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JMCKUSICK

(722 posts)
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 01:38 PM Tuesday

Any positive vibes, prayers etc would be welcome right now please

Last edited Wed Jan 15, 2025, 10:01 AM - Edit history (1)

Well, here goes. I'm at the Dr office and ready to head in. I want to say a huge thank you to you all as I read your kind wishes throughout the day yesterday as my anxiety would build up. Your words were medicine to me, and I'm sorry I haven't been able to thank each of you but please be assured that I'm blanketed by your words, thoughts and energies. Thanks to all of you again and I'll update later today when I get home.
I love you all,
John


I'm going in to meet the Cardiac Surgeon tomorrow morning. I know the news is going to be bad in the sense that I have multiple arterial blockages. I'm just praying there isn't anything worse.
I've been really anxious about this appointment since before Christmas and now it's almost here.

Thank you all for the amazing support and love you keep showing me. It's kept my mind from going to some really dark places as fear goes.
I will post an update as soon as I'm able tomorrow.
Love,
John

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Any positive vibes, prayers etc would be welcome right now please (Original Post) JMCKUSICK Tuesday OP
May the good angels be with you and your family. riversedge Tuesday #1
Thank you Riversedge JMCKUSICK Tuesday #15
Sending good vibes. Demovictory9 Tuesday #2
Thank you Demovictory9 JMCKUSICK Tuesday #14
Best wishes. usonian Tuesday #3
Thank you Usonian JMCKUSICK Tuesday #13
Lots of positive thoughts coming your way Laurelin Tuesday #4
Thank you Laurelin JMCKUSICK Tuesday #12
Beaming good thoughts your way. Nanuke Tuesday #5
Thank you N JMCKUSICK Tuesday #10
Prayers nt XanaDUer2 Tuesday #6
Thank you so much Mary JMCKUSICK Tuesday #8
Best wishes for a good outcome. Different Drummer Tuesday #7
Thank you JMCKUSICK Tuesday #9
I have had two open heart surgeries. I was scared and worried like you are. OLDMDDEM Tuesday #11
Thank you OLDMDDEM JMCKUSICK Tuesday #16
Keep posting what you are going through from what the doctor says forward. You're welcome and good luck. OLDMDDEM Tuesday #17
Best wishes to you, John. May angels watch over you tomorrow. Love. Debbie, debm55 Tuesday #18
Thank you Debbie JMCKUSICK Tuesday #21
Modern cardiac surgery is PoindexterOglethorpe Tuesday #19
Knock on wood JMCKUSICK Tuesday #20
Sending loads of good vibes to you, dear JMCKUSICK MLAA Tuesday #22
Thank you MLAA JMCKUSICK Tuesday #26
Calming vibes on the way to you SheltieLover Tuesday #23
Thank you SheltieLover JMCKUSICK Tuesday #30
I'm praying for peace for your appointment tomorrow and a good outcome with your treatment. WDLAL Tuesday #24
Thank you WDLAL JMCKUSICK Tuesday #44
Those are in short supply around this neck of the woods. OldBaldy1701E Tuesday #25
I'll treasure them all JMCKUSICK Tuesday #46
All the best to you! Hope22 Tuesday #27
Thank you for offering Hope JMCKUSICK Tuesday #47
I prayed for you. Joinfortmill Tuesday #28
Thank you JoinFortMill JMCKUSICK Tuesday #48
Holding you in the light, John. May you be healthy and peaceful n/t KatK Tuesday #29
Thank you KatK JMCKUSICK Tuesday #49
+++ Vibes Nigrum Cattus Tuesday #31
Thank you Nigrum Cattus JMCKUSICK Tuesday #53
You will be fine. pandr32 Tuesday #32
Thank you Pandr32 JMCKUSICK Tuesday #54
When I was 38, I had bypass surgery on 6 arteries. zanana1 Wednesday #76
Thank you Zanana1 JMCKUSICK Wednesday #81
Lighting a candle for your health. Paz RestoreAmerica2020 Tuesday #33
Thank you RestoreAmerica2020 JMCKUSICK Wednesday #82
May nothing but goodness surround you tomorrow. Fla Dem Tuesday #34
Thank you FlaDem JMCKUSICK Wednesday #83
... AKwannabe Tuesday #35
Good vibes coming your way right now! ananda Tuesday #36
Thank you Ananda JMCKUSICK Wednesday #84
sending good vibes oldtime dfl_er Tuesday #37
You will do just fine... S/V Loner Tuesday #38
Good luck - hope all goes well! Johnny Noshoes Tuesday #39
Best luck, and ease of mind! My dear friend went in for a stent last month, came home with a quadruple bypass, without mahina Tuesday #40
Heart problems used to be a big killer when we were young. 1WorldHope Tuesday #41
Some DUers don't know you have a gofundme Omaha Steve Tuesday #42
Best of luck to you and yours. Midnight Writer Tuesday #43
Holding you in light and love, with vibes for best possible outcome. niyad Tuesday #45
Sending you good vibes. StarryNite Tuesday #50
Prayers madashelltoo Tuesday #51
Prayers bernieb Tuesday #52
Kick debm55 Tuesday #55
At least, didn't tell you to go straight to the hospital. surfered Tuesday #56
True true JMCKUSICK Tuesday #57
I knew someone who took a stress test and the cardiologist said we need do do a bypass now. surfered Tuesday #62
Hoping you get some rest tonight and that tomorrow you KitFox Tuesday #58
Sending vibes and prayers. Elessar Zappa Tuesday #59
Vibes. applegrove Tuesday #60
Sending all of that to you: Positive vibrations, prayers, and HUGS! LoisB Tuesday #61
Good luck 🤞🍀 MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #63
Sending you love and good vibes sdfernando Tuesday #64
Prayers and healing energy for you John 💚 Clouds Passing Tuesday #65
Positive vibes to you, JMCKUSICK. ancianita Tuesday #66
Good vibing to you, John Wicked Blue Tuesday #67
You got it Figarosmom Tuesday #68
I hope the appointment turns out to be way less Bluethroughu Tuesday #69
Sending all those powerful DU vibes to you for tomorrow Rhiannon12866 Tuesday #70
Don't know you Katcat Wednesday #71
White light evilhime Wednesday #72
Thank you Evilhime JMCKUSICK Wednesday #89
A neighbor has 18 stents! KT2000 Wednesday #73
Praying KT2000 JMCKUSICK Wednesday #88
May you have -the least possible- challenging news, OR even better than that! 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 electric_blue68 Wednesday #74
not one but TWO delicious donuts of positive karma your way forgotmylogin Wednesday #75
Thank you Forgotmylogin JMCKUSICK Wednesday #87
You know you are in my heart and thoughts Siwsan Wednesday #77
Thank you Susan JMCKUSICK Wednesday #80
My very best wishes and lots of love to you! Erda Wednesday #78
Thank you Erda JMCKUSICK Wednesday #79
DEFINITELY keep us in the loop. We're gonna want to know how you're doing! calimary Wednesday #85
Thank you Calimary JMCKUSICK Wednesday #86

OLDMDDEM

(2,184 posts)
11. I have had two open heart surgeries. I was scared and worried like you are.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 01:47 PM
Tuesday

Go into this with an open mind and do not fear what you will be told. Just go with it. You will be fine. It takes time but you will come out of this just fine.

OLDMDDEM

(2,184 posts)
17. Keep posting what you are going through from what the doctor says forward. You're welcome and good luck.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 01:53 PM
Tuesday

Hope22

(3,275 posts)
27. All the best to you!
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 02:52 PM
Tuesday

Prayers and thoughts for an appointment that leads to you feeling better soon! 💗💗💗

Nigrum Cattus

(261 posts)
31. +++ Vibes
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 03:19 PM
Tuesday

The same thing happens with us cancer survivors before our follow-up's.
Also, get a second opinion if it is serious. I the U.S.
https://www.patientadvocate.org/download-view/second-opinions/

pandr32

(12,379 posts)
32. You will be fine.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 03:24 PM
Tuesday

I know a few guys who have gone through triple bypass surgery and are doing well today.
You will too!
Fear is understandable. I would be full of fear, but you will get this taken care of and be able to continue your life.

zanana1

(6,320 posts)
76. When I was 38, I had bypass surgery on 6 arteries.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 07:58 AM
Wednesday

I'm 72 now, and still kicking! You'll feel so much better if you have the surgery.

S/V Loner

(9,155 posts)
38. You will do just fine...
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 03:55 PM
Tuesday

I had a triple bypass 6 years ago and I am as good as new. I never knew I had a heart issue until my physician saw a new blip on an EKG. I never had any symptoms. They did test and found I had one artery 100% blocked and two 80% blocked. Turns out I had corollaries (I had to find that out on my own because the Docs won't tell you about that. Once I mentioned it they confirmed) which means my body created a bunch of small arteries that went around the blockages. My cardiologist said, once I mentioned the corollaries, that I may or may not have an issue. Well, I'm a wildlife photographer and I thought that if I did have an issue I might be a mile back in the woods and it would be weeks before anyone found me. I decided to have the surgery and couple weeks after getting home I was back out with the camera. LOL... my Doctors were not pleased but both said my recovery was off the charts.
Good luck. All will be good.

mahina

(19,205 posts)
40. Best luck, and ease of mind! My dear friend went in for a stent last month, came home with a quadruple bypass, without
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:01 PM
Tuesday

a cut somehow! Amazing what docs can do now. Seeing you happy and well, and feeling so very much better soon. Aloha.

1WorldHope

(964 posts)
41. Heart problems used to be a big killer when we were young.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:04 PM
Tuesday

My mom has a heart attack at 43. Now days they can do so much with little fanfare. The doctors do so many of these surgeries they could do then with their eyes closed. I wish you a speedy recovery. Try to keep the dark away with light. Catch yourself self talking negative and tell the thought to be gone. You get to control what you think.

madashelltoo

(1,790 posts)
51. Prayers
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:37 PM
Tuesday

Father, please grant courage and peace that passes understanding. Be in the midst of this medical situation. Let the prognosis be within the parameters of medical abilities to repair. Then, we ask that You heal as only You can. We ask in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Blessings

bernieb

(73 posts)
52. Prayers
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 04:45 PM
Tuesday

I don't know if you're Christian, but here is my prayer for you. From the Book of Common Prayer of the Episcopal Church:

Almighty God our Heavenly Father, graciously comfort your servant John in his suffering and bless the means made use of for his cure. Fill his heart with confidence that, though at times he may be afraid, he yet may put his trust in you, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

surfered

(4,138 posts)
56. At least, didn't tell you to go straight to the hospital.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 05:58 PM
Tuesday

They’ve gotten really good at this: stents, by pass surgery. Have faith. Good luck.

surfered

(4,138 posts)
62. I knew someone who took a stress test and the cardiologist said we need do do a bypass now.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 08:46 PM
Tuesday

The patient asked. “Can I get a second opinion?” The doctor told him he might not live until a second opinion. He went to the hospital and they did 3 bypasses. He’s fine now.

I understand it’s a scary procedure, but they do them all over the country every day.

Hoping for good news for you.

KitFox

(132 posts)
58. Hoping you get some rest tonight and that tomorrow you
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 07:04 PM
Tuesday

get some concrete information and a good positive plan for what comes next. Waiting and wondering aren’t easy and you are facing this with tons of courage already!!! Your DU family is behind you all the way!! Please keep us posted. We care!!!!!🩷

sdfernando

(5,473 posts)
64. Sending you love and good vibes
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 09:50 PM
Tuesday

I have a friend that had a non-stemi (so??) at 54. He’s was very fit but a smoker. He quit cigarettes about 6 months before the heart attack. Ended up getting a total of 4 stents over the years. Now he is 61 and going strong. Don’t lose hope. I’m rooting for you!

Clouds Passing

(3,174 posts)
65. Prayers and healing energy for you John 💚
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 10:02 PM
Tuesday

Effing atherosclerosis. Somebody has to come up with a less severe way to deal with it. With some it’s genetic, no matter healthy lifestyle.

ancianita

(39,080 posts)
66. Positive vibes to you, JMCKUSICK.
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 10:17 PM
Tuesday

Be hopeful. Know that you're in good hands. Heart surgery is the most common and successful of surgeries. Compared to many other major surgeries, heart surgery, particularly coronary artery bypass grafting (CABG), generally exceeding a 90% success rate with significantly improved survival rates for patients with severe coronary artery disease.

You're going to be okay. Stay peaceful. Sleep well.

Bluethroughu

(6,194 posts)
69. I hope the appointment turns out to be way less
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 11:01 PM
Tuesday

than you're expecting. Healing good vibes your way!

Rhiannon12866

(225,862 posts)
70. Sending all those powerful DU vibes to you for tomorrow
Tue Jan 14, 2025, 11:57 PM
Tuesday

And hoping that your fears are put to rest by your surgeon. Please let us know how it goes...

Katcat

(390 posts)
71. Don't know you
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 12:26 AM
Wednesday

But you’re on DU so you must be one of the good ones. Fingers, toes, arms and eyes crossed for you to get better fast!

KT2000

(21,031 posts)
73. A neighbor has 18 stents!
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 01:39 AM
Wednesday

I mean it - he rides his bicycle every day. I hope that is what they can do for you. I have 5!!

electric_blue68

(19,206 posts)
74. May you have -the least possible- challenging news, OR even better than that! 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:12 AM
Wednesday

🤔 I think that covers almost all possibilities.

Good Luck!

JMCKUSICK

(722 posts)
87. Thank you Forgotmylogin
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:10 PM
Wednesday

As I raise my doughnut to yours, let's toast to long and happy lives.

calimary

(84,853 posts)
85. DEFINITELY keep us in the loop. We're gonna want to know how you're doing!
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 12:13 PM
Wednesday

Might help to focus on the color green. Green is the color of everything you need to keep your mind focused on:
Health
Healing
Renewal
Spring
New growth
Vitality
The color for “Go”
And all that other good stuff!

JMCKUSICK

(722 posts)
86. Thank you Calimary
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:08 PM
Wednesday

"I love Calimari".
You'll be happy to know that colors are huge to me and help define me.
I bought a set of new green bed sheets for this specific occasion along with another that is Lavender in color.

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