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Jack Valentino

(5,373 posts)
Wed Jun 3, 2026, 10:43 PM Jun 3

We've elected a PRESIDENT who is twice divorced and cheated on ALL THREE of his wives---

as well as being a convicted felon, someone who lost a civil suit for sexual assault,
and rumored to be a pedophile....

so I REALLY could not give a SHIT that Platner *may have* sent sexual texts to adult women
while he was married.... this is penny-ante garbage even if it is true!

I'm DONE with the double-standard which Republicans, the media, and some Democrats
try to enforce that DEMOCRATS have to be PERFECT,
while all the ACTUAL SEX CRIMES committed by Republicans are IGNORED!

Fuck this noise. It's a matter for the voters of Maine to consider,
NOT for US Senators or anyone else who doesn't have a vote in Maine!

And frankly, I don't think most of the voters will give a tinker's damn about it,
with all of the other much more important issues facing us!



Also looks a little too "summer of 2024" to me!
Some Democratic US Senators meddled in THAT Presidential Election,
and where did it get us--- or some of them ???

(Senators Sherrod Brown and Jon Tester both asked President Biden to withdraw from the election...
in which they were up for re-election.
They got what they asked for, and they lost anyway.)



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We've elected a PRESIDENT who is twice divorced and cheated on ALL THREE of his wives--- (Original Post) Jack Valentino Jun 3 OP
Agree. Funtatlaguy Jun 3 #1
but *some people worry* about the 'Platner sex texts' story... Jack Valentino Jun 3 #2
Expect the anti-Platner folks anytime now... luv2fly Jun 3 #3
I don't consider myself "anti-Platner" Skittles Jun 4 #9
In this instance at least... luv2fly Jun 4 #10
LOL Skittles Jun 4 #11
Yes if creeps are married it is all fine. Good point. Irish_Dem Jun 4 #12
that would make Trump and Hegseth saints too Skittles Jun 4 #39
Oh yes they are saints for sure. Irish_Dem Jun 4 #40
and both are rapists Skittles Jun 4 #41
We are supposed to get out of men's bedrooms. Irish_Dem Jun 4 #43
yes, misogyny is now just an "inconvenience" Skittles Jun 4 #49
She wouldn't be in counceling if she was "good" with his cheating Quiet Em Jun 4 #16
If she dragged him into therapy she is not good with it. Irish_Dem Jun 4 #47
Don't see the logic Boo1 Jun 4 #4
THANK YOU Skittles Jun 4 #8
I only care if they fight and work for what's best for the American people Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #14
If he'd lie to his wife Boo1 Jun 4 #19
Funny how so many are talking about the sexting, but not ever niyad Jun 4 #5
Those posts are far worse than the sexting EdmondDantes_ Jun 4 #13
The sexting is easier to excuse so they ignore the rape apologia mcar Jun 4 #17
What is going on? Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #24
What is that supposed to mean? LisaL Jun 4 #26
Uh, Platner is a Democrat Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #29
And? LisaL Jun 4 #32
Is this a joke? mcar Jun 4 #36
Yes, and Democrats are allowed to have opinions about other niyad Jun 4 #44
Everything he does is dismissed Boo1 Jun 4 #20
Looks that way to me as well. LisaL Jun 4 #22
It doesn't matter if it doesn't hurt anyone Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #23
It didn't hurt anyone? LisaL Jun 4 #25
His wife said it's no big deal and they are fine, but I guess you're going to speak for her instead Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #28
And Melonia is still married to Trump Boo1 Jun 4 #31
Have you actually ever listened to Platner? Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #35
You think it's ok for him to blame women mcar Jun 4 #37
Any victim of a sex crime or domestic violence will not be feeling good. Irish_Dem Jun 4 #45
I keep reading Collins had affair Tree Lady Jun 4 #6
Yes. She was sleeping with a married man (current husband) who's wife was dying of cancer Ziggy Beans Jun 4 #15
As far as I can tell this is all unverified gossip. LisaL Jun 4 #21
Bill Clinton had his dick pleased in the oval Billsdaughter Jun 4 #7
And Clinton's behavior caused a lot of problems for us. LisaL Jun 4 #27
Al Gore lost Billsdaughter Jun 4 #38
The Men Defending Graham Platner In All The Wrong Ways Quiet Em Jun 4 #18
Some Democratic voters can't put aside their personal morality issues, believing candidates should be pure sop Jun 4 #30
It seems like we would have a much easier time LisaL Jun 4 #33
In a perfect world we would nominate saints. sop Jun 4 #34
He did four combat tours orangecrush Jun 4 #42
Some men don't get a scratch on them in combat for other reasons. Irish_Dem Jun 4 #46
For 4 tours orangecrush Jun 4 #48
This double standard is almost as bad as the job market. ck4829 Saturday #50
Even the Lord allows sin -- the point is more continued behavior, no actual remdemption, no effort to change. RoeVWade Saturday #51
Do we believe in redemption ... or not? LSparkle Saturday #52
Plus plead the 5th amendment over 400 times jimmy the one Saturday #53

Jack Valentino

(5,373 posts)
2. but *some people worry* about the 'Platner sex texts' story...
Wed Jun 3, 2026, 11:23 PM
Jun 3

Fine, glad it came out now, instead of in October---


The memory of the average voter is the life-span of a GNAT.


luv2fly

(2,755 posts)
3. Expect the anti-Platner folks anytime now...
Wed Jun 3, 2026, 11:33 PM
Jun 3

Many of the same folks who claim any criticisms of Democrats are "depressing the vote."

🙄

luv2fly

(2,755 posts)
10. In this instance at least...
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 04:57 AM
Jun 4

Your "creep" is another person's husband. She's good with him, I'm willing to cut him some slack. YMMV.

Irish_Dem

(82,786 posts)
40. Oh yes they are saints for sure.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 07:08 PM
Jun 4

And they don't have Nazi tattoos so they are fine upstanding men.

Irish_Dem

(82,786 posts)
43. We are supposed to get out of men's bedrooms.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 08:08 PM
Jun 4

And let them commit crimes there.

We are just women Skittles, what do we know?

Quiet Em

(3,205 posts)
16. She wouldn't be in counceling if she was "good" with his cheating
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 08:57 AM
Jun 4

Yeah, they are trying to work through this but that does not mean that she is OK with it.

Irish_Dem

(82,786 posts)
47. If she dragged him into therapy she is not good with it.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:23 PM
Jun 4

And the therapist is not going to condone his behavior either.
He was having his sexual needs met outside the marriage against his wife's wishes
or knowledge.

Boo1

(590 posts)
4. Don't see the logic
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 12:21 AM
Jun 4

behind "Trump did all this terrible stuff and they elected him" and "Let's stop caring if our candidates are shitheads."

This isn't Republicans attacking him, it's a Democratic Primary and we have options.

Ziggy Beans

(82 posts)
14. I only care if they fight and work for what's best for the American people
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 08:15 AM
Jun 4

As long as they don't hurt anyone I could care less what politicians do in their lives. Platner's wife is the only that should be concerned about this–and she's not

niyad

(135,170 posts)
5. Funny how so many are talking about the sexting, but not ever
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 12:25 AM
Jun 4

mentioning the rape apologist posts, or, if they do actually mention them, dismiss them with all kinds of excuses. We have rape survivors on this board. Exactly how do you thiink they are feeling these days, seeing his words so casually and flippantly dismissed?

EdmondDantes_

(2,254 posts)
13. Those posts are far worse than the sexting
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 06:17 AM
Jun 4

While gross in that he was allegedly in a committed relationship, that's still an issue between him and his wife. The posts blaming women for rape, using retarded as a slur, the tattoo, those are far more significant in terms of how I look at him in terms of a potential public servant.

mcar

(46,522 posts)
17. The sexting is easier to excuse so they ignore the rape apologia
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:05 AM
Jun 4

and many other examples of bigotry.

LisaL

(47,960 posts)
32. And?
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:01 AM
Jun 4

A democrat can do no wrong? Also, when did Platner even become a democrat? Considering he voted for Collins multiple times.

mcar

(46,522 posts)
36. Is this a joke?
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 11:53 AM
Jun 4

I realize you’re new but surely you’ve seen that slamming Democrats as weak, spineless, corporatists, blah blah goes on constantly here.

LisaL

(47,960 posts)
22. Looks that way to me as well.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:19 AM
Jun 4

Some here even go as far as to suggest nothing he did before the campaign matters. Like he started living only when he started his run for Senate.
As for Trump, getting away with everything appears to be his very special talent. Regardless, as I would never vote for Trump, argument that because Trump gets away with everything, so should everyone else, doesn't hold water for me.

Ziggy Beans

(82 posts)
23. It doesn't matter if it doesn't hurt anyone
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:33 AM
Jun 4

The only thing that should matter to any of us is how he will govern

Ziggy Beans

(82 posts)
28. His wife said it's no big deal and they are fine, but I guess you're going to speak for her instead
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:45 AM
Jun 4

Boo1

(590 posts)
31. And Melonia is still married to Trump
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:56 AM
Jun 4

I don't see how that means anything.

Same way massive red flags were ignored with Fetterman

Ziggy Beans

(82 posts)
35. Have you actually ever listened to Platner?
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:24 AM
Jun 4

Or is it all about optics to you?

And the Fetterman comment is just embarrassing

Irish_Dem

(82,786 posts)
45. Any victim of a sex crime or domestic violence will not be feeling good.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 08:44 PM
Jun 4

About the rape apologist posts.

And also it makes for stupid politics.
This is not how elections are won.

Thanks for bringing this up Niyad.

Tree Lady

(13,419 posts)
6. I keep reading Collins had affair
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 12:42 AM
Jun 4

With her husband when he was marred with 3 kids and she was sick.

If that is true it's much worse.

Ziggy Beans

(82 posts)
15. Yes. She was sleeping with a married man (current husband) who's wife was dying of cancer
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 08:17 AM
Jun 4

Bad, but I'm more concerned with her being a Republican

Billsdaughter

(198 posts)
7. Bill Clinton had his dick pleased in the oval
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 01:05 AM
Jun 4

And I could care less. While he was having consensual sexual activities, the deficit was erased, the Dayton Accord was reached, the cost of living fell, wages rose, and all boats were raised.

Let's see how the folks in Maine feel about it next week.

LisaL

(47,960 posts)
27. And Clinton's behavior caused a lot of problems for us.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:41 AM
Jun 4

Did it not? Al Gore, Hillary probably paid for Bill's behavior. As is it might have cost them the election. Even though they were not to blame.
I am afraid this guy is going to cost us.
Defending him might not be worth it.

Billsdaughter

(198 posts)
38. Al Gore lost
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 12:51 PM
Jun 4

Because of the Supreme Court and particularly Sandra Day Oconnor voting to stop the recount.

Hilary shot herself in the foot as per usual by: A. Her sense of entitlement to the presidency; B. Calling Trump supporters a basketful of deplorables. C. using a private server for official state business and D. On St. Patrick's Day 2007, lying at the NPC about being shot while deplaning in Kosovo.

It's up to the voters of Maine to decide what's acceptable behavior.

sop

(19,790 posts)
30. Some Democratic voters can't put aside their personal morality issues, believing candidates should be pure
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:52 AM
Jun 4

as the driven snow before they'll support them, no matter how disastrous the alternative will be. Republicans know this, and they consistently use Democrats' moral squeamishness to their advantage. It's not that we shouldn't care about Platner's failings as a man, it's that we urgently need to regain control of the Senate in order to effect change. Trump can do so much more damage over the next 31 months, we need to stop him. I'm tired of all this purity shit.

LisaL

(47,960 posts)
33. It seems like we would have a much easier time
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:02 AM
Jun 4

regaining the Senate if our candidate didn't have all these issues before he was even nominated.
But maybe it's just me.

orangecrush

(31,775 posts)
42. He did four combat tours
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 08:08 PM
Jun 4

Count them. 4

And is still alive.

His judgement in matters of life and death is apparently pretty good.

Not a bone spur in his body.

The people I hate are spending beaucoup bucks to stop this guy.

That tells me all I need to know.

orangecrush

(31,775 posts)
48. For 4 tours
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:44 PM
Jun 4

And he never was accused of cowardice.

They sent him back for more 3 times.

Apparently they were quite pleased with his performance.

RoeVWade

(963 posts)
51. Even the Lord allows sin -- the point is more continued behavior, no actual remdemption, no effort to change.
Sat Jun 13, 2026, 08:28 AM
Saturday

And I'm an atheist sometimes agnostic.

LSparkle

(12,252 posts)
52. Do we believe in redemption ... or not?
Sat Jun 13, 2026, 09:01 AM
Saturday

Platner isn’t perfect. He admits that and he claims he has changed. You can believe him or not. His wife says she does.

The question is whether the rest of us Dems believe a person can change. Those who may not believe have probably never experienced redemption nor sought it.

It looks to me like Platner has shown contrition and acknowledged his failings. Now it’s up to the voters of Maine to forgive him ... or not.

jimmy the one

(2,853 posts)
53. Plus plead the 5th amendment over 400 times
Sat Jun 13, 2026, 11:42 AM
Saturday

.. after proclaiming, paraphrased: why would anyone plead the fifth if they have nothing to hide?
These pleadings I believe were in civil cases.
He mostly if not always declined to testify in his criminal cases.
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not an ego, jimmy the one a British naval term

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