessing indeed.

Thank you, Elleng, for the good that you brought into the world.

Beacool

(30,500 posts)
104. I echo everybody else, I'm shocked.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:18 AM
Dec 14

She was posting this week. I'm so sorry to lose a longtime and valuable DU member.

My condolences to her family and loved ones.

Rest in peace, Ellen. You will be missed.

Polly Hennessey

(8,568 posts)
106. This is not possible, was my first reaction.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:26 AM
Dec 14

Elleng, I loved your posts. Always read them. I am still shocked. Dear Elleng, I will miss you so much.

Miles Archer

(21,758 posts)
111. Terrible news. She and I had a number of conversations on this site.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:40 AM
Dec 14

Condolences to Julie for the loss of her mom.

bronxiteforever

(11,087 posts)
114. It takes an exceptional person to break through
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:50 AM
Dec 14

the impersonal medium of the net to touch one personally. Ellen was an exceptional human and humane person. I will miss her dearly and may her memory be a blessing and light to all who knew her.

Emile

(40,591 posts)
116. I will miss her TCM Schedules, and her posts
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:55 AM
Dec 14

in the cooking forum.

Breaks my heart, she was a lovely person.

Onthefly

(1,152 posts)
122. So sad.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:27 AM
Dec 14

As a fellow Marylander, we shared a love of the Patuxent River and bay. She was a regular at my cousin’s restaurant.

xocetaceans

(4,345 posts)
124. Condolences to her family and friends.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:32 AM
Dec 14

She had a great presence here and contributed a fantastic amount to this forum.

RIP.

Alliepoo

(2,768 posts)
125. Oh-this is sad news.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:34 AM
Dec 14

I enjoyed reading her and loved the photos she posted. She will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends. Wishing them peace and comfort.

Leghorn21

(14,021 posts)
127. I am shocked and saddened to hear this...elleng was such a huge part of my DU experience, DAILY
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:40 AM
Dec 14

I am also glad that she was active and doing things she loved right up to her last moments

Deepest condolences to her family. And her DU family as well.

She will be sorely missed

kimbutgar

(26,796 posts)
129. My condolences to her family
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:53 AM
Dec 14

I remember reading her posts. She will be missed here on DU. RIP Elleng .

PatSeg

(52,143 posts)
130. Thanks for posting
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:57 AM
Dec 14

I must say I was rather shocked. Ellen has been a Facebook friend for quite some time and was also part of the original Joe Biden group here on DU.

She will truly be missed.

pandr32

(13,770 posts)
133. We lost a good person.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 12:21 PM
Dec 14

May we all take comfort in her memories and the light that she gave.

sheshe2

(95,846 posts)
134. Like the rest of you here I was shocked to read this.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 12:29 PM
Dec 14

Peace to elleng and her family. 💕

Bayard

(28,548 posts)
139. Oh, no!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 12:55 PM
Dec 14

I always read her posts, and enjoyed the photos of the wonderful area where she lived.

Sad here. I will miss her. This seems very sudden.



harumph

(3,109 posts)
143. Very sad to hear of this -
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:13 PM
Dec 14

I've been reading and responding to her posts for several years.

question everything

(51,695 posts)
145. Sad news. Was a prolific contributor in many groups, including the Weather Watchers
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:22 PM
Dec 14

Some years back we were following her brain treatment.

May her memory be blessed.

lpbk2713

(43,246 posts)
148. My sympathies to her family and many friends.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:33 PM
Dec 14


I regret I haven't kept up with Elleng. I don't read or post as much as I used to.
She was a valuable asset to the DU community. Her loss will be felt.


FemDemERA

(685 posts)
149. My condolences to her family and friends.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:39 PM
Dec 14

Her presence will truly be missed on DU. May the memories of Ellen wrap all in love and be of comfort in coming days.


yonder

(10,245 posts)
152. Sad news. She was a rock here - solid, steadfast, levelheaded.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 01:59 PM
Dec 14

Her calm presence will be missed.

Condolences to her family and friends.

Blue Owl

(58,162 posts)
154. Her taste in music was sublime
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 02:05 PM
Dec 14

And I will be forever grateful for all the classical music postings she contributed on DU, and will miss them…..

wendyb-NC

(4,603 posts)
158. Oh no, how could that be
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:36 PM
Dec 14

She posted jut a couple of days ago. She will be missed so much. I loved her posts.

Oh dear Ellen, R.I.P.

KT2000

(21,938 posts)
159. She will be missed
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 03:38 PM
Dec 14

here as she had such good posts. Thanks to Elleng for spreading her kindness.

LNM

(1,223 posts)
160. I'm so sorry to hear that.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:00 PM
Dec 14

She was a sweet person. I’ll miss her Metropolitan Diary posts.
RIP elleng. 🕯️

slightlv

(7,438 posts)
162. This has me picking my jaw up from the floor!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:07 PM
Dec 14

I'm sorry for her family... and us. I messaged often with elleng... I'll miss her voice and her presence here. May she rest in power and see us through these dark days. My sympathies and wishes for healing peace to her family.

JudyM

(29,567 posts)
163. I really appreciated her posts
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 04:25 PM
Dec 14

Especially about classical music... reminded me to keep expanding my appreciation of it. I loved her presence here on DU for so many years.

Phentex

(16,686 posts)
167. Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 05:46 PM
Dec 14

I don't even know how this is possible. I feel like I knew her even though we never met. She was here. She was always here.

My husband just asked me why I'm sobbing. He doesn't understand. I am crushed and I can't imagine how her family feels.

I always thought I might get to visit her on her little island. I will miss her!

Aristus

(71,641 posts)
168. I'm crying. I loved elleng so much.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:55 PM
Dec 14

We bonded over classical music. Our DU friendship dates back to around 2008 or so. She was a pillar of the DU family/community.



bdamomma

(69,167 posts)
169. Oh
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:02 PM
Dec 14

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. I always looked forward to reading her posts.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Again, elleng will be missed by her DU family.

mountain grammy

(28,679 posts)
173. Oh no! Just saw this.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:04 PM
Dec 14

Oh no! My deepest sympathies to her family. I will surely miss her here.
Terrible news. So sad. May she rest in peace.

herding cats

(19,974 posts)
175. My heart to her family.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:13 PM
Dec 14

May her memory be a blessing. I know it will be such to me.

I've said for decades DU is a community and not just a message board. Ellen was one of our community, and a personal friend to me. We're a bit less bright now without her light. Go gently sweet, kind and dear old friend.

Silver Gaia

(5,248 posts)
176. I am so very, very sorry to learn of Ellen's passing.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:35 PM
Dec 14

Sending as much love as I can muster to her family and to DU at large. I did not know her personally, but she was a big part of DU and will be missed. Peace, love, and blessings to those who need them.

3catwoman3

(28,579 posts)
177. The length of this thread is a testimonial to how highly regarded she was by the DU community.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:41 PM
Dec 14

IA8IT

(6,346 posts)
182. A DU keystone. So thoughtful and kind. Wonderful pictures. This news hurts. Peace to all.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 10:16 PM
Dec 14

BigmanPigman

(54,565 posts)
185. I feel sick from the shock.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:16 PM
Dec 14

First I just learned about Rob Reiner and now this news. I've been crying for 10 minutes straight.

What a terrible day.

Elleng will be missed.

Why doesn't the fucking orange moron die? Everyone good dies but he lives. Life is not fair.

róisín_dubh

(12,230 posts)
186. Oh no how bloody awful
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:36 PM
Dec 14

I don’t come in the Lounge much but I interacted with here a lot elsewhere on DU. She seemed like such a kind soul.
May her memory be a blessing

mysteryowl

(7,993 posts)
187. I have had many nice DU "chats" with her. She was always kind and supportive.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 11:52 PM
Dec 14

I could tell she was a loving person.
I am glad to have met her on DU.

scipan

(2,973 posts)
189. Oh no! That's what I exclaimed to no one when I saw this
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 12:08 AM
Dec 15

Although I seldom post, I had at least two interactions with her. She seemed like someone I'd like to know, and I felt a bond with her because she lived close to me and watched PBS often. I also valued her legal takes and her humor.

She seemed so warm and accepting to strangers here. She touched more lives than she could ever know. I'll miss her

So sorry she's gone. Peace to those close to her.


1WorldHope

(1,861 posts)
190. Blessings sweet Ellen. I'm so sad to hear that she has passed.
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 12:14 AM
Dec 15

I wish I had known her better.
My heart felt wishes for her daughter and family.

orleans

(36,669 posts)
191. sending heartfelt condolences to her family
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 12:36 AM
Dec 15

this is such sad news
she was loved
& she will be remembered and missed

Sparkly

(24,823 posts)
192. Sorry beyond words...
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 01:57 AM
Dec 15

She was a steadfast supporter of all that is right, good, and just. And she was a friend! For so many years.

PCIntern

(27,970 posts)
193. I'm crushed....
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 02:45 AM
Dec 15

She was so supportive and kind, a terrific human being. May her memory always be for a blessing.

Raine

(31,092 posts)
194. Oh no, I'm sad beyond words ... 💔
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 04:34 AM
Dec 15

I just found out, she was here just a couple days ago. I can hardly believe it, she will be missed so much by me and many others.

R-I-P Ellen 🌹

senseandsensibility

(24,245 posts)
198. We will miss elleng here on DU
Mon Dec 15, 2025, 06:19 PM
Dec 15

She was always supportive and kind spirited, and really helped lift the atmosphere of this place. RIP, elleng. My sympathies to her family, and may her memory be a blessing.

OAITW r.2.0

(31,491 posts)
201. So sad to read this.
Tue Dec 16, 2025, 10:35 PM
Dec 16

We had some good interactions over the years. I never met her IRL, but I know this was a person who loved her family, her music, and her little piece of of the Bay.

Thanks and God Bless, elleng.

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