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Shipwack

(2,952 posts)
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:24 PM Thursday

Gov Newsome triangulating again.

Gov. Gavin Newsom (D-Calif.) thinks Democrats need to rein in some of their cultural politics if they want to win over more voters.

“I think there’s a broader narrative that we ought to address,” Newsom said Wednesday at The New York Times’ DealBook Summit. “We have to be more culturally normal. We have to be a little less judgmental.”

The California governor didn’t spell out what he meant by “culturally normal,” but he has recently been a critic of what he calls “woke culture.”


I guess he feels the need to move toward the “center” again to stay relevant…

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/gavin-newsom-tells-democrats-culturally-normal_n_6931dfa1e4b0824b6df8a368
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Gov Newsome triangulating again. (Original Post) Shipwack Thursday OP
WTF is "culturally normal?" leftstreet Thursday #1
I would say this is a great example of what he's talking about. Nixie Yesterday #14
Code for "don't talk about trans or non-binary rights"? LudwigPastorius Yesterday #15
rich White male "christian" LuvLoogie 15 hrs ago #82
I think he's saying we need better messaging to get our values out..more on point Deuxcents Thursday #2
Can't say at this point whether that's right or wrong AS FAR AS winning some states we need in 2028. I hate Silent Type Thursday #3
He's swinging to the center way too soon Blasphemer Thursday #4
2026 comes first. maxsolomon 18 hrs ago #64
Ok. What is culturally normal? Raven123 Thursday #5
You know what it is. maxsolomon 18 hrs ago #65
The implication of Newsom's other sentences is "it's anti-immigration" muriel_volestrangler 18 hrs ago #68
First, please spell his name right. usonian Thursday #6
What is "wildly" successful? awesomerwb1 20 hrs ago #44
Bernie Sanders Packed an Arena in ... Utah usonian 20 hrs ago #46
That's great awesomerwb1 20 hrs ago #48
You have to ask them. usonian 20 hrs ago #50
It would be interesting data to have awesomerwb1 19 hrs ago #54
I caught some videos of the tour, and people said they were flipping. usonian 18 hrs ago #63
"Proof"? awesomerwb1 18 hrs ago #66
I see his point Justice Brandeis Thursday #7
Exactly the point. We don't have to shove people's noses Bluetus Thursday #8
Most of those things aren't even popular among Democrats gulliver Yesterday #11
. WhiskeyGrinder 22 hrs ago #28
It's part of health care. It doesn't have to be called out as a special issue. Fix healthcare for everyone, incl trans beaglelover 16 hrs ago #74
When Republicans object to trans health care, should Democrats defend it, or fold because it's a niche cultural issue? WhiskeyGrinder 16 hrs ago #79
They can just say trans health care is included in our health care plans. No need to dwell on it. beaglelover 15 hrs ago #80
A lot of those things are exaggerated by the right wing JI7 Yesterday #13
I don't see data on those who don't vote, they're going after swing voters which are expensive iirc uponit7771 Yesterday #16
I can't think of a single Democrat who doesn't use pronouns. WhiskeyGrinder 22 hrs ago #26
I'm a Democrat. I don't have my pronouns in my work signature. maxsolomon 18 hrs ago #69
Well stated. Sounds like Sunday morning at my church. LAS14 19 hrs ago #53
When the right wants to strip trans people of rights, if not outright physically harm them TheProle 14 hrs ago #94
N E W S O M Skittles Thursday #9
*WE* have to be less judgmental??? Skittles Thursday #10
Being judgemental isn't the problem LuvLoogie 15 hrs ago #83
We have to do whatever we need to win JI7 Yesterday #12
His surname is spelled Newsom Niagara Yesterday #17
I applaud the OP for posting the Huff Post article in GD muriel_volestrangler Yesterday #18
There's sources posted here that are not reliable at all Niagara 23 hrs ago #20
I don't see that the bit you added before excuses what he said muriel_volestrangler 22 hrs ago #21
Oh, only RW'ers are judgemental on issues? Niagara 22 hrs ago #24
In the grand scheme of things, yes, only Republican politicians are judgmental. muriel_volestrangler 22 hrs ago #25
We are judgmental of Nazis and fascists, nothing wrong with that. They are judgmental of non whites- big problem Blues Heron 22 hrs ago #29
Presidents Obama and Clinton triangulated. President Biden did not. Jose Garcia 23 hrs ago #19
Biden stepped down after being hounded out by Clooney et al Blues Heron 21 hrs ago #32
And a litany of party leaders. BannonsLiver 21 hrs ago #38
Et al Blues Heron 21 hrs ago #39
He was on his way to a lanndslide loss Jose Garcia 21 hrs ago #41
He would have won -he's the only one to defeat Trump. Giving up incumbency was highly stupid. Blues Heron 21 hrs ago #42
After that idiot took a pot shot at MFer, the die was cast. maxsolomon 16 hrs ago #75
Dems need to find 80/20 issues they can hammer on GreatGazoo 22 hrs ago #22
All my lefty family members are tired of the pronoun thing mainer 22 hrs ago #23
Which Democratic candidates were demanding that? muriel_volestrangler 22 hrs ago #27
I'm not referring to particular candidates mainer 20 hrs ago #43
So this is not about Democrats, ie what Newsom was talking about. muriel_volestrangler 20 hrs ago #47
... BannonsLiver 21 hrs ago #35
Culturally normal another way to say the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few?? NoMoreRepugs 22 hrs ago #30
Post removed Post removed 21 hrs ago #31
He's not wrong. BannonsLiver 21 hrs ago #33
So is he pushing a purity test for the party? Emile 21 hrs ago #34
The opposite, actually. BannonsLiver 21 hrs ago #36
LOL, I don't think so! Emile 21 hrs ago #37
If you say so. BannonsLiver 21 hrs ago #40
I know exactly what you're referring to. maxsolomon 18 hrs ago #70
It's verboten to discuss but you are of course correct. BannonsLiver 15 hrs ago #87
He's saying to drop the purity tests. Nixie 20 hrs ago #45
I guess it depends on which side of the political spectrum Emile 20 hrs ago #49
He's definitely not on the spectrum that alienates voters with Nixie 20 hrs ago #51
As I said, it depends on what side of the political spectrum your on. Emile 20 hrs ago #52
We've all seen enough of this insistence and labeling of Nixie 19 hrs ago #55
See my post #56. nt LAS14 19 hrs ago #57
Purity tests, on which side of the spectrum are you talking about? Emile 19 hrs ago #58
Centrist is really the obvious purity test. A way of smearing our candidates Nixie 19 hrs ago #60
Then if centrist is a smear, why do some politicians call themselves centrist? Emile 19 hrs ago #61
The purity test smear is obviously that being normal, as in not being Nixie 17 hrs ago #71
Are you saying , if you are not a centrist, you are fringe? Emile 17 hrs ago #73
Denying there is a political middle isn't "progressive." Nixie 14 hrs ago #93
You still haven't answered my two questions. Emile 14 hrs ago #95
I doubt you need my answers to any of your distractions to Nixie 12 hrs ago #97
You just described a purity test! Thank you! Emile 12 hrs ago #98
Your contrived set up was the purity test. Just run a candidate because Nixie 11 hrs ago #99
You do know there are 6 wings to the democratic party? Emile 11 hrs ago #100
Oh Nixie 11 hrs ago #101
Just being literal. Emile 11 hrs ago #102
Centrist/establishment/status quo/corporate Dems: anti-progressive, corrupt, elite Them. Us: Righteous victims. betsuni 17 hrs ago #72
Curiosity here - not trying to make a point. LAS14 19 hrs ago #56
I think Democrats should make your point - that public Democrats are not leading with those issues muriel_volestrangler 18 hrs ago #67
Gov. Newsom has been left behind in his judgement of what's "Culturally Normal" justaprogressive 19 hrs ago #59
He's buying into RW framing again MustLoveBeagles 18 hrs ago #62
He was doing well, now I'm not impressed. Emile 14 hrs ago #89
I'm not either MustLoveBeagles 14 hrs ago #90
Alienating part of the party is not going to win elections. Emile 14 hrs ago #91
No it isn't MustLoveBeagles 14 hrs ago #92
We lead with tolerance bucolic_frolic 16 hrs ago #76
Focusing on the wrong things all the time. BlueTsunami2018 16 hrs ago #77
Would that also be the response when a member of that community asks one of our politicians how they feel about them? BannonsLiver 15 hrs ago #81
If you think he's staking out territory well, what do you think his answer would be muriel_volestrangler 15 hrs ago #84
He answered that in his podcast some were pressed about in March. BannonsLiver 15 hrs ago #85
Give me a link muriel_volestrangler 15 hrs ago #86
Newsom, no 'e'. RandySF 16 hrs ago #78
very telling it has not been fixed Skittles 14 hrs ago #88
Telling, or maybe I've been busy? Shipwack 11 min ago #108
I, for one, will never vote for him in the primary if he runs. demmiblue 13 hrs ago #96
Let's see... MorbidButterflyTat 11 hrs ago #103
But they work really hard on it, like washing machines. betsuni 10 hrs ago #105
+1, yes, so desperate to continue the coveted victimization Nixie 9 hrs ago #106
What are the rules to being more culturally normal? Emile 11 hrs ago #104
To me The Bopper 7 hrs ago #107
OP here. I deeply regret spelling the governor's name wrong. Shipwack 7 min ago #109

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
14. I would say this is a great example of what he's talking about.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 01:32 AM
Yesterday

Centrist is a fringe idea of some kind of slur against normal people.

Silent Type

(12,269 posts)
3. Can't say at this point whether that's right or wrong AS FAR AS winning some states we need in 2028. I hate
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:49 PM
Thursday

we are in the position that some candidates— not just Newsom — believe the same thing. It’s sad, but plenty of election postmortems said the same.

There are places like NYC who will laugh at his “woke” awakening, but other places where it might make a 5% difference over next few years.

Blasphemer

(3,559 posts)
4. He's swinging to the center way too soon
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:53 PM
Thursday

IF we have elections in 2028, the GOP will be in tatars. It will be like 2008 (if not worse) for them. I'd hold off on making presumptions about what messaging will work 3 years from now. I suspect Dems will have great leeway in the kind of platform that can be successful.

maxsolomon

(38,011 posts)
64. 2026 comes first.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:32 PM
18 hrs ago

You don't take a seat from a Repuke incumbent by running to the left of left.

Obama didn't win by running as far left as possible. He won with charisma and unifying, aspirational rhetoric.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
68. The implication of Newsom's other sentences is "it's anti-immigration"
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:49 PM
18 hrs ago

See the longer quote in #17. Is that what "we all know what it is"? I hope not.

I really don't think that we all know what it is. I think it's deliberately vague.

usonian

(22,881 posts)
6. First, please spell his name right.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:02 PM
Thursday

Second, I have been watching the wildly successful anti-oligarchy tour by Bernie and AOC.

It's not the cyclical economy, it's the concentration of over 90% of wealth in America by a few people.

And that's on the marquee.

At each rally issues of rights always come up and are well-received, even in red states.

The GOP is very much into what-about-ism, distracting from the (pardon the expression) elephant in the room. Oligarchical ownership of this country, its business and politicians. Like so.



EYES OFF THE PRIZE.

EYES OFF EPSTEIN.

So, I would say that he is urging the party to lead with the one biggest issue, that causes economic hardship, and which gets the oligarchs to manage the discussion away from it by making elections all about IMPORTANT social and rights issues, but using them as triggers for rage, their political operating system.

When you play back a Bernie-AOC rally, you get the impression that they are attacking the prime cause as job one, and are still extremely strong on social and rights issues.

The point is to win, and then good things come with winning.
You can't change their nuked "hearts and minds" but you can win and pass legislation for the betterment of society.
At that point. "It's the law"

In an early post, I quoted Ibram X. Kendi.

https://democraticunderground.com/100216524810

This is from the epilogue of "Stamped From the Beginning", by Ibram X Kendi.

Protesting against racist power and succeeding can never be mistaken for seizing power. Any effective solution to eradicating American racism must involve Americans committed to antiracist policies seizing and maintaining power over institutions, neighborhoods, counties, states, nations—the world. It makes no sense to sit back and put the future in the hands of people committed to racist policies, or people who regularly sail with the wind of self-interest, toward racism today, toward antiracism tomorrow. An antiracist America can only be guaranteed if principled antiracists are in power, and then antiracist policies become the law of the land, and then antiracist ideas become the common sense of the people, and then the antiracist common sense of the people holds those antiracist leaders and policies accountable.

And that day is sure to come. No power lasts forever. There will come a time when Americans will realize that the only thing wrong with Black people is that they think something is wrong with Black people. There will come a time when racist ideas will no longer obstruct us from seeing the complete and utter abnormality of racial disparities. There will come a time when we will love humanity, when we will gain the courage to fight for an equitable society for our beloved humanity, knowing , intelligently, that when we fight for humanity, we are fighting for ourselves. There will come a time. Maybe, just maybe, that time is now.


Lead with your strength, pound it in mercilessly, and good will come when you win.

Social betterment is the end, if not the means, in a corrosive environment.

Eyes on that prize. But you gotta win first. Got to get a little dirty to beat fascism and bigotry?
You bet.

EAT THE RICH
Watch "Specialty of the House" by Alfred Hitchcock Presents.
Spoiler article
https://thecannibalguy.com/2023/03/26/speciality-of-the-house/

Video here until taken down.
https://ok.ru/video/6896593865414

I tried NBC but nothing came up.
https://www.nbc.com/alfred-hitchcock-presents/video/the-specialty-of-the-house/9000245744

awesomerwb1

(4,953 posts)
44. What is "wildly" successful?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 10:48 AM
20 hrs ago

Are they bringing in new voters or just preaching to the choir?

As a centrist myself, center left, I would never vote for the right. But I know a few Bernie bro friends who voted for trump in 2016 (and possibly 2024) because they wanted to show the "establishment Dems".

usonian

(22,881 posts)
46. Bernie Sanders Packed an Arena in ... Utah
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 10:55 AM
20 hrs ago

The senator's Fighting Oligarchy tour alongside Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez is drawing massive crowds — even in red states

https://www.rollingstone.com/politics/politics-news/bernie-sanders-aoc-crowds-red-states-1235316890/

https://archive.ph/qOZ7S

Bernie and AOC strongly supported Joe Biden during his presidency and campaigned vigorously for Harris and Walz.

There are outliers in any distribution of voters, and I strongly discourage "whataboutism". It's the favorite tool of the GOP.

Think "Willie Horton"

awesomerwb1

(4,953 posts)
48. That's great
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:00 AM
20 hrs ago

But the Dems have voters in every state including Utah. My question remains, are there a good number of new voters in those crowds, or just Dems/Bernie/AOC voters.

awesomerwb1

(4,953 posts)
54. It would be interesting data to have
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:17 AM
19 hrs ago

Doesn't mean much if they're just preaching to the choir.

usonian

(22,881 posts)
63. I caught some videos of the tour, and people said they were flipping.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:29 PM
18 hrs ago

Bernie's not into fake interviews.

Of course, no statistics were taken.

Proof is in the voting, which has seen gains in red states.

Would like to see lots more.

awesomerwb1

(4,953 posts)
66. "Proof"?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:44 PM
18 hrs ago

So you're attributing these gains in red states to Bernie?
There are cults on both side I guess. Hi ignore feature. Click

Justice Brandeis

(405 posts)
7. I see his point
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:15 PM
Thursday

Many voters who would be willing to vote Democratic don't much care for pronouns, land acknowledgements and having to say "pregnant people".

It just doesn't play well with a lot of voters and it's not worth losing elections over.

Bluetus

(2,067 posts)
8. Exactly the point. We don't have to shove people's noses
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:34 PM
Thursday

in our cultural issues. A lot of Americans would be willing to go along with "live and let live". We do more harm than good when we demand that people embrace our favorite cultural causes, repeating our mantra on a word-by-word basis.

We need to learn how to take "yes" for an answer. Or more accurately, to take "I can live with that" as a victory.

gulliver

(13,680 posts)
11. Most of those things aren't even popular among Democrats
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:10 AM
Yesterday

We really need to pay attention to Democratic voices. These things are not core issues. These so-called cultural issues distract us from our core mission as Democrats. Newsom is right.

People need health care. People need education and good nutrition. The climate needs to be addressed. These fringe issues need to get exactly the attention they deserve based on one person, one voice, one vote. Not "extra" attention based on a minority of extra loud types trying to portray themselves as sweetie pies. Attention equal to their democratically valid priority within the party.

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,080 posts)
28. .
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:11 AM
22 hrs ago
People need health care. People need education and good nutrition. The climate needs to be addressed. These fringe issues need to get exactly the attention they deserve
So is trans health care a health care issue or a fringe issue?

beaglelover

(4,405 posts)
74. It's part of health care. It doesn't have to be called out as a special issue. Fix healthcare for everyone, incl trans
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:24 PM
16 hrs ago

WhiskeyGrinder

(26,080 posts)
79. When Republicans object to trans health care, should Democrats defend it, or fold because it's a niche cultural issue?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:58 PM
16 hrs ago

beaglelover

(4,405 posts)
80. They can just say trans health care is included in our health care plans. No need to dwell on it.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 03:15 PM
15 hrs ago

JI7

(93,048 posts)
13. A lot of those things are exaggerated by the right wing
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 01:25 AM
Yesterday

they also pick out the most exteme bizarre types on social media and many of these types don't even support Democrats but they make it seem as if that's the position or view of most Democrats.

I think what Newsom is doing is taking control of the narrative.

uponit7771

(93,446 posts)
16. I don't see data on those who don't vote, they're going after swing voters which are expensive iirc
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 06:23 AM
Yesterday

maxsolomon

(38,011 posts)
69. I'm a Democrat. I don't have my pronouns in my work signature.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:57 PM
18 hrs ago

And my workplace encourages us to do so.

But yes, I use pronouns all the time...

LAS14

(15,449 posts)
53. Well stated. Sounds like Sunday morning at my church.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:16 AM
19 hrs ago

One doesn't have to pick these issues out to lead with in order to vote or act on the right side when they come up. But my church leads with them. All three.

TheProle

(3,853 posts)
94. When the right wants to strip trans people of rights, if not outright physically harm them
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 05:01 PM
14 hrs ago

Silence on the D side is complicity

LuvLoogie

(8,431 posts)
83. Being judgemental isn't the problem
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 03:34 PM
15 hrs ago

It is civil society's weak commitment to justice

The abuse this regime is perpetrating upon those the woke would champion is being normalized.

Peak America. It's disgusting.

Niagara

(11,261 posts)
17. His surname is spelled Newsom
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 06:54 AM
Yesterday

If an OP wants to accuse him of triangulating while misspelling his name I can't take the OP seriously.

The HuffPost also is NOT a credible source of news.

https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/huffington-post/


These media sources are moderate to strongly biased toward liberal causes through story selection and/or political affiliation. They may utilize strong loaded words (wording that attempts to influence an audience by using appeal to emotion or stereotypes), publish misleading reports, and omit information reporting that may damage liberal causes. Some sources in this category may be untrustworthy.





I'm going to insert Newsom's entire statement so anyone else can't pick and choose what context they want to share or dissect.


“I mean, I — you know, we could talk about why Kamala lost, which is separate. I mean, it’s part derivative of the larger narrative, but issues around inflation scars. We don’t talk enough about interest rates. We didn’t talk about incumbency. Issues related, you just had Bibi on, related to Israeli politics. Immigration, the border in particular, you could talk about all those things, not just 107 days, not just talk about Biden’s determination or lack thereof in terms of passing the baton. But I think there’s a broader narrative that we ought to address. That is, we have to be more culturally normal. We have to be a little less judgmental. We have to be a party that understands the importance and power of the border substantively and politically.”



You know what else Newsom said at The New York Times DealBook Summit?


"I need to wake everybody up," Newsom said at The New York Times DealBook Summit. "This is the normalization of deviancy, and it was becoming socialized, normalized."




"Call someone the R-word or 'piggy' and somehow it's just Trump being Trump," Newsom went on. "There's nothing normal about this. He's a man-child. It's unbecoming of the President of the United States. He's dressed up as the pope. He's acting like he's Superman. This is not normal."



If “we don’t democratize our economy, we’re not going to save democracy,” Newsom said.




muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
18. I applaud the OP for posting the Huff Post article in GD
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 07:04 AM
Yesterday

and am amazed that anyone on DU could be annoyed enough by that to go to the bother of looking up a website's opinion on it.

"Liberal" is good, here.

Niagara

(11,261 posts)
20. There's sources posted here that are not reliable at all
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 07:17 AM
23 hrs ago

To me it's important to have reliable sources. It always has been. It's not annoyance, it's called facts.


What Newsom said was taken out of context. At least insert his entire statement.


It's not helpful to the Democratic party if people pick and chose what context they want to share. Then the RW go with those talking points.




muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
21. I don't see that the bit you added before excuses what he said
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 08:39 AM
22 hrs ago

Simply, it's the right wing that are judgmental (of minorities, immigrants, LGBT - especially trans). Newsom saying "we have to be a little less judgmental" is giving in to the lies of the right wing.

Niagara

(11,261 posts)
24. Oh, only RW'ers are judgemental on issues?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 08:59 AM
22 hrs ago

There's been zero Democratic/progressive/liberal supporters/voters that are judgemental af.


Got it.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
25. In the grand scheme of things, yes, only Republican politicians are judgmental.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:05 AM
22 hrs ago

If you extend it to supporters/voters, then Democratic supporters or voters may be judgmental, but Republican supporters/voters are racist, misogynist, insane and murderous - as well as judgmental. But when Newsom is talking about what "we" should do, he is obviously talking about what the Democratic party and its candidates should do.

I hope you do get it. Newsom's remark does not help. He's wrong on this. It is indeed triangulation - giving in to the right wing attempt to shift the American center towards the fascism of Trump and Trumpists.

Blues Heron

(8,149 posts)
29. We are judgmental of Nazis and fascists, nothing wrong with that. They are judgmental of non whites- big problem
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:13 AM
22 hrs ago

Jose Garcia

(3,399 posts)
19. Presidents Obama and Clinton triangulated. President Biden did not.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 07:17 AM
23 hrs ago

Clinton and Obama were elected to second terms. Biden was not.

Jose Garcia

(3,399 posts)
41. He was on his way to a lanndslide loss
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:44 AM
21 hrs ago

No President with approval ratings that low has ever been reelected.

Blues Heron

(8,149 posts)
42. He would have won -he's the only one to defeat Trump. Giving up incumbency was highly stupid.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:57 AM
21 hrs ago

The voting booth is very different than some push poll with an agenda.

maxsolomon

(38,011 posts)
75. After that idiot took a pot shot at MFer, the die was cast.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:29 PM
16 hrs ago

Harris could have been Jesus of Nazareth; it wouldn't have made a difference.

GreatGazoo

(4,355 posts)
22. Dems need to find 80/20 issues they can hammer on
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 08:51 AM
22 hrs ago

It sounds like Newsom is saying that he doesn't want to defend some of the issues the GOP has attacked (?)

What is needed IMHO is a steady pivot toward new offense. "Trump is Hitler" will hit its expiration date in 2028, if not sooner. What is needed is for Dems to find the 80/20 issues and framing that put the GOP on defense and then to ride those to victory.

mainer

(12,468 posts)
23. All my lefty family members are tired of the pronoun thing
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 08:52 AM
22 hrs ago

We include 2 lesbians, a Democratic socialist and two old baby boomers. The whole "get my pronouns right or else" thing broke us. My son the college teacher got chewed out for forgetting a student's preferred pronouns. This demand for left wing purity ends up castigating those who have the best intentions but make mistakes. I understand where Newsom's coming from.

mainer

(12,468 posts)
43. I'm not referring to particular candidates
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 10:41 AM
20 hrs ago

I'm talking about "the liberal purity test" and how we Democrats need to firmly shut down conversation about which candidate is pure enough to support. MAGA has used it against us, and it's stirred up anger because people feel beleaguered about having to adhere to such strict standards. Certainly it's a problem on college campuses where teachers like my son got called into the administrative offices because he refused to add his pronouns to his email signature.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
47. So this is not about Democrats, ie what Newsom was talking about.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 10:56 AM
20 hrs ago

It's about an administrator on that college campus. And if it's about that administrator, why call for censoring ourselves? What has "which candidate is pure enough to support" got to do with the administrator?

If MAGA spread lies when they "used it against us", then stand up to the lies - say "that's not 'us', that's an idiot administrator, and his name is X - the Republicans are lying that this is a Democratic policy". Don't fall for the Republican BS - fight against it.

NoMoreRepugs

(11,754 posts)
30. Culturally normal another way to say the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few??
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:13 AM
22 hrs ago

Response to Shipwack (Original post)

BannonsLiver

(20,170 posts)
40. If you say so.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 09:22 AM
21 hrs ago

Last edited Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:25 AM - Edit history (2)

Real purity tests might be something like getting pressured into giving an answer to a question that could end up featured on a damaging TV ad, or other form of messaging down the road because it was so out of step with the mainstream, even if the person giving that answer had good intentions.

maxsolomon

(38,011 posts)
70. I know exactly what you're referring to.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 01:02 PM
18 hrs ago

That ad 100% struck a chord with "culturally normal" voters. It's willful blindness to refuse to acknowledge it.

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
45. He's saying to drop the purity tests.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 10:52 AM
20 hrs ago

He is saying to quit pushing purity tests.

The purity tests have alienated voters, Then we lose. So he is saying to not be so judgmental over purity tests and alienating voters.

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
51. He's definitely not on the spectrum that alienates voters with
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:08 AM
20 hrs ago

purity tests.

The resistance to this common sense suggestion is very noticeable in this thread where people want to attack him for not being pure enough.

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
55. We've all seen enough of this insistence and labeling of
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:21 AM
19 hrs ago

politicians that is based on nothing but purity tests.

Emile

(39,752 posts)
58. Purity tests, on which side of the spectrum are you talking about?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:24 AM
19 hrs ago

The one that keeps insisting we can't win in red districts unless we run a centrist?

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
60. Centrist is really the obvious purity test. A way of smearing our candidates
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:57 AM
19 hrs ago

for not being pure enough.

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
71. The purity test smear is obviously that being normal, as in not being
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 01:57 PM
17 hrs ago

fringe, is a smear. This is a circular nonsensical disinformation campaign now, as the smear is that leading from the center is somehow a bad thing. Hence the smearing of most good Democrats. It’s not a bad thing to not alienate most voters who are in the center.

Emile

(39,752 posts)
73. Are you saying , if you are not a centrist, you are fringe?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:07 PM
17 hrs ago

When someone says we can't win in a red district unless the candidate is centrist, isn't that smearing progressives?

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
93. Denying there is a political middle isn't "progressive."
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 05:00 PM
14 hrs ago

It’s just denial. Denying political realities isn’t “progressive.” It’s just a disinformation campaign based on purity tests.

Emile

(39,752 posts)
95. You still haven't answered my two questions.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 05:03 PM
14 hrs ago

1. If you are not a centrist (Political Middle), you are fringe?

2. When someone says we can't win in a red district unless the candidate is centrist, isn't that smearing progressives?

3. Where did I deny political realities?

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
97. I doubt you need my answers to any of your distractions to
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 06:34 PM
12 hrs ago

common sense and simple political truths. The insistence on victimization because the wrong candidate in the wrong district is just plain dumb politics doesn’t need anyone’s time to explain.

Emile

(39,752 posts)
98. You just described a purity test! Thank you!
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 06:48 PM
12 hrs ago

Wrong candidate in the wrong district is just plain dumb politics (according to one wing of the party).

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
99. Your contrived set up was the purity test. Just run a candidate because
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 07:14 PM
11 hrs ago

of magic words we like with no regard to actually winning. That’s a beauty contest, not a political campaign.

Newsom is focused on actually winning. Yay.

Emile

(39,752 posts)
100. You do know there are 6 wings to the democratic party?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 07:23 PM
11 hrs ago

Showing disapproval to one of the wings, is not a way to win elections.

betsuni

(28,586 posts)
72. Centrist/establishment/status quo/corporate Dems: anti-progressive, corrupt, elite Them. Us: Righteous victims.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:05 PM
17 hrs ago

Redefining and weaponizing words to create Us versus Them division. Nearly every day Jeffries or Schumer are nitpicked to purity hell and back and Democrats lavishly insulted.

Centrist is the new establishment as an insult but it just doesn't sound as impressive, could be the name of a multivitamin supplement.

LAS14

(15,449 posts)
56. Curiosity here - not trying to make a point.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:22 AM
19 hrs ago

For sure members of the left (my church, see post up thread) can be characterized as leading with issues like pronouns and land acknowledgement, but what public Democrats do? I think even AOC and Bernie lead with economic issues these days.

So where does the whole party get this reputation? If it's not based on fact, how can we fight it?

As I said, genuine question, not a position in an argument.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
67. I think Democrats should make your point - that public Democrats are not leading with those issues
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 12:44 PM
18 hrs ago

or indeed making them minor issues (that is, saying other people should be paying more attention to them; I'm sure many Democrats have "specified their pronouns" somewhere, but there's a difference between that and saying that everyone ought to do it).

When a MAGA talking point is not based on fact, say so - say they're making stuff up. And say that means they are not trustworthy.

bucolic_frolic

(53,543 posts)
76. We lead with tolerance
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:44 PM
16 hrs ago

but get pasted with extreme micro-examples of its implications.

We should keep returning to the broad princples instead.

BlueTsunami2018

(4,799 posts)
77. Focusing on the wrong things all the time.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 02:53 PM
16 hrs ago

It’s class, class, class. That should be the beginning and the end of it. Working class vs. ruling class is all there really is.

Any time you’re asked about any of this stupid, divisive, culture war shit, you answer with class.

“How do you feel about transgender people?”

“They’re in the working class and it’s all of us against the ruling class. We need universal healthcare, education, housing and employment. There’s no reason why all the wealth should go to the very few when the people who create that wealth get nothing.”

“Black lives matter vs. all lives matter?”

“Improving conditions for the working class is what we’re focused on. Ending poverty with universal healthcare, housing, education and employment. There’s no reason, in the richest country in the world, that everyone shouldn’t have their basic needs met.”

Name the culture war issue, that’s the answer. Always spin it back to working class and improving their lives.

But these politicians continue to buy into the division. Because the people who buy them want it that way.

BannonsLiver

(20,170 posts)
81. Would that also be the response when a member of that community asks one of our politicians how they feel about them?
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 03:15 PM
15 hrs ago

Somehow I’m not sure that would go over very well in that community, which is why what you’re proposing doesn’t quite work. Sounds great though. But in practice it doesn’t cover all the bases. I’m glad Newsom is staking out this territory now. It’s one of many reasons why I plan on voting for him should he run.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
84. If you think he's staking out territory well, what do you think his answer would be
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 03:47 PM
15 hrs ago

to a transgender or Black person who asks him how he feels about them?

"We have to be more culturally normal. We have to be a little less judgmental. We have to be a party that understands the importance and power of the border substantively and politically." ?

Do you really think that "covers all the bases", for a transgender or Black person?

BannonsLiver

(20,170 posts)
85. He answered that in his podcast some were pressed about in March.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 03:51 PM
15 hrs ago

It doesn’t sound like you’re going to be voting for him in the UK Democratic primary lol.

muriel_volestrangler

(105,357 posts)
86. Give me a link
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 03:54 PM
15 hrs ago

Google what - "transgender person asks Newsom on his podcast what he thinks of him"?



https://calmatters.org/commentary/2025/03/gavin-newsom-podcast-trans-community/

https://www.politico.com/news/2025/03/06/gavin-newsom-breaks-with-democrats-on-trans-athletes-in-sports-00215436

Those are the top 3 results. Looks like he alienated the trans community, doesn't it? Not the result you're hoping for.

Shipwack

(2,952 posts)
108. Telling, or maybe I've been busy?
Sat Dec 6, 2025, 07:02 AM
11 min ago

I deeply regret the error. I’ve tried to change it a couple of times, but I keep getting an error message in tiny script that I can’t read on my phone.

Nothing nefarious about it not being corrected. I’ll endeavor to be more careful in the future.

demmiblue

(39,063 posts)
96. I, for one, will never vote for him in the primary if he runs.
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 06:03 PM
13 hrs ago

In the general, I always vote D.

MorbidButterflyTat

(4,019 posts)
103. Let's see...
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 07:39 PM
11 hrs ago

Three tiny, cryptic paragraphs taken out of context critical of an effective Democrat. Hm.

Purity testing 101. Fastest, easiest way to divide Dems.

So predictable it's boring.

Nixie

(17,927 posts)
106. +1, yes, so desperate to continue the coveted victimization
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 10:01 PM
9 hrs ago

when reality is this has all gone unchallenged far too long. Thank goodness for Newsom daring to start critiquing the critiquers.

The Bopper

(271 posts)
107. To me
Fri Dec 5, 2025, 11:16 PM
7 hrs ago

It means we'll never get enough middle of the road people back, if we insist that all we are is anything but white males should be included in the conversation.. In my area anything guns, loses, no matter how right it is.. Point being we can't include everyone if we exclude anyone who doesn't agree with us on one point who may agree on 10 others..

Shipwack

(2,952 posts)
109. OP here. I deeply regret spelling the governor's name wrong.
Sat Dec 6, 2025, 07:07 AM
7 min ago

No disrespect intended.

I’m not perfect, and haven’t had enough time to correct the mistake. I promise to be more careful in the future.

I’ve tried fixing the spelling, but I keep getting an error message in tiny print that I can’t decipher.

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