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Polybius

(18,703 posts)
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 01:15 PM Wednesday

Jill Biden expresses disappointment with Pelosi: 'We were friends for 50 years'

Source: CNN

First lady Jill Biden expressed her disappointment with former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi in a new interview with The Washington Post, providing rare public comments about the fractured relationship between her husband, Joe Biden, and Pelosi following the president’s departure from the 2024 race.

“We were friends for 50 years,” the first lady said in an interview with The Washington Post published Wednesday. “It was disappointing.”

Pelosi was among the top Democrats to express reservations about Joe Biden’s ability to defeat Donald Trump in November after the president’s halting debate performance in June. As Biden remained adamant he would stay in the race, Pelosi made waves in an interview as she opened the door to the possibility he should end his campaign.

“It’s up to the president to decide if he is going to run. We’re all encouraging him to make that decision because time is running short,” Pelosi said on MSNBC in July.

Read more: https://www.cnn.com/2025/01/15/politics/jill-biden-nancy-pelosi/index.html

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Jill Biden expresses disappointment with Pelosi: 'We were friends for 50 years' (Original Post) Polybius Wednesday OP
If Joe had brought his A game to the debate, he would have been the candidate andym Wednesday #1
I and everyone I know also think this. ananda Wednesday #5
People would have forgotten all about the stupid debate, LisaL Wednesday #36
I heard the debate, that was enough. The press sucks, but dem4decades Wednesday #42
In a rational world, the alarming headlines after the June debate Martin Eden Yesterday #54
They could have moved on, as in their usual 24-hour news cycle--- Jack Valentino 10 hrs ago #61
Good point. I was always going to support Biden... ananda Wednesday #50
Harris brought her A Game and kicked Trump's ass in the debate JI7 Wednesday #10
She did and it helped her so much that Trump declined a second debate andym Wednesday #11
And THIS is why I am STILL so sick....... MyOwnPeace Wednesday #15
He should have said shut up man, again. GreenWave Wednesday #12
Completely agree. mainer Wednesday #13
I think he was drugged. Emile Wednesday #17
If HW and Cheney DENVERPOPS Wednesday #18
HW? GoreWon2000 Wednesday #26
WBushie's Daddie DENVERPOPS Wednesday #49
No tRump without Bush 2000 election theft GoreWon2000 15 hrs ago #58
How shallow people are if one debate costs us a great President. travelingthrulife Wednesday #20
Pretty fucking shallow, unfortunately. 3catwoman3 Wednesday #21
If Joe had neutered Trump the first year, Kamala could have won... lostnfound Wednesday #48
Do you remember that he was sick directly after that? Hope22 Wednesday #52
I suspect DeepWinter Wednesday #2
Jill is not alone in her disappointment. 3catwoman3 Wednesday #3
And what if when you picked up that kleanex, it was full of holes..? jvill Wednesday #8
Republicans would have. LisaL Wednesday #35
The party threw Al Gore and we the people's votes away in 2000. GoreWon2000 Wednesday #27
Shhhhh VBNMW Wednesday #40
Gleeful Prairie Gates Wednesday #4
Pelosi made it a race and saved us at least 3-4 Senate seats and more in the House BeyondGeography Wednesday #6
I don't believe that it saved us any seats. LisaL Wednesday #33
We won four Senate races in states that Harris lost BeyondGeography Wednesday #38
I don't think it's a safe assumption that Biden would have done worse than Harris. LisaL Wednesday #39
The day after the election was lost I had never seen Nancy Pelosi so distraught. Baitball Blogger Wednesday #7
to me its disappointing that we allowed the republicans to win samsingh Wednesday #9
I think it was the genocide in Gaza womanofthehills Wednesday #22
Spot on. 2024 was a repeat of 1968 when anti-war Democrats didn't support Hubert Humphrey. C0RI0LANUS Yesterday #55
Yes, even on THIS site... Jack Valentino 10 hrs ago #62
W destroyed our democracy in 2000. GoreWon2000 Wednesday #24
Jill was too close to see the obvious physical decline, apparently. maxsolomon Wednesday #14
What about tRump's clear mental decline? GoreWon2000 Wednesday #25
Apparently Trump walks on water. LisaL Wednesday #32
Don't know what that has to do with Jill Biden's feelings about Pelosi. maxsolomon Wednesday #43
There were other comments GoreWon2000 15 hrs ago #59
The primaries were OVER at that point, and there was no conceivable method Jack Valentino 9 hrs ago #63
Jill, chill. truthisfreedom Wednesday #16
Pelosi did the right thing Jose Garcia Wednesday #19
Disenfranchising 14 million dem party primary voters wasn't a good look GoreWon2000 Wednesday #23
But he did run, and at the time Nancy and Co forced him to step down, LisaL Wednesday #31
Read some of the threads from around that time Shrek Wednesday #44
Well, that's certainly a divisive article... Think. Again. Wednesday #28
Exactly. truthisfreedom 21 hrs ago #57
Family can't be objective and dispassionate about this, especially when their son's fate Wingus Dingus Wednesday #29
Thanks for what? LisaL Wednesday #30
She accomplished doing the right thing for the portion of the nation Wingus Dingus Wednesday #34
So, she accomplished nothing? LisaL Wednesday #37
I remember a few days before the election, Pelosi said on TV "We will win the house" sounding very certain of herself. Intractable Wednesday #41
In 2016 she said "Donald Trump will not be President. You can take that to the bank." Shrek Wednesday #45
She and almost everybody else said that, including many Republicans. n/t totodeinhere Wednesday #46
It's not about friendship, Jill HereForTheParty Wednesday #47
I agree will Dr. Biden endgenocide Wednesday #51
If President Biden was too old to run, so was Nancy. donheld Wednesday #53
She stepped down as Speaker iemanja Yesterday #56
This 👆👆👆 Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin 10 hrs ago #60

andym

(5,748 posts)
1. If Joe had brought his A game to the debate, he would have been the candidate
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 01:33 PM
Wednesday

It was one of the most consequential debates in US history. The other being Reagan-Carter where "there you go again Jimmy" Reagan normalized himself enough in the public's eye to win. If Carter had just denied Reagan that debate, Carter still might have won.

LisaL

(46,814 posts)
36. People would have forgotten all about the stupid debate,
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:07 PM
Wednesday

if the press didn't go crazy about it, and democrats didn't throw Biden under the bus. Meanwhile, Trump just does whatever the hell he wants.

dem4decades

(12,073 posts)
42. I heard the debate, that was enough. The press sucks, but
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:51 PM
Wednesday

What were supposed to do, report a victory for Biden?

Martin Eden

(13,667 posts)
54. In a rational world, the alarming headlines after the June debate
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 05:51 AM
Yesterday

Would have been all about the bold-faced LIES spewed by one of the candidates.

Jack Valentino

(1,567 posts)
61. They could have moved on, as in their usual 24-hour news cycle---
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 10:48 PM
10 hrs ago

Instead, they latched onto it like pit-bulls for a month---
while ignoring every shred of evidence which suggested
that Trump was in much worse mental shape than Biden--

because "Trump has always been crazy", or some such excuse.

andym

(5,748 posts)
11. She did and it helped her so much that Trump declined a second debate
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:54 PM
Wednesday

If Trump had debated her a second time closer to the election, she would have likely won the election. The GOP spent all of their effort painting her in a negative light-- but that doesn't work as well when you see the person live on TV making points and kicking Trump's ass.

MyOwnPeace

(17,284 posts)
15. And THIS is why I am STILL so sick.......
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:11 PM
Wednesday

she made an ASS of him at the first debate (well, OK, an ever BIGGER ASS of him!) - he opted NOT to debate again - and a majority of 'Americans' (sic) thought he was the better candidate.

We have problems - SERIOUS problems........................

God help us all.

GreenWave

(9,656 posts)
12. He should have said shut up man, again.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:58 PM
Wednesday

And too doped up to answer a simple question?

mainer

(12,242 posts)
13. Completely agree.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:00 PM
Wednesday

When the Biden - Trump debate ended, I said to my husband: "that's it. We've lost."

After the Kamala - Trump debate, I started feeling optimistic again.

DENVERPOPS

(10,367 posts)
18. If HW and Cheney
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:24 PM
Wednesday

hadn't committed TREASON by conspiring with IRAN, our foreign enemy, Carter would have won...........

I am thoroughly convinced that HW was one, if not THE person, hiding in the Republican's Deep State shadows, starting in the Reagan Era, and continuing to operate in the back ground for decades, all the way through the WBush years......

Reagan, and WBush were mere puppets, put up as a distraction, while the RepubliCONs did their dirty work in the shadows, and utilized smoke and mirrors to block the view.......Trump did the same thing, utilizing himself to detract attention daily, while the Republican Senators, Uber rich Republicans went to work, in addition, the Republican owned media, RW think tanks and Putin were assisting in every single way possible.....

Carter's debate prep team failed to prepare him about *Gish Gallop*......... a technique THEY SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT TRUMP WOULD USE......
It is an age old, well known technique in debating that literally just stuns the debate opponent, to where they can't say a single retort...

re: Nancy Pelosi, and many many many other Dem Politicians, don't get me started......................

GoreWon2000

(1,131 posts)
26. HW?
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 05:28 PM
Wednesday

BTW, in 2000 W created the election stealing roadmap that tRump used in 2020 and continues to use.

DENVERPOPS

(10,367 posts)
49. WBushie's Daddie
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 08:31 PM
Wednesday

HWBush when he was VP under Reagan.....

Many of HWBush's CABAL ended up in WBush's administration.....

GoreWon2000

(1,131 posts)
58. No tRump without Bush 2000 election theft
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 05:29 PM
15 hrs ago

It was the Bush brothers who killed American democracy in 2000 in broad daylight and got away with it. This created tRump's election stealing 2020 road map. In addition, it was W's terrible economic policies that tanked the economy in favor of the rich and caused the layoffs of so many white, anglo working class men. On top of that, people were horrified to watch their votes get thrown out in 2000 and have decided that democracy no longer works for them. Certainly Cheney played a role in helping W steal the 2000 election which is why I think is daughter Liz is now the biggest hypocrite in D.C. Our country would not be in the mess it's in today without the Bush 2000 election theft.

travelingthrulife

(1,133 posts)
20. How shallow people are if one debate costs us a great President.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 04:01 PM
Wednesday

Do these types go deeper than optics?

lostnfound

(16,771 posts)
48. If Joe had neutered Trump the first year, Kamala could have won...
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 07:49 PM
Wednesday

Trump should have been incommunicado, internet removed, locked up or threatened into silence by friendly neighborhood black ops guys — if not prosecuted right away, something else that took him off of the podium.

Any “the buck stops here” kind of president would have done so, in my opinion.

Hope22

(3,278 posts)
52. Do you remember that he was sick directly after that?
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 10:45 PM
Wednesday

He probably had Covid after coming back from his travels and was actually sick during the debate. Not an excuse. If you watch the debate again you will see that Biden answered every question. He may have had a dazed look from time to time but he did answer the questions even when the moderators were managing poorly! You will see that TSF answered none of the question but followed with lies and raised voice. My guess is Biden did the best he could. Canceling the day before would also have been a losing venture! It is always lose lose for Biden against the TSF.

DeepWinter

(694 posts)
2. I suspect
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 01:50 PM
Wednesday

there was an awefull lot of wheeling and dealing behind the scenes and behind Bidens back than we'll ever know. Politics being politics. Jill probably got an unfirunate and dissapointing glimpse into that.

3catwoman3

(25,868 posts)
3. Jill is not alone in her disappointment.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:02 PM
Wednesday

I will probably never get over feeling like the party threw Joe away like a used Kleenex, and if those in charge of messaging been able to do a better job of it during the whole term, maybe the poor debate wouldn't have mattered so much.

All the praise for Joe's long list of accomplishments after he decided to step aside rang very hollow to me.

Remember what her daughter said about her - "She'll cut your head off and you won't even know you're bleeding."

 

jvill

(459 posts)
8. And what if when you picked up that kleanex, it was full of holes..?
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:29 PM
Wednesday

If Joe had done well in the debate, it wouldn't have been a discussion.

The Bidens are blaming everyone else for something that fell squarely on Joe's shoulders: his performance in the most important debate of his career. And he shit the bed. And that's the fault of the messaging?

And now the Bidens are saying we should have all just shut up and gotten in that shit-covered bed with him..?

That's nuts.

LisaL

(46,814 posts)
35. Republicans would have.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:04 PM
Wednesday

Nobody would even remember that stupid debate if not for the press yapping about it, and democrats throwing Biden under the bus.

GoreWon2000

(1,131 posts)
27. The party threw Al Gore and we the people's votes away in 2000.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 05:30 PM
Wednesday

That soured millions of Americans on democracy and resulted in tRump.

BeyondGeography

(40,120 posts)
6. Pelosi made it a race and saved us at least 3-4 Senate seats and more in the House
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:18 PM
Wednesday

And you can see from both Bidens’ recent statements why she needed to push as hard as she did. They were in deep denial and remain there.

LisaL

(46,814 posts)
33. I don't believe that it saved us any seats.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:03 PM
Wednesday

We lost everything, congress, senate and presidency.

BeyondGeography

(40,120 posts)
38. We won four Senate races in states that Harris lost
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:13 PM
Wednesday

And the margins of victory were very thin. It’s not scientific but assuming Biden lost by wider margins than Harris, which is a very safe assumption in my book, we don’t win those seats. More people would have stayed home. Many more. There was basically zero enthusiasm for Joe when he dropped out.

If you asked Baldwin, Slotkin, Rosen and and Gallegos if they were happier seeing Harris in the race instead of Biden I’m pretty sure what the answer would be.

Baitball Blogger

(48,711 posts)
7. The day after the election was lost I had never seen Nancy Pelosi so distraught.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:26 PM
Wednesday

I didn't watch news for a week afterwards.

samsingh

(17,906 posts)
9. to me its disappointing that we allowed the republicans to win
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 02:31 PM
Wednesday

by not winning over the voters.

i don't care about who's feelings are hurt, when trump could destroy out Democracy

womanofthehills

(9,403 posts)
22. I think it was the genocide in Gaza
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 05:06 PM
Wednesday

If you look at social media- most of the young were horrified by the daily images of dead and mutilated babies. The kids were protesting the war every weekend and they were condemned.

I think just enough young people didn’t vote to push it over to Republicans.

C0RI0LANUS

(2,388 posts)
55. Spot on. 2024 was a repeat of 1968 when anti-war Democrats didn't support Hubert Humphrey.
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 06:53 AM
Yesterday

Rather than vote for Nixon or Wallace in 1968, anti-war Democrats abstained. Anti-war Democrats angry with the Gaza War stayed home in 2024 rather than vote for Trumpf or Stein. That explains the difference between the overwhelming 2020 Biden/Harris numbers and the underwhelming 2024 Harris/Walz numbers.

Students at hundreds of college campuses protested the Gaza War throughout 2024, just like in 1968. We should have paid attention to them. These youngsters in 2024 were slandered as "useful idiots of Iran," "Hamas lovers," or incredibly, even "antisemites," the way the students in 1968 were maligned as "pinko lovers." Hmph.

1968



2024


Jack Valentino

(1,567 posts)
62. Yes, even on THIS site...
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 10:55 PM
10 hrs ago

"useful idiots of Iran," "Hamas lovers," or incredibly, even "antisemites,"

maxsolomon

(35,491 posts)
14. Jill was too close to see the obvious physical decline, apparently.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:04 PM
Wednesday

It became starkly obvious at the debate. Biden became frail, NOT SENILE.

Biden never should have got to the debate. There should have been an open primary, and we'd be swearing in President Newsom next week instead of that fucking monster.

GoreWon2000

(1,131 posts)
25. What about tRump's clear mental decline?
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 05:24 PM
Wednesday

The pro repug media completely ignored tRump's mental decline and is still ignoring it.

GoreWon2000

(1,131 posts)
59. There were other comments
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 05:36 PM
15 hrs ago

referencing the media saying that Biden had declined mentally and the claim that both Bidens were in denial about it so I was countering that will the fact that the media had completely ignored tRump's mental decline. I totally get that the Bidens are unhappy with how he was treated by the dem leadership. I frankly think that they now know how Al Gore must feel about getting thrown under the bus along with we the voters in 2000.

Jack Valentino

(1,567 posts)
63. The primaries were OVER at that point, and there was no conceivable method
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 11:02 PM
9 hrs ago

by which there would have been any MORE primaries,
without throwing every law and party nominating rules under the bus.

The idea of having an "open primary" at that point
was a pipe dream advocated by a ship of fools. (James Carville near the top of that list).

Even if it had been made to happen, the idea that African-American women,
who are the backbone of the party, would have turned out to vote in the GE
for Newsom after Kamala had been thrown under the bus,
(in the same numbers which they turned out for Kamala)
is ANOTHER pipe-dream.



And I'm NOT so hot on Newsom after reading THIS----
https://democraticunderground.com/10143374154


truthisfreedom

(23,337 posts)
16. Jill, chill.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:14 PM
Wednesday

It is done. Everyone has a different opinion on exactly what happened. But being noisy about it now is just destructive to the party. Go make amends with Nancy, or not, as the case may be, but do it quietly.

Jose Garcia

(2,985 posts)
19. Pelosi did the right thing
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 03:40 PM
Wednesday

It was abundantly obvious that President Biden had declined to the extent that the election was going to be a bloodbath. Biden never should have run.

GoreWon2000

(1,131 posts)
23. Disenfranchising 14 million dem party primary voters wasn't a good look
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 05:20 PM
Wednesday

for a political party claiming to be the party defending democracy from dictator tRump. This is on top of the dem leadership hiding in their cushy, ivory Washington towers while they let W steal the 2000 election. It's no wonder that dems stayed home in droves in 2024 or have given up entirely on democracy and supported tRump.

LisaL

(46,814 posts)
31. But he did run, and at the time Nancy and Co forced him to step down,
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:01 PM
Wednesday

it was too late to do that, and it accomplished nothing good.

Shrek

(4,197 posts)
44. Read some of the threads from around that time
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 07:01 PM
Wednesday

Not everyone thought it was abundantly obvious and Pelosi was hammered relentlessly by some.

Wingus Dingus

(8,417 posts)
29. Family can't be objective and dispassionate about this, especially when their son's fate
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 05:52 PM
Wednesday

might hang in the balance (prison). Needed non-family experts and professionals to speak up for what was best for the country, and it's good they did. Thanks Nancy.

LisaL

(46,814 posts)
30. Thanks for what?
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:01 PM
Wednesday

Nancy got Biden to step down and then when Harris lost the election, Nancy blamed Biden anyway.
So WTF did Nancy accomplish here?

Wingus Dingus

(8,417 posts)
34. She accomplished doing the right thing for the portion of the nation
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:03 PM
Wednesday

that aren't Bidens. But it was too late, he shouldn't have run again and the field should have been opened sooner.

LisaL

(46,814 posts)
37. So, she accomplished nothing?
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:07 PM
Wednesday

If there was a time to push, it should have been done before the primary.

Intractable

(727 posts)
41. I remember a few days before the election, Pelosi said on TV "We will win the house" sounding very certain of herself.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 06:41 PM
Wednesday

I believed her.

Shrek

(4,197 posts)
45. In 2016 she said "Donald Trump will not be President. You can take that to the bank."
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 07:04 PM
Wednesday

And sounded very certain of herself.

Her election predictions aren't the soundest.

endgenocide

(137 posts)
51. I agree will Dr. Biden
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 09:05 PM
Wednesday

Nancy's behavior was disappointing, if say what I really think I'm pretty sure my comment won't last more than a minute or two!

donheld

(21,320 posts)
53. If President Biden was too old to run, so was Nancy.
Wed Jan 15, 2025, 10:47 PM
Wednesday

It's time all of these 80+ year olds retire.

iemanja

(55,074 posts)
56. She stepped down as Speaker
Thu Jan 16, 2025, 07:53 AM
Yesterday

Did you forget? Biden was obviously too old and should never have sought reelection. We need age limits on the presidency. Trump is too old.

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