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Sun Feb 22, 2026, 12:51 PM 16 hrs ago

Domestic Violence: The Victims Who Fought Back -- ProPublica

https://www.propublica.org/article/oklahoma-survivors-act-domestic-violence
Pamela Colloff



Lisa Rae Moss -- serving a life sentence for her involvement in the 1990 murder of her husband, Mike Moss -- sat in the witness box in a courtroom in Seminole, Oklahoma, on a frigid January morning in 2025, her hands knotted in her lap. Moss, who is 60, was asked to recount what she endured in her 20s, during her marriage to a volatile man a dozen years her senior. Her long silver hair and prison-issued glasses accentuated the years between her and the younger self she was describing.

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"He had a gun that usually lay on top of the chest of drawers at night," Moss said quietly. She explained that her husband would place it there before they went to bed.

"There were a number of occasions where he took the gun -- and I wasn't in the mood to have sex and I didn't want to have sex -- and he would move the gun up and down my inner thigh and then lay it on the pillow next to the bed." She stopped to correct herself: "Next to my head, I'm sorry."

Under her lawyer's questioning, Moss described a pattern of abuse that began six months after their wedding, when her husband grabbed her by the throat and threw her against the fireplace. She recalled how, during an argument, he tried to shove a tennis ball into her mouth. How she was knocked unconscious when he once slammed her head against their refrigerator so hard that it left a dent. How he repeatedly punched her in the stomach when she was pregnant with their son. How he raped her multiple times, once with a curling iron -- an assault that caused lasting injuries. "I bled every day for five years until I finally had a hysterectomy," she said. When her 4-year-old daughter from a previous marriage complained that Mike had done something to make her bottom hurt, Moss feared he was sexually abusing her little girl, too.

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Her testimony put her at the center of an extraordinary legal experiment unfolding in Oklahoma, where a new state law, the Oklahoma Survivors' Act, passed in 2024, offers prisoners like her a chance at freedom. Under the law, a domestic-violence victim who is serving time can petition for a reduced sentence, which the law mandates if a judge decides that the abuse she endured was a "substantial contributing factor" to her crime.

Moss was the first to get her day in court and test whether the law could deliver on its promise. Unlike most other defendants in cases the statute was intended to remedy, Moss did not carry out the violence herself. She was not present when her older brother, Richard Wright, shot her husband. But at her 1990 trial, prosecutors argued that she had solicited and helped orchestrate the killing, introducing testimony that she once asked an acquaintance to "get rid of" her husband in exchange for an initial payment of $500. She was convicted of first-degree murder and lesser charges and was sentenced to life without the possibility of parole. (Her brother is currently serving a life sentence without the possibility of parole.)

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