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Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 12:20 PM Dec 5

I have a Rec stalker

Someone is following me around and recommending most every post I make.

Many of my posts aren't worth a second read, much less a rec, so I don't know what to make of this.

🤔

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I have a Rec stalker (Original Post) Kaleva Dec 5 OP
weird... FirstLight Dec 5 #1
Check out their profile and note how many pages of recommends they have Brother Buzz Dec 5 #2
Can you see the identity of people who rec your comments? Irish_Dem Dec 5 #3
AFAIK you can only see comment recs in a DU profile Celerity Dec 6 #67
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Dec 5 #4
I'm always astonished at how few people rec mine. dickthegrouch Dec 5 #5
(I just rec'd that.) Think. Again. Dec 5 #8
Thank you dickthegrouch Dec 5 #14
As did I! GreenWave Dec 5 #10
Thank you dickthegrouch Dec 5 #15
K&R The Wandering Harper Dec 5 #19
Thank you. dickthegrouch Dec 5 #20
Rec'd!!! Kaleva Dec 5 #22
You Got 9 For Just This Post ProfessorGAC Dec 5 #30
How many Shrute Bucks is that worth? JoseBalow Dec 5 #35
Classified Information ProfessorGAC Dec 5 #36
It's the latest crypto JoseBalow Dec 5 #37
All Right! ProfessorGAC Dec 5 #38
I just rec'd your comment. Sometimes there are so many comments on a post, I don't get to them all. LoisB Dec 5 #34
What if True Dough Dec 5 #54
Well then he wouldn't be a dick, would he? JoseBalow Dec 5 #56
There are Dicks who are absolute sweethearts True Dough Dec 5 #57
True, but those are Dicks, with a capital D JoseBalow Dec 5 #58
Fun Fact: LudwigPastorius Sunday #70
I rec'ed one of your posts yesterday. Mosby Dec 5 #6
I might have rec'd some of your posts... Think. Again. Dec 5 #7
I've rec'd some of your posts too Kaleva Dec 5 #23
Thank you, that means a lot to me. Think. Again. Dec 5 #24
Note to self* Shambala Dec 5 #9
Welcome Shambala! GreenWave Dec 5 #11
Thank you! Shambala Dec 5 #17
Oh, a little Three Dog Night? True Dough Dec 5 #55
Oh yeah! Love the Three Dog Night version Shambala Dec 5 #59
Yes, you don't want to be on my list of possible suspects! Kaleva Dec 5 #41
Oh crap I always rec if I read it because I want to be nice. I never thought it was wrong! LiberalLoner Dec 5 #12
Me either. I always give a rec. unless they are off topic or mean. debm55 Dec 5 #13
Thank you! 💙 LiberalLoner Dec 6 #62
It ISN'T wrong to rec! It's right to rec.... Think. Again. Dec 5 #16
Thank you! 💙 LiberalLoner Dec 6 #63
It's not wrong. I just thought it interesting Kaleva Dec 5 #42
💙 I recc'd this one 🤣💙 LiberalLoner Dec 6 #64
Have another one on me! Think. Again. Dec 6 #66
I rec a ton of posts too. Partly it is to express Mike 03 Dec 6 #61
Yes!💙 LiberalLoner Dec 6 #65
I def (amongst other recs) rec the bad news bc it's unfortunately Important to know electric_blue68 Sunday #73
Perhaps they are a secret admirer? Solly Mack Dec 5 #18
nor i. AllaN01Bear Dec 5 #21
I have one too Marthe48 Dec 5 #25
Sometimes if I like a main post and the thread, I rec everyone Clouds Passing Dec 5 #26
OP isn't talking about people who occasionally rec her comments. Irish_Dem Dec 5 #27
Are we supposed to consider this a "real" problem? questionseverything Dec 5 #28
It is not our decision to make. Irish_Dem Dec 5 #29
I don't find it disconcerting. I just find it interesting Kaleva Dec 5 #40
Stating someone is stalking you sounded like you were concerned about it. Irish_Dem Dec 5 #44
My apologies! Kaleva Dec 5 #45
But how does anyone know that each rec comes from the same person wnylib Dec 5 #32
Because every single post or comment is rec'd. Irish_Dem Dec 5 #33
Kavela is male., I check the poster information page and except for the posts here.on this OP all posts were done on debm55 Dec 5 #47
I posted it here in the Lounge because it was meant to be humorous Kaleva Dec 5 #60
Every Post? ProfessorGAC Dec 5 #31
Not every post. Kaleva Dec 5 #43
I Only Know... ProfessorGAC Dec 5 #46
Stalking is serious and is nothing to have fun with. debm55 Dec 5 #39
So you have a secret admirer. WestMichRad Dec 5 #48
It's not me. Poster said he wanted to have fun with it. I very seldom go to GD. OP said it was done for fun. debm55 Dec 5 #49
Ummm.... Okay. WestMichRad Dec 5 #50
Hi WestMichRad. debm55 Dec 5 #51
That's where I got my user name from! Kaleva Dec 6 #68
Recommended! Cirsium Dec 5 #52
I REC-ed... Mike Nelson Dec 5 #53
Now you can check to see who rec's your posts Polybius Sunday #69
Some people recommend every post they read. It's a way of marking them. LeftInTX Sunday #71
Now that I can see who rec'd my posts with the latest update Kaleva Sunday #72
I don't rec every that "counts" to me; but a good amount. For important news (good, or bad), interesting info, or.... electric_blue68 Sunday #74

Brother Buzz

(38,108 posts)
2. Check out their profile and note how many pages of recommends they have
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 12:29 PM
Dec 5

There are quite a few compulsive recommenders on DU. Some have as many as sixty pages!

Don’t lose any sleep over it

Irish_Dem

(61,053 posts)
3. Can you see the identity of people who rec your comments?
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 12:39 PM
Dec 5

I know you can with an OP but not comments?

Response to Kaleva (Original post)

dickthegrouch

(3,686 posts)
5. I'm always astonished at how few people rec mine.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 01:00 PM
Dec 5

Maybe I am totally off the mainstream. But I think I have good ideas.
I rec interesting information, good ideas, and “clever” responses or solutions.

19. K&R
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 03:04 PM
Dec 5

I think I haven't seen any of your posts yet.
By virtue of your username alone I have subscribed to you
(but I'm not quite sure how that works yet,)
I think I am also totally off the mainstream

dickthegrouch

(3,686 posts)
20. Thank you.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 03:18 PM
Dec 5

In case you don’t know, you can see the few postings I’ve added to my journal if you tap on my username.

ProfessorGAC

(71,052 posts)
38. All Right!
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:33 PM
Dec 5

We have a leak! How did you find that out?
Well, now the whole investigative team needs to get to work!

LoisB

(9,079 posts)
34. I just rec'd your comment. Sometimes there are so many comments on a post, I don't get to them all.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:21 PM
Dec 5

True Dough

(21,297 posts)
54. What if
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 10:01 PM
Dec 5

you were "DickTheFriendlyGuy"?

You might get more flies with honey than with vinegar...

Think. Again.

(19,892 posts)
7. I might have rec'd some of your posts...
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 01:05 PM
Dec 5

...if I was in agreement with them.

That's how it's supposed to work, right?

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
23. I've rec'd some of your posts too
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 04:22 PM
Dec 5

I don't always agree with you but you are an advocate for what you believe in and your posts often make me pause to think and that deserves a recommendation IMO

Shambala

(54 posts)
17. Thank you!
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 02:54 PM
Dec 5

Happy to be here but wish it were under better circumstances. I'm sure we'll make it through though.

Shambala

(54 posts)
59. Oh yeah! Love the Three Dog Night version
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 11:33 PM
Dec 5

BW Stevenson’s was the first time I’d heard it. The song was my ringtone for the longest time and the other old souls started calling me Shambala.

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LiberalLoner

(10,229 posts)
12. Oh crap I always rec if I read it because I want to be nice. I never thought it was wrong!
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 01:38 PM
Dec 5

I made sure not to rec this time because I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable!

Sometimes it’s really hard to figure out what is right or wrong on-line. Feel like I need a class or something.

Think. Again.

(19,892 posts)
16. It ISN'T wrong to rec! It's right to rec....
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 01:49 PM
Dec 5

...if you agree with the post or find it worth reading for whatever reason (rec is short for 'recommend'), or even if you just want to give a nod to the poster.

I rec a lot, in fact it's less common for me to not rec because I would really have to disagree with the post to not rec.

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
42. It's not wrong. I just thought it interesting
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:51 PM
Dec 5

That a number of my posts would get one single rec

Mike 03

(17,656 posts)
61. I rec a ton of posts too. Partly it is to express
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 04:54 AM
Dec 6

appreciation to the posters for taking the trouble. Even if the post is "bad" news (i.e. 'Analyst says Dem Strategy Sucks'). Sometimes I worry people might think I rec'd a post because I agree with it, but in the cases where I rec a "bad news" post it's either because it's important to know, or to thank the poster.

I bookmark REALLY crucial posts, probably way too many.

We have certain people who regular post breaking or important news, or news on all sorts of topics, like climate, environment, even archeology. Sometimes I even rec posts and the only purpose is to sort of let them know people are reading and appreciate what they do.

Solly Mack

(93,345 posts)
18. Perhaps they are a secret admirer?
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 03:02 PM
Dec 5

And come February, you'll get a heart from them.

I'm just speculating.

Irish_Dem

(61,053 posts)
27. OP isn't talking about people who occasionally rec her comments.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 05:42 PM
Dec 5

She is talking about someone who is rec'ing every post she makes.

Irish_Dem

(61,053 posts)
29. It is not our decision to make.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 05:51 PM
Dec 5

If someone is feeling stalked, they have a right to say something.

If someone is following every single comment and post you make and rec'ing it,
some people may find it a bit disconcerting.

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
40. I don't find it disconcerting. I just find it interesting
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:45 PM
Dec 5

It started not long ago. It could be a freak coincidence where random people rec s post of mine and it's the only rec I get for that particular post.

Irish_Dem

(61,053 posts)
44. Stating someone is stalking you sounded like you were concerned about it.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:56 PM
Dec 5

Sorry for the misunderstanding.

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
45. My apologies!
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:58 PM
Dec 5

I posted this in the Lounge as I meant it to be light hearted and maybe others can have some fun with it. Even if it's at my expense.

wnylib

(25,064 posts)
32. But how does anyone know that each rec comes from the same person
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:16 PM
Dec 5

since we don't know the identity of people who rec posts, only of those who rec an OP?

Irish_Dem

(61,053 posts)
33. Because every single post or comment is rec'd.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:19 PM
Dec 5

Every single one.

Statically that is beyond chance for being just independent random recommendations.

debm55

(40,010 posts)
47. Kavela is male., I check the poster information page and except for the posts here.on this OP all posts were done on
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 07:03 PM
Dec 5

General Discussion. in the last 90 days. Why not put on GD instead of on the Lounge., I don;t do GD so no I am not your stalker.but someone on GD might be . If I was you I would post this over there.

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
60. I posted it here in the Lounge because it was meant to be humorous
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 11:55 PM
Dec 5

It's just something I noticed, thought it amusing so I posted it on the Lounge. If I had been seriously concerned about it, I'd have posted it in GD.

ProfessorGAC

(71,052 posts)
31. Every Post?
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:02 PM
Dec 5

I know we can check to see who recs an OP, but I didn't know we could identify who recs replies.
How is that done?

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
43. Not every post.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 06:54 PM
Dec 5

How do you check to see who rec'd your post? I can see the number of recs, but I don't see who actually did the rec.

ProfessorGAC

(71,052 posts)
46. I Only Know...
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 07:01 PM
Dec 5

...how to check recs on OPs.
That's super easy. You just click the top of the rec box and a list will pop up.
But, I'm unaware how to check them on an in-thread post.
Thought you knew, which I why I asked! I figured I'd learn something new.
Now, we're both stuck!

WestMichRad

(1,945 posts)
48. So you have a secret admirer.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 07:57 PM
Dec 5

Embrace it! (For the record, it’s not me.)

Although I do admit to liking your screen name, it reminds me of an old haunt, the Kaleva Cafe in Hancock MI. They had the yummiest pasties!

(MTU grad here…)

debm55

(40,010 posts)
49. It's not me. Poster said he wanted to have fun with it. I very seldom go to GD. OP said it was done for fun.
Thu Dec 5, 2024, 08:02 PM
Dec 5

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
68. That's where I got my user name from!
Fri Dec 6, 2024, 01:49 PM
Dec 6

I remember well stopping there as a kid with my family for lunch .

Polybius

(18,703 posts)
69. Now you can check to see who rec's your posts
Sun Jan 12, 2025, 01:43 PM
Sunday

Did you ever find out who it was? Was it the same person?

Kaleva

(38,749 posts)
72. Now that I can see who rec'd my posts with the latest update
Sun Jan 12, 2025, 03:01 PM
Sunday

I saw that there is a wide variety of DUers who have singularity rec'd a post of mine.

No stalker!

electric_blue68

(19,224 posts)
74. I don't rec every that "counts" to me; but a good amount. For important news (good, or bad), interesting info, or....
Sun Jan 12, 2025, 08:37 PM
Sunday

general, or personal stories,
encouraging comments to others, funny, and fun stuff.


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