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MarineCombatEngineer

(18,176 posts)
Sat May 16, 2026, 10:18 PM 18 hrs ago

Ok, so last post in GD for awhile,

we've decided on a wedding day, it'll be July 4th at 2:pm in Phoenix, AZ., everyone in my extended family will be attending.
Thank you DU for your support in this changing of my life.

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Ok, so last post in GD for awhile, (Original Post) MarineCombatEngineer 18 hrs ago OP
Congratulations MCE MustLoveBeagles 18 hrs ago #1
Good for you both MCE! Hey Joe 18 hrs ago #2
congrats mr715 18 hrs ago #3
Best wishes to you both! biophile 18 hrs ago #4
Congrats to an old Vietnam vet! kentuck 18 hrs ago #5
How nice Figarosmom 18 hrs ago #6
Congratulations!! dalton99a 18 hrs ago #7
Best wishes! Hope22 18 hrs ago #8
Congrats and best of luck! Semper Fi! nt Wounded Bear 18 hrs ago #9
Congrats!! Best of luck to both of you!! paleotn 18 hrs ago #10
Congrats Lifeafter70 18 hrs ago #11
Bride insists I wear my Dress Blues and have taken them to a Tailor for "adjustments". MarineCombatEngineer 18 hrs ago #13
Do it! Doesn't she deserve to see you at your most handsome? calimary 17 hrs ago #17
Nice Lifeafter70 17 hrs ago #24
Do It! USMC Dress Blues are the finest. yellowdogintexas 16 hrs ago #30
Face facts, old man....we ALLLLLLL need "adjustments" to our attire as time goes on. AZ8theist 16 hrs ago #32
Will you have a haircut that meets... 3catwoman3 11 hrs ago #41
Haircut and shave. MarineCombatEngineer 7 hrs ago #65
I figured as much. 3catwoman3 7 hrs ago #69
Thank you and your husband for your service. MarineCombatEngineer 4 hrs ago #78
A shave and a haircut. Two bits. erronis 6 hrs ago #71
Throwing this out there obamanut2012 6 hrs ago #72
Wonderful news! Let it be a glorious, memorable and happy day for both of you FakeNoose 18 hrs ago #12
Congratulations, MarineCombatEngineer.. Permanut 18 hrs ago #14
Congratulations sinkingfeeling 17 hrs ago #15
Congratulations Arthur_Frain 17 hrs ago #16
I hope you live happily ever, dear MCE UpInArms 17 hrs ago #18
Congratulations! LoisB 17 hrs ago #19
Wonderful news, MCE. sheshe2 17 hrs ago #20
Lovely to hear your good news, MCE! summer_in_TX 17 hrs ago #21
Best wishes to both of you! Nt spooky3 17 hrs ago #22
Congratulations and Godspeed orangecrush 17 hrs ago #23
So fabulous! hamsterjill 17 hrs ago #25
Amazing how good things just walk into your life BeneteauBum 17 hrs ago #26
Uh-Ra - and Congrats haele 17 hrs ago #27
Well done you! canetoad 17 hrs ago #28
Hey everyone at DU - WE ARE ALL INVITED!!! Marie Marie 16 hrs ago #29
Great to hear IbogaProject 16 hrs ago #31
Congratulations MCE! mountain grammy 16 hrs ago #33
I'm so very happy for you! fierywoman 16 hrs ago #34
So Happy for you and your Bride Cha 16 hrs ago #35
Congratulations to you both!! :) TBF 16 hrs ago #36
Congratulations!!! FullySupportDems 16 hrs ago #37
Mazel Tov! irisblue 15 hrs ago #38
Congratulations, MarineCombatEngineer! HeartsCanHope 13 hrs ago #39
K&R jfz9580m 12 hrs ago #40
Congrats MCE!!!! sdfernando 10 hrs ago #42
Awwwwwwww. CONGRATULATIONS !!! BumRushDaShow 10 hrs ago #43
Congratulations MCE gademocrat7 10 hrs ago #44
Congratulations! Wishing you a lifetime of love 10 Turtle Day 10 hrs ago #45
Congratulations!!! PCIntern 10 hrs ago #46
Best wishes to you! murielm99 9 hrs ago #47
Congrats! Kaleva 9 hrs ago #48
Yay you!!! Delphinus 9 hrs ago #49
Here's wishing you lots of happiness malaise 9 hrs ago #50
So happy for your MCE! You deserve the best in life! Irish_Dem 9 hrs ago #51
On to the next chapter of your life democrank 9 hrs ago #52
Congrats! OldBaldy1701E 8 hrs ago #53
Best wishes ! surfered 8 hrs ago #54
Awright! Congrats. Norrrm 8 hrs ago #55
Wishing you and your lady all the very, very best. And thank you both niyad 8 hrs ago #56
There is no greater privilege than to share in love. NNadir 8 hrs ago #57
Congratulations. debm55 8 hrs ago #58
Congratulations, MCE! WinstonSmith4740 8 hrs ago #59
Congratulations! FemDemERA 8 hrs ago #60
K&R spanone 8 hrs ago #61
Congratulations, and Many Fireworks! ColoringFool 8 hrs ago #62
Hope your marriage lasts longer than your Marine career did. KS Toronado 8 hrs ago #63
Wishing you many years of love and happiness radical noodle 7 hrs ago #64
Congratulations 🎉 oasis 7 hrs ago #66
Congratulations!!! CaptainTruth 7 hrs ago #67
Mazel tov! malthaussen 7 hrs ago #68
Congratulations and best wishes! yardwork 6 hrs ago #70
Congratz MCE! I wish you a wonderful wedding and marriage, a life of deep connection and unwavering support. Celerity 6 hrs ago #73
Congratulations! Nixie 6 hrs ago #74
Kudos! peppertree 5 hrs ago #75
Congratulations 🎈 underpants 5 hrs ago #76
Congratulations ❣️ live love laugh 5 hrs ago #77
I'm over the moon happy for you! 💜 1WorldHope 3 hrs ago #79
Awwwwwww, sounds absolutely LOVE-ly!!! calimary 3 hrs ago #80
Congratulations! I took this lesson from Ben Franklin and so far it has worked: Keep your eyes wide open before Exp 3 hrs ago #81
all the best to you! markie 2 hrs ago #82

calimary

(90,747 posts)
17. Do it! Doesn't she deserve to see you at your most handsome?
Sat May 16, 2026, 10:59 PM
17 hrs ago

Your Dress Blues will contribute to that, quite mightily!

yellowdogintexas

(23,756 posts)
30. Do It! USMC Dress Blues are the finest.
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:04 AM
16 hrs ago

The photos will be amazing

Congratulations! I am going out to Phoenix, but not until August. Otherwise I would crash the ceremony


AZ8theist

(7,620 posts)
32. Face facts, old man....we ALLLLLLL need "adjustments" to our attire as time goes on.
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:14 AM
16 hrs ago

Unfortunately, my adjustments only seem to go in one direction, and it ain't inward!!

Seriously, CONGRATULATIONS on your big event!! Best wishes from a fellow Zoni!

3catwoman3

(29,779 posts)
41. Will you have a haircut that meets...
Sun May 17, 2026, 05:14 AM
11 hrs ago

…reg 1020.34H standards? (I had to look up what the Marine equivalent to Air Force reg 3510 is, so blame Google and AI if don’t have the proper numbers.)

MarineCombatEngineer

(18,176 posts)
65. Haircut and shave.
Sun May 17, 2026, 09:04 AM
7 hrs ago

If I'm going to wear my Dress Blues, then I'll definitely need to represent the uniform and service properly.

3catwoman3

(29,779 posts)
69. I figured as much.
Sun May 17, 2026, 09:53 AM
7 hrs ago

In a television series I have followed, the main male character is a retired Marine who is the proprietor of a bar, and has long shaggy hair. In the final episode of the latest season, he finally marries the female lead while wearing his dress blues but with long hair hanging over his ears and his collar. It looked terrible and really ruined the story line. I figured none of the writers had ever been in the military or they would have known better.

Regardless of branch, specialty, or length of service, I think there is a bond amongst those of us who have served. There are things we understand that those who have not do not.

My husband and I met while in the Air Force - I was a peds nurse practitioner in the nurse corps, he was a pilot. We were next-door neighbors in the BOQ at Yokota AB in Japan. My husband did the full 20. I was active duty for 4, and a reservist for 8. We got married in 1982.

I always enjoy reading your posts, especially the recent ones about your granddaughter and about your new romance, and I’m sure you’ll look like a million bucks on July 4th.

How long were you in?

erronis

(24,502 posts)
71. A shave and a haircut. Two bits.
Sun May 17, 2026, 10:11 AM
6 hrs ago
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shave_and_a_Haircut

Used to get my haircut in the Pentagon. Sit down, shut up, clipped and done. $3 and about 5 minutes. Perfection.

Permanut

(8,564 posts)
14. Congratulations, MarineCombatEngineer..
Sat May 16, 2026, 10:55 PM
18 hrs ago

From another old vet. Married 39 years and I highly recommend it.

summer_in_TX

(4,263 posts)
21. Lovely to hear your good news, MCE!
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:17 PM
17 hrs ago

Gave me quite the lift to read it.

Much happiness to you both!

haele

(15,591 posts)
27. Uh-Ra - and Congrats
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:49 PM
17 hrs ago

Y'know, some venues will stream it online...may this be a long and happy pairing.

canetoad

(21,004 posts)
28. Well done you!
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:52 PM
17 hrs ago

All the best for the future to both yourself and your future wife. Thrilled for both of you.

Marie Marie

(11,507 posts)
29. Hey everyone at DU - WE ARE ALL INVITED!!!
Sat May 16, 2026, 11:56 PM
16 hrs ago

After all, I like to think we are all extended family to one another.

Congrats, have a beautiful wedding day and a happy ever after.

Cha

(320,502 posts)
35. So Happy for you and your Bride
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:25 AM
16 hrs ago

to be, Dan! In lieu of Champagne

Bon Voyage~💙 ☮️🌻 🕯️🕊️💜

FullySupportDems

(488 posts)
37. Congratulations!!!
Sun May 17, 2026, 12:37 AM
16 hrs ago

What a neat date for an anniversary, you won't forget it! Much happiness to you both

jfz9580m

(17,878 posts)
40. K&R
Sun May 17, 2026, 04:19 AM
12 hrs ago

I thought of you yesterday MCE. My best to your granddaughter.
Have not seen BossHog in a whole. He and AviationPro are the two military people I have seen around.

I am from a service family myself (not American but regardless). Have a soft spot for the services.

I wish you both all the very best.

BumRushDaShow

(172,159 posts)
43. Awwwwwwww. CONGRATULATIONS !!!
Sun May 17, 2026, 06:00 AM
10 hrs ago

I know you can't wait for the big day and wishing you and your SO the best of luck.

10 Turtle Day

(1,309 posts)
45. Congratulations! Wishing you a lifetime of love
Sun May 17, 2026, 06:46 AM
10 hrs ago

My dad was a marine and so incredibly handsome in his dress blues. Like a movie star. And you will be as well!

niyad

(133,993 posts)
56. Wishing you and your lady all the very, very best. And thank you both
Sun May 17, 2026, 08:14 AM
8 hrs ago

for giving me something wonderful to celebrate that day.

NNadir

(38,530 posts)
57. There is no greater privilege than to share in love.
Sun May 17, 2026, 08:26 AM
8 hrs ago

I wish you and your beloved all the joy of the beautiful things made more beautiful when shared, and all the power of overcoming life's setbacks together in the strength that only love can carry.

Congratulations!

Celerity

(54,845 posts)
73. Congratz MCE! I wish you a wonderful wedding and marriage, a life of deep connection and unwavering support.
Sun May 17, 2026, 10:32 AM
6 hrs ago

peppertree

(23,451 posts)
75. Kudos!
Sun May 17, 2026, 11:00 AM
5 hrs ago

As my wedding gift to you, let me please suggest you move the date up a week to Saturday June 27th - for astrological reasons.

As Biden would say: No joke! My parents made the mistake of not consulting an astrologer for their wedding date. They picked a bad day - and sure enough, it has not turned out well (though they're still together after 51 years!).

Please consider the change. If a week is too drastic, at least consider Sunday July 5th (or Saturday July 11th).

Either way, I wish you both All the Best!

Exp

(1,025 posts)
81. Congratulations! I took this lesson from Ben Franklin and so far it has worked: Keep your eyes wide open before
Sun May 17, 2026, 01:54 PM
3 hrs ago

marriage, half shut afterwards.

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