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Randomthought

(992 posts) Tue Dec 16, 2025, 11:35 PM Dec 16

My husband's friend disappeared

My husband goes to L A Fitness everyday to workout. He is friendly with two other men, one a man of his age, mid 70ties , both white. The third man is Latino , youger than my husband and his friend,and has been missing for a couple of days. The other mann actually called 911 looking for their friend with no info. We live in Minneapolis so ICEe is around.
It maybe nothing but my husband is worried. Any suggestions?

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My husband's friend disappeared (Original Post) Randomthought Dec 16 OP

Maybe ask gym admin to call his home to inquire whether he is ok? SheltieLover Dec 17 #1

Call your congress critter's office. They have contact phone numbers that you and I don't. 3Hotdogs Dec 17 #2

My congressional rep says always call her office ASAP if someone disappears. Amaryllis Dec 17 #11

Sending good vibes and hoping he is well. ❤️ MLAA Dec 17 #3

If they have his home address, they can call the police for a welfare check JMCKUSICK Dec 17 #4

I hope everything turns out ok! electric_blue68 Dec 17 #5

He might be laying low. JohnnyRingo Dec 17 #6

I hope this is the answer. murielm99 Dec 17 #7

Could be ICE fujiyamasan Dec 17 #8

Please keep us updated if you can. calimary Dec 17 #9

Mid 70's...could have had a sudden health issue Melon Dec 17 #10

SheltieLover

(76,914 posts)

1. Maybe ask gym admin to call his home to inquire whether he is ok?

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 12:20 AM

Dec 17

3Hotdogs

(15,040 posts)

2. Call your congress critter's office. They have contact phone numbers that you and I don't.

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 12:25 AM

Dec 17

Is there a local immigration support group that doesn't support ICE?

Local newspaper might have reporters that have inside information,

Amaryllis

(10,987 posts)

11. My congressional rep says always call her office ASAP if someone disappears.

Reply to 3Hotdogs (Reply #2)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 11:32 PM

Dec 17

MLAA

(19,670 posts)

3. Sending good vibes and hoping he is well. ❤️

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 12:34 AM

Dec 17

JMCKUSICK

(5,156 posts)

4. If they have his home address, they can call the police for a welfare check

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 12:34 AM

Dec 17

best of luck

electric_blue68

(25,961 posts)

5. I hope everything turns out ok!

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 12:39 AM

Dec 17

JohnnyRingo

(20,515 posts)

6. He might be laying low.

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 12:49 AM

Dec 17

I know a couple people who dropped out of sight.

ICE seems to like staking out shopping plazas.

murielm99

(32,704 posts)

7. I hope this is the answer.

Reply to JohnnyRingo (Reply #6)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 01:27 AM

Dec 17

fujiyamasan

(1,234 posts)

8. Could be ICE

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 01:42 AM

Dec 17

Does that person have family in the area? Does your husband know them? Is his residency status known?

Aside from the usual sleuthing (finding contacts, last whereabouts), there’s electronic records (credit cards, text messages, social media, etc). Something may give a clue. Maybe he is laying low. Maybe he has been detained. It’s impossible to say.

Good luck.

calimary

(89,057 posts)

9. Please keep us updated if you can.

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 02:20 AM

Dec 17

SHEESH!!! As if we all don’t already have enough to worry about…

Melon

(1,103 posts)

10. Mid 70's...could have had a sudden health issue

Reply to Randomthought (Original post)

Wed Dec 17, 2025, 03:21 AM

Dec 17

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