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debm55

(55,929 posts)
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 02:40 PM Dec 11

Pick one---wrap a gift or bag a gift. I pick using a Holiday bag to give my presents. I was never good a wrapping gifts

and when I did, it was a mess. How about you?
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Pick one---wrap a gift or bag a gift. I pick using a Holiday bag to give my presents. I was never good a wrapping gifts (Original Post) debm55 Dec 11 OP
We give money in a bag with chocolates in it. Gave up on wrapping. OLDMDDEM Dec 11 #1
Thank you very much, OLDMDDEM for sharing with us. I agree, debm55 Dec 11 #3
Depends on the gift, and how much time I have. mwmisses4289 Dec 11 #2
Great idea. Thank you very much mwmisses4289 debm55 Dec 11 #5
Gift bags!! The beauty is that they can be easily reused... just add fresh decorative tissue or cello. QueerDuck Dec 11 #4
Yes, QueerDuck that is another reason to bag the gift. Thank you for sharing. debm55 Dec 11 #6
Bags are nice and handy, and I do use them Glorfindel Dec 11 #7
Thank you so much, Glorfindel. When my son was young , I would wrap the gifts. It was heartwarming to watch him open the debm55 Dec 11 #8
Wrapping is nerve wracking. Did I cut the right size paper, Polly Hennessey Dec 11 #9
HAHAHHAAHHHAHA. your post is a delight. Thank you very much for sharing with us, Polly Hennessey. Love, deb. debm55 Dec 11 #11
Bag it. I'm lazy MustLoveBeagles Dec 11 #10
HAHHAHAHAHA. Thank you very much, MustLoveBeagles. I just lack the talent to wrap except when my son was young. debm55 Dec 11 #12
This little girl was impressed with the wrapping. Silent Type Dec 11 #13
LOL, HAHAHHAHAHA. thank you so much. Silent Type. That is so funny. debm55 Dec 11 #15
I LOVE wrapping packages. PittBlue Dec 11 #14
PittBlue, you have the gift and talent to wrap. You are so lucky to be able to do that. Me, not so much. And I bet they debm55 Dec 11 #16
Back when I bought gifts I always wrapped them. Phoenix61 Dec 11 #17
Oh wow. That sounds like a delightful bag of goodies. Thank you , Phoenix61 for the White Christmas drink, I copied the debm55 Dec 11 #20
Word of warning. If you overindulge, which I did Phoenix61 Dec 11 #37
HAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHA. Thanks for the warning, Phoenix61 debm55 Dec 11 #39
It really wasn't my fault. I had a Christmas party and set Phoenix61 Dec 11 #40
Toasted Hostess sounds like a good name for a drink! 3catwoman3 Dec 11 #42
That's funny, Thank you for sharing Phoenix61. debm55 Dec 11 #43
I'm a (w)rapper from way back justaprogressive Dec 11 #18
Thank you very much, my friend. From reading your cooking recipes, justaprogressive.you are a creative and talented debm55 Dec 11 #21
I get mine wrapped by the Salvation Army women at the mall for a donation. nt doc03 Dec 11 #19
LOL I used to do that too, when we had a Mall. And given for a great cause. Thank you very much, doc03 debm55 Dec 11 #22
That is one of those skills that my mother taught me. OldBaldy1701E Dec 11 #23
Thank you OldBaldy1701E You a very creative and talented. debm55 Dec 11 #24
I was Christmas help once at a department store in NJ when I was in high school. I was put in the gift wrapping beaglelover Dec 11 #25
Thank you so much, beaglelover. for sharing with us. you are a gifted and talented gift wrapping king. debm55 Dec 11 #26
Generally, I see wrapping paper as a total waste. no_hypocrisy Dec 11 #27
Thank you very much for sharing with us, no_hypocrisy. debm55 Dec 11 #32
Deb, when I was 16 years old I worked at the mall in a big department store Diamond_Dog Dec 11 #28
I think the three of us would be great together. I will be honest I can wrap like a child could. I have a BS in Art Ed. debm55 Dec 11 #33
Wrap! I'm a master gift wrapper! One of my jobs as a teen was... LuckyCharms Dec 11 #29
Wow.LuckyCharms, I would have never guessed. It does sound interesting. Thank you for sharing. debm55 Dec 11 #34
I'm a decent wrapper Niagara Dec 11 #30
That sound beautiful. Niagara. There was year that for my homeroom class, I ordered each a pencil case with 4 pencils debm55 Dec 11 #35
Gift bags. I stopped wrapping years ago. rsdsharp Dec 11 #31
Thanks my friend rsdsharp, I could do. debm55 Dec 11 #36
Well, I'd ask you to pull me one, but some people might take it wrong. rsdsharp Dec 11 #38
Cloth bags, made by my late mother. Probably about 30 years ago, when our older son would have been 5, my mom... 3catwoman3 Dec 11 #41
Thank you very much 3catwoman3. That sounds like a great idea. May the memories of your mother be a blessing to you. debm55 Dec 11 #44
I'm a pretty good wrapper at least, sometimes good+... electric_blue68 Dec 11 #45
Thank you very much, electric_blue68 . I love your creativeness and color combinations. Sometimes I used a country theme debm55 Dec 12 #47
Burlap ribbon - interesting! It would work well for a country theme. electric_blue68 Dec 12 #60
Yes, I used fabric or brown packing paper to give it that country theme. debm55 Dec 12 #61
I used calico fabric to make it more country. debm55 Dec 13 #62
I love curling ribbon. I use it on other things besides wrapping packages yellowdogintexas Dec 22 #65
Ah, very nice! electric_blue68 Dec 22 #67
My wife is a wrapper fargone Dec 12 #46
Thank you very much for sharing with us, fargone. My husband is the wrapper., I used to be when my son was young. That debm55 Dec 12 #48
Bags only for me. catbyte Dec 12 #49
HAHAHAHAHA Thank you very much. catbyte. I can the bags with the three kitties. debm55 Dec 12 #50
If I'm taking it out of the house, I use a gift bag for it. Otherwise I wrap it, unless 50 Shades Of Blue Dec 12 #51
Great idea, 50 Shades of Blue. Thank you for sharing. It is much easier.to transport them. debm55 Dec 12 #53
😂 underpants Dec 12 #52
HAHAHAHAHAHHAH. Thank you very much, underpants. Love it. debm55 Dec 12 #55
I used to love wrapping presents Jilly_in_VA Dec 12 #54
HAHAHAHAHAHA. Thank you Jilly_in_VA. I have done the bows on the postal wrapping. debm55 Dec 12 #57
I think wrapped presents are nicer.... viva la Dec 12 #56
I agree with you viva la. wrapped gifts can be so beautiful, My wrapping skills are not great. So a bag it is. debm55 Dec 12 #58
I like to wrap gifts for my wife BOSSHOG Dec 12 #59
Oh ,that is so beautiful and wonderful of you, BOSSHOG. Merry Christimas to you and Mrs. BOSSHOG. debm55 Dec 13 #63
Totally on Team Bag a Gift. Also on Team Snatch Up All The Empty Bags for using next year yellowdogintexas Dec 22 #64
Me too, yellowdofintexas.Your post is so funny. Thank you so much. debm55 Dec 22 #66

mwmisses4289

(3,266 posts)
2. Depends on the gift, and how much time I have.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 02:45 PM
Dec 11

Smaller, mostly square ones tend to get wrapped; larger or oddly shaped ones tend to go in bags.

QueerDuck

(1,034 posts)
4. Gift bags!! The beauty is that they can be easily reused... just add fresh decorative tissue or cello.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 02:46 PM
Dec 11

Or the Amazon bags can be reused easily too. The attached gift cards are good for at least two rounds of giving... and after that, just add a new one (easier than wrapping!)

Glorfindel

(10,172 posts)
7. Bags are nice and handy, and I do use them
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 02:52 PM
Dec 11

but I prefer to wrap gifts. Both my parents were good at wrapping, and they taught me to do it at an early age. I actually enjoy the activity, especially this time of year, listening to Christmas carols. Thanks as always for a very interesting question.

debm55

(55,929 posts)
8. Thank you so much, Glorfindel. When my son was young , I would wrap the gifts. It was heartwarming to watch him open the
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 02:58 PM
Dec 11

wrapping paper and bows and delight at what was in the box. It didn't matter to him, how I wrapped it. He thought it was Santa"s elves that did it.

Polly Hennessey

(8,580 posts)
9. Wrapping is nerve wracking. Did I cut the right size paper,
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 02:59 PM
Dec 11

does the ribbon 🎀 complement the paper, where are the scissors, where is the scotch tape (I just had it), where are the tags, does this present 🎁 go to my sister? I’m confused.

That does it, I am bagging it. Now where is the tissue paper?

Is Christmas 🎄 over, yet!!!!!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
11. HAHAHHAAHHHAHA. your post is a delight. Thank you very much for sharing with us, Polly Hennessey. Love, deb.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 03:04 PM
Dec 11

debm55

(55,929 posts)
12. HAHHAHAHAHA. Thank you very much, MustLoveBeagles. I just lack the talent to wrap except when my son was young.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 03:06 PM
Dec 11

PittBlue

(4,707 posts)
14. I LOVE wrapping packages.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 03:08 PM
Dec 11

Call me crazy but I love creating beautiful packages. I just finished wrapping 18 packages for my daughter-in-law. When we were living in PA, our local cable company came to our home and did a 30 minute show on wrapping packages. Obviously I am retired and have the time.

debm55

(55,929 posts)
16. PittBlue, you have the gift and talent to wrap. You are so lucky to be able to do that. Me, not so much. And I bet they
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 03:14 PM
Dec 11

lovely, Thank you PittBlue.

Phoenix61

(18,706 posts)
17. Back when I bought gifts I always wrapped them.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 03:17 PM
Dec 11

complete with ribbon and a big shiny bow. Now everyone gets a bag with homemade yummys, chocolate candy, and a mason jar mug filled with my White Christmas drink.
White Christmas drink
2 parts Smirnoff peppermint vodka
2 part Irish Cream
1 part Crème de Cacao
Chocolate syrup to taste

debm55

(55,929 posts)
20. Oh wow. That sounds like a delightful bag of goodies. Thank you , Phoenix61 for the White Christmas drink, I copied the
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 04:03 PM
Dec 11

recipe.

Phoenix61

(18,706 posts)
37. Word of warning. If you overindulge, which I did
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 08:39 PM
Dec 11

accidentally, be prepared for the mother of all hangovers.😂

Phoenix61

(18,706 posts)
40. It really wasn't my fault. I had a Christmas party and set
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 08:49 PM
Dec 11

up a pretty tray with pretty Christmas shot glasses filled with White Christmas. It was only fitting I offer a toast to the Christmas season with my guests as they arrived right? Right? Seemed like a reasonable thing to do…and it would have been if everyone had arrived at the same time but they didn’t so lots of toasts and one slightly toasted hostess.😂

justaprogressive

(6,313 posts)
18. I'm a (w)rapper from way back
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 03:33 PM
Dec 11

Poofy bags no thank you!

I want shiny paper, ribbons and bows!!!

If not now, then when???!!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
21. Thank you very much, my friend. From reading your cooking recipes, justaprogressive.you are a creative and talented
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 04:08 PM
Dec 11

woman. Love, deb. I can't believe what your gifts look like.

debm55

(55,929 posts)
22. LOL I used to do that too, when we had a Mall. And given for a great cause. Thank you very much, doc03
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 04:09 PM
Dec 11

OldBaldy1701E

(10,225 posts)
23. That is one of those skills that my mother taught me.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 05:30 PM
Dec 11

I try not to let on that I know how.

I am a wrapper. I can wrap a doll house. I can wrap a go cart.

I can wrap.

beaglelover

(4,428 posts)
25. I was Christmas help once at a department store in NJ when I was in high school. I was put in the gift wrapping
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 05:49 PM
Dec 11

department. I am the gift wrapping king now!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
26. Thank you so much, beaglelover. for sharing with us. you are a gifted and talented gift wrapping king.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 05:52 PM
Dec 11

Diamond_Dog

(39,797 posts)
28. Deb, when I was 16 years old I worked at the mall in a big department store
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 06:13 PM
Dec 11

I was a “floater” which meant I filled in any time some department was short handed. My best girlfriend worked there too. One day they put both of us behind the Gift Wrap counter. Just us, no supervisor! My friend had never even wrapped a gift before and I wasn’t much better. I remember the looks on people’s faces when they got a gift wrapped by one of us! Uneven edges, gaps in the paper, a bow that looked like a 5-year old tied it. After a while I guess some customers complained so we didn’t last till the end of the day. (Not fired, just moved to another department).

I consider myself a decent gift wrapper now,after wrapping gifts for 40 some years for my family. But I’ll tell you the best invention. Holiday printed opaque Ziplock bags. They are great for clothing or small to medium boxes. Boys don’t care if a gift is pretty. I have used them over and over again and they do the job! Stuff with tissue paper and gift, zip open, zip shut. Quick, easy, and reusable!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
33. I think the three of us would be great together. I will be honest I can wrap like a child could. I have a BS in Art Ed.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 08:16 PM
Dec 11

can't wrap a gift. DUH, And my child didn't care. When I see the beautiful wrapping on gifts, I am in awe,Thank you , Diamond_Dog.

LuckyCharms

(21,869 posts)
29. Wrap! I'm a master gift wrapper! One of my jobs as a teen was...
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 06:24 PM
Dec 11

working in a fine china shop. I was taught to gift wrap huge cardboard boxes containing a 96 piece, 12 place-setting service. I could wrap those big boxes beautifully in under 3 minutes.

The wrapping paper was on a mounted roller. In order to determine how much paper to rip off the roller, I was taught to do the following:

Take your hand and splay out your fingers. Use the distance between the tip of your thumb and the tip of your pinkie finger as a measuring device.

So splay out your fingers and see how many hands it takes to cover the top of the box, and then down one side of the box. Let's say for a big box, that total distance is five splayed out hands. Double that. Now you have 10 hands. Start pulling the paper off the roll and measure 10 hands of paper. Add a few inches for overlap. Rip the paper off the roll.

Now you have enough paper to wrap around the top, bottom, and two parallel sides.

Now you just finish off the edges. Before taping the paper down, line the box up on the paper so the factory edge of one side of the paper covers just over half way down on the edge. Then tape the paper down on the top of the box, and wrap one edge with the factory edge of the paper.

Now you just have to cut the paper for the non-factory edge. Cut it to a width that is just over half the thickness of the edge, then wrap and tape that final edge.

It's easier to do than it is to explain.

Done!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
34. Wow.LuckyCharms, I would have never guessed. It does sound interesting. Thank you for sharing.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 08:20 PM
Dec 11

Niagara

(11,554 posts)
30. I'm a decent wrapper
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 07:03 PM
Dec 11

I just can't wrap any of that fancy origami stuff.


Also, I use tri-colored yarn and wrap it around the wrapped presents a few times and make a bow with the leftover yarn. It's exactly how some people would use ribbon but I use tri-colored yarn instead.

debm55

(55,929 posts)
35. That sound beautiful. Niagara. There was year that for my homeroom class, I ordered each a pencil case with 4 pencils
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 08:28 PM
Dec 11

with their names on it. I would make an origami box out of brown paper and tie a burlap ribbon around it. They loved it. Odd, but i had them make 1000 paper cranes and sent them to the Peace Park in Japan. When I was was a kid gifts were not wrapped.

rsdsharp

(11,798 posts)
31. Gift bags. I stopped wrapping years ago.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 07:08 PM
Dec 11

I’m not bad at wrapping, although when I worked in a jewelry store I always had to have somebody else pull my bows. I could never master that.

3catwoman3

(28,611 posts)
41. Cloth bags, made by my late mother. Probably about 30 years ago, when our older son would have been 5, my mom...
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 09:51 PM
Dec 11

...did one of the most thoughtful things ever. She made me a huge assortment of cloth Christmas bags in a variety of sizes, colors, and patterns. They are rather like pillow cases in lots of different sizes. Real simple - put the gift inside and tie up the neck of the bag with ribbon, yarn, etc, and there you go. A huge time saver, especially when our sons were young and my pilot husband was off on a trip, and environmentally friendly. They are really pretty, and I treasure them.

Thanks, Mom!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
44. Thank you very much 3catwoman3. That sounds like a great idea. May the memories of your mother be a blessing to you.
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 10:17 PM
Dec 11

electric_blue68

(25,968 posts)
45. I'm a pretty good wrapper at least, sometimes good+...
Thu Dec 11, 2025, 10:29 PM
Dec 11

but what I love, and learned from my mom was a special ribbon touch.

The thin kind not sure what material they were; use two together. You do that criss-cross over the package, make a knot and have long ends. Then you take one edge of a pair of scissors and run it fast against the ribbon from near the knot till the end.
It makes lovely kinds of curly-cues!

Sometimes, I use Xmas, or Winter themed paper. Other times solid pretty colors, or colorful abstracts. I've on rare occasions colored up my own paper.

I actually happened to have seen from Google a how-to make a Xmas bag just a few days ago!
Very cool! 🥰

debm55

(55,929 posts)
47. Thank you very much, electric_blue68 . I love your creativeness and color combinations. Sometimes I used a country theme
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 11:15 AM
Dec 12

with brown paper and burlap ribbon or twine.

yellowdogintexas

(23,595 posts)
65. I love curling ribbon. I use it on other things besides wrapping packages
Mon Dec 22, 2025, 01:28 PM
Dec 22

I especially like to use them as accents on gift baskets for Silent Auctions.

fargone

(552 posts)
46. My wife is a wrapper
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 12:59 AM
Dec 12

Ribbons and bows, yarn if it will be stuffed in a suitcase. I am a bagger who sometimes gets corralled into wrapping, so I can do it sort of. Not mentioned here are those different sized holiday boxes with lids. Easy and can be reused for many years.

debm55

(55,929 posts)
48. Thank you very much for sharing with us, fargone. My husband is the wrapper., I used to be when my son was young. That
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 11:20 AM
Dec 12

Was also the days when I had 8 themed trees in every room. I enjoyed it .Bags for me know.

catbyte

(38,668 posts)
49. Bags only for me.
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 12:01 PM
Dec 12

Trying to unroll wrapping paper around three cats is an impossible task. If I manage to unroll enough paper to wrap a gift, one of the cats plunks down of the paper or starts shredding it. Or there are little teeth marks all over the paper. And forget about ribbons.

Yeah, bags for me.

50 Shades Of Blue

(11,337 posts)
51. If I'm taking it out of the house, I use a gift bag for it. Otherwise I wrap it, unless
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 12:19 PM
Dec 12

it's an awkward shape or something.

Jilly_in_VA

(13,823 posts)
54. I used to love wrapping presents
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 12:29 PM
Dec 12

Made a real production of it, sometimes layers if paper and then ribbon and bows. Now it's bags for me whenever possible. I love the drawstring bags Amazon puts in their packages when you sy in your order "This package contains a gift". My husband and I are so bad that we sometimes just leave things in their postal wrappings and stick bows on them


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viva la

(4,497 posts)
56. I think wrapped presents are nicer....
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 12:43 PM
Dec 12

But not the way I wrap!

so I bag them. The problem is ... it's too easy for the family to sneak a peak!

debm55

(55,929 posts)
58. I agree with you viva la. wrapped gifts can be so beautiful, My wrapping skills are not great. So a bag it is.
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 12:49 PM
Dec 12

BOSSHOG

(44,738 posts)
59. I like to wrap gifts for my wife
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 01:14 PM
Dec 12

I use a lot of tape and make a mess and nothing is neat about the production, on purpose. But, she loves it.

debm55

(55,929 posts)
63. Oh ,that is so beautiful and wonderful of you, BOSSHOG. Merry Christimas to you and Mrs. BOSSHOG.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 09:48 AM
Dec 13

yellowdogintexas

(23,595 posts)
64. Totally on Team Bag a Gift. Also on Team Snatch Up All The Empty Bags for using next year
Mon Dec 22, 2025, 01:21 PM
Dec 22

However, in my husband's family the wrapping is often the Target/Walmart/Other sack, especially for birthdays because we are all procrastinators

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