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Miles Archer

(21,808 posts)
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 08:53 AM Dec 13

INTERESTING REACTION from MELANIA as Trump cites "wives who would not cry" if they thought they'd lose their husband

Aaron Rupar
@atrupar
Melania is absolutely stone faced as Trump talks about how sad Steve Scalise's wife when he was shot but he "knows many wives who would not even be crying"




Trump on Thursday complimented the wife of Rep. Steve Scalise (R-La.) for crying when the lawmaker was in critical condition after being shot in 2017, and claimed to know many spouses who would react differently. (Watch the video below.)

The remark seemed off under any circumstance, but at the White House’s Congressional Ball, it was downright weird.

Trump was completing shoutouts to prominent Republicans when he turned to Scalise, who survived the shooting at a congressional softball game practice and is now in his ninth term in the House.

“I went to the hospital and they actually thought he wasn’t going to make it,” Trump said. “His wife was devastated. She was crying. I tell the story. I found out that night you have a wife that loves you dearly. I know many wives who would not even be crying.”

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/donald-trump-steve-scalise-wife-crying-wives_n_693c0ccae4b07bcd2542dcd8?origin=home-zone-d-unit
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INTERESTING REACTION from MELANIA as Trump cites "wives who would not cry" if they thought they'd lose their husband (Original Post) Miles Archer Dec 13 OP
Dressed for a funeral The First Escort looks miserable. NoMoreRepugs Dec 13 #1
She reminds me of Demerzel, the cold and calculating robot character from Asimov's "Foundation" QueerDuck Dec 13 #6
Trump should know about not crying at funerals. no_hypocrisy Dec 13 #2
i don't think the man has shed a tear barbtries Dec 13 #15
I imagine he's cried in rage a few times in his life, for himself of course. Maru Kitteh Dec 13 #25
Trump has funerals on the mind... Happy Hoosier Dec 13 #3
She is actually very scary and evil looking. PittBlue Dec 13 #4
Many years of putting up with Trump's bullying oasis Dec 13 #7
Melania is homegirl Dec 13 #17
I'm going with plastic surgery MaraLago face. The evil has always been there. Maru Kitteh Dec 13 #24
Botoxed Ritabert Dec 13 #8
I could swear he's used that line before. A few years ago? tanyev Dec 13 #5
I have the same recollection but don't remember the context AZJonnie Dec 13 #9
Found it. October 2019. Also about Steve Scalise's wife. tanyev Dec 13 #22
Trump has a frozen, cold 'heart"--it comes with his so-called 'brain'. riversedge Dec 13 #10
Gotta love it, when a mortal enemy says WAY too much. (nt) Paladin Dec 13 #11
Melania llmart Dec 13 #12
Trump's gilded Nazi eagle lectern needs a Swastika. sop Dec 13 #13
ugh. his voice. barbtries Dec 13 #14
He's basically a terrible standup comic measuring the audience Miles Archer Dec 13 #16
I actually understand her loathing of the orange ass. LaRaven Dec 13 #18
She's just lost in thought about the pool boy again. n/t flvegan Dec 13 #19
If she plays her cards right... Orrex Dec 13 #20
Melanoma is a POS just like her "husband in name only" - they deserve each other. n/t iluvtennis Dec 13 #21
Some trophy wives don't work out per Donald Trump. travelingthrulife Dec 13 #23
When it is HIS turn, Melania will breathe a momentary sigh of RELIEF ProudMNDemocrat Dec 13 #26

QueerDuck

(1,033 posts)
6. She reminds me of Demerzel, the cold and calculating robot character from Asimov's "Foundation"
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 09:16 AM
Dec 13






no_hypocrisy

(54,300 posts)
2. Trump should know about not crying at funerals.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 09:01 AM
Dec 13

When two of his casino executives died in a helicopter crash in 1989, Trump attended the funeral for Mark Grossinger Etess. Etess' brother broke down in tears while delivering the eulogy.

Trump remarked how he could never do what Estess' brother did. When pressed to clarify, Trump did just that: he said that he could never cry like that in public and "look like any asshole".

(Anecdote taken from the book Trumped! by John R. O'Donnell.)

Maru Kitteh

(31,255 posts)
25. I imagine he's cried in rage a few times in his life, for himself of course.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 01:09 PM
Dec 13

But genuine sadness borne of loss, of humanity? No way.

homegirl

(1,927 posts)
17. Melania is
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 11:39 AM
Dec 13

in place as Putin's "control" over Donald.Biggest Melania smile ever photographed was when she met Putin! Second, when she met Trudeau!!!

Maru Kitteh

(31,255 posts)
24. I'm going with plastic surgery MaraLago face. The evil has always been there.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 01:06 PM
Dec 13

Melania is a terrible human being, and she accomplished that independently, as a fully grown adult person.


tanyev

(48,672 posts)
5. I could swear he's used that line before. A few years ago?
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 09:16 AM
Dec 13

I don't have time to look for it now, but I remember a similar discussion about it being such a weirdly appropriate thing for him to say.

AZJonnie

(2,837 posts)
9. I have the same recollection but don't remember the context
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 10:06 AM
Dec 13

The fact that he knows his will not has definitely been on his mind for awhile. Awwww ... SAD!

tanyev

(48,672 posts)
22. Found it. October 2019. Also about Steve Scalise's wife.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 12:49 PM
Dec 13
Donald Trump Said That Melania Wouldn't Cry 'Her Eyes Out' If He Was in a Tragedy

By Adam Carlson Published on October 31, 2019 01:24PM ED

Speaking Tuesday at a Republican fundraiser, President Donald Trump reportedly cracked — kind of, sort of — that First Lady Melania Trump would not be overcome with grief if he was in a tragedy.

According to Politico, the president was referring to Rep. Steve Scalise, who was wounded in a mass shooting in 2017, when he said: “[Scalise’s spouse] cried her eyes out when I met her at the hospital that fateful day … I mean, not many wives would react that way to tragedy. I know mine wouldn’t.”

President Trump, 73, made the remark while speaking for about an hour at a fundraiser for Take Back the House 2020, the joint fundraising committee of House Minority Leader Kevin McCarthy, according to Politico, which described Trump as “unscripted, unfiltered and totally in his element.”

https://people.com/politics/donald-trump-melania-wouldnt-cry-if-i-was-shot/


Guess he’s just recycling his greatest hits now.

llmart

(17,326 posts)
12. Melania
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 10:16 AM
Dec 13

When isn't she stone faced? (I know, when Trudeau is around, but I mean in general.)

barbtries

(31,134 posts)
14. ugh. his voice.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 11:24 AM
Dec 13

but almost as bad is the crowd giggling and cooing like automatons. melania's reaction is more honest.

we're getting really close to the shithole designation

Miles Archer

(21,808 posts)
16. He's basically a terrible standup comic measuring the audience
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 11:33 AM
Dec 13

He's reaching back to what worked in his first term MAGAt rallies.

The jaw, moving side to side, gripping the lectern, the smirk.

And yeah, that sing-song voice.

I can no longer listen to him...not even for a few seconds.

LaRaven

(226 posts)
18. I actually understand her loathing of the orange ass.
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 11:43 AM
Dec 13

He’s such an ass! He’s humiliated her with the Stormy situation in the public eye. It was apparent she was relived when his first term was over. It was clear she wanted none of it.

And when he decided to run again, she likely had to postpone divorce or other separation agreements. She has been as unsupportive as she can be. I’d want $$ for being his public escort as well.

And now the Epstein stuff is coming to light and she’s implicated as well.

She knows his background and his addictions. She may be relieved to know his days are numbered —and may not be crying when he’s gone.

I’m trying not to defend her (she made her bed) —but I won’t be crying either for the final exit of this utter disaster of a human being.

ProudMNDemocrat

(20,628 posts)
26. When it is HIS turn, Melania will breathe a momentary sigh of RELIEF
Sat Dec 13, 2025, 01:55 PM
Dec 13

The WIZARD has passed on and she couldn't be happier.

But of course, she will shed crocodile tears as the FAKE platitudes are paid to her LYING SACK OF SHIT that was her husband.

Just my 2 cents worth.

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